Im 16/f/sophomore, and i go to a public school. I've dated a few guys. One i dated for almost 2 years and that ended in heart break, and 2 guys that didnt really act like we were going out.
im in 4-H, and there, i met a guy who is home schooled. He is 2 years older than me (a senior), never had a girlfriend, and i dont get to see him much except for 4-H. We do talk on facebook though.
I really like him, and i am really nervous. i dont know if i should ask him out, or wait to see if he asks me out, and if i ask him out, what if i get rejected?
Also, just a random thing in this, he is a foot and a half taller than me. hahah
Please help me! i really dont know what to! dont just tell me to get courage and ask him, please give me some hints of how to get the courage, and some ideas of what to say.
Thank you so much! Sorry this was kind of a long question.
Shelly_x answered Monday January 11 2010, 11:13 am: You know what, Id leave it for a while. Get to know him more, talk to him more on facebook and maybe he will ask you out. If not then just ask a few of your friends, maybe your friends if they have boyfriends if they want to hang out or go to the cinema and invite him. The more you talk to him on facebook and hang out the better and something else may develop.
I hope this helps
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