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Why does he do this?
I'm talking to a guy named Josh and we've been talking for about 2 weeks. During the last two weeks,we've texted a lot and hungout 4-5 times and kissed and held hands and all that.The last couple of days,he's been saying he will call me to hangout later.Yet he never did ,but then texted me apologizing for not being able to.We texted a few times and then he just stopped.Today at school,he told me he got in trouble with his parents and they might drug test him or something after school this day .He walked me to my locker,sat with me and my friends at lunch,kissed me before two different classes,put his arm around me,etc. today and told me he would call me later if he could chill.He hasn't called or texted ....I was thinking maybe his mom drug tested him and he got in trouble? or I don't know why he isn't texting me! Am I just overthinking? I guess im expecting so much and we've only been talking for 2 weeks. Help!
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Don't be too clingy. Guys (normally) take things a little slower. He may have gotten in trouble for something, so ask him when you see him at school. You may be overthinking, or he might have gotten into some trouble.
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Hi Writer,
You are definitely speeding things up a bit. Give him a little time, I'm sure he has good reasons for his actions. Give him the benefit of the doubt. If he proves to be worth it, you'll know you made the right choice; if he shows you otherwise, take it as a lesson well learned. Just remember in the future, near or far, to pace yourself. Good luck. :)
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