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I am married but found a long lost love
Posted Thursday February 11 2010, 2:55 pm
When I was a teenager (almost 25 years ago) I had a boyfriend for 3 years. he was the only one I ever truly was "in love" with. All others after him seemed like love but it was never the same. We broke up because he cheated on me. But his excuse was he was "practicing" for me. It was lame. I was stubborn and hard headed and never forgave him. Over the years all of my bad decisions, and mistakes were because I still always loved him and still wanted to be with him. But he moved away and I thought it was too late. All these years I longed for him, dreamed about him, cried for him. I recently sent him a card because a family member passed away. I met him for coffee when he was in town and we talked for hours. We ...
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I told her
Posted Thursday February 11 2010, 2:19 pm
Im the guy who asked this
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=577346
Well i told her finnaly... i didnt have the balls to do it in person which im really kicking my self over so dont give me no stick for it.
she didnt take it well :(
i think she got attached too quickly, she came over today for the last time to collect her dvd's that she left over here. not that i didnt feel terrible before but now i feel even worse because it was a quick smile not even a hi. then a see ya and she turned and left. I wanted to talk to her but once again i was too much of a damn coward to even ask that... she seems really upset over this and i feel terrible. i cant go back on what i said because i just ...
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Would a guy date me?
Posted Thursday February 11 2010, 9:32 am
Hi,
A while ago, when I met this guy, I was pretty overweight. 200lb/5'5". My doctor told me I had a hormonal problem and he put me on BC which helped bring me down to 165 lbs.
I've been on a really strict diet and exercise plan but all it has done has maintained my weight. My doctor says to give it up because my family has a history of obesity (my mum is 225 lbs and my dad is 350 lbs) so it may be harder for me to lose more but I lost two pounds in the past month and that means I know I can do it but it'll probably take a bit longer than I hoped.
Anyway, I really like this guy, we're really good friends. I know he likes average girls. He has a picture of Jennifer Love Hewitt for his background when she was skinny ...
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She is gone.
Posted Thursday February 11 2010, 5:37 am
18/m
Alright, well for the past 4 months I have been completly.. (I don't think words can describe it? I don't want to say love, But I don't know) with this girl, but being me, I never said anything. Although, I'm fairly sure she knew. Well, last night I was talking to her, and she said that she wished she had dated me, Pathetically, my answer was "Thanks" I mean seriously wtf is that. Well, this couldn't have been better timing, because now she is moving 500 miles away, Tomorrow. Now, my question? well.. I don't know what I should do? Any ideas? This just sucks. I feel as though there is nothing I can do, which is killing me.
P.S This entire scenario is so out of character for me. Usually, I'd have ...
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valentines day
Posted Wednesday February 10 2010, 10:57 pm
what are some cute things couples can do for valentines day? Me and my boyfriend have only been together for less than a month so we don't want it to be like expensive and all that.Just cute and casual and spontaneous.We're both 17 and I can drive.So any suggestions? thanks!
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i like this boy..
Posted Wednesday February 10 2010, 10:52 pm
okay so i like this boy brian. i want to talk to him more without seeming clingy or annoying. i'm nervous to text him unless i've been drinking. i need some help!
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Scared of love?
Posted Wednesday February 10 2010, 7:29 pm
my boyfriend and i have been dating for a little over four months. i thought we were happy, but recently i found out he doesn't know what he wants anymore or whether he's even happy. in the beginning, we used to talk for hours on end. gradually things changed. he's never had a serious relationship before and i think that maybe he's afraid to be a part of one. when we're together, things are really good... but it seems like the closer we get, the farther he wants to push me away. i really care about him and his happiness. i suggested a break so he would have time to sort his thoughts and feelings. if you have questions, so you can get a better understanding, let me know. otherwise, what is your take on this? he's really sweet and he's a good guy.
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Need romance in my marriage!
Posted Wednesday February 10 2010, 11:28 am
hi there
well my husband and i were talking and he happened to bring up the lack of romance in the marriage on his part. im not gonna lie, he isnt really the romantic type at all. not that it bothers me, ive become more accustomed to it that i dont even know what to do or even to tell him what to do when he asks how he could become better at it. he feels a bit insecure about it, i can tell by the way he talks about it. he says "no wonder you're so unhappy" and stuff like that. so when he asks me what he could do better i dont really know what to tell him.
my question is, well, how can he be more romantic?
without making him look whipped or anything cause if it does i believe he will have a problem wi...
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stop judging me
Posted Wednesday February 10 2010, 11:19 am
17/f and 16/m
my boyfriend and i have been going out for 8 months.. technically 9, and we havent done anything sexual. i mean, we have made out and hes felt me up but we havent gone farther than that. im waiting until im older to have sex, preferably married or engaged and he wants to wait too.
but heres the thing, when people ask me if ive had sex yet, and i say no.. they act all surprised and are like, WHY NOT?!! ITS BEEN 8 MONTHS, THATS SO LONG!!
even my parents think ive done sexual things with my boyfriend, and i HAVENT. ive never done anything sexual with anyone. why doesnt anyone believe me? and also, i get honesty box messages on facebook that say, "i dont know why your boyfriend is still with you if you ...
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Crush on a classmate... :(
Posted Wednesday February 10 2010, 9:48 am
15/f,freshman
There is this boy in my class who I've constantly fought with.He insulted me and stuff...and then 2 weeks ago our teacher made us sit together in class.I was really frustrated in the beginning but after a few days we actually started getting along and now I've fallen for him.I don't even know when it happened.I heard from my best girl friend in class that at the end of the first term,he asked her to help him get with me.She started complimenting him in front of me but I said I'd never like him cause he's mean,and apparently he heard it and got really disappointed,so he tried to get my attention by insulting me,and he told her to stop trying.The problem is now I like him,I'm not sure he likes me back after all and I desp...
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Getting "saved"?
Posted Wednesday February 10 2010, 12:07 am
Hey, so, I have this boyfriend who I've been going out with for about 3 months now. He's the sweetest guy I've ever met and a die hard Christian. I go to church with him every Wednesday night, and our friends tag along. I've been a Christian for most of my life, but there was this period during middle school where I wasn't exactly sure if it was really the right thing for me. I think I may still have a few doubts, but I go with him anyway because all our friends go to, and I figure it might change my mind eventually. However, my boyfriend keeps pressuring me to get saved and give my life to Christ, but I don't think I'm ready for it yet. I've told him multiple times that I feel like he's pushing me into it, but it doesn't seem to make a dif...
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the perfect song?
Posted Wednesday February 10 2010, 12:03 am
Hello im 18/f and i recently got engaged! I'm so in love and happy its ridiculous. I was trying to find the perfect song to relate to my situation. Just the excitment of planning a wedding and everything. He is going to be gone for a year in afghanistan though but we plan on getting married when he comes back. Any kind of music really, country, pop, hip-hop i like anything :)
Thanks!
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All we talk about is love?
Posted Tuesday February 9 2010, 11:40 pm
17/F
Boyfriend is 17 also
We've been going out for 3 months
Ok, now that the introduction is over, let's move right along into the question!
Well, my boyfriend is an amazing guy and we get along beautifully. I could honestly see spending the rest of my life with a guy like him. However, he's SUPER shy. He never talks to anyone. He's just very quiet and focused. Sometimes I even have a hard time getting him to talk. When I do get him to talk, we usually talk about how much we love each other. Now, don't get me wrong, it's wonderful and he makes me feel like the luckiest girl in the world. I was just wondering... Is this normal? Like, do couples in healthy relationships basically only talk about ho...
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mono. not kiss my boyfriend???
Posted Tuesday February 9 2010, 7:50 pm
I'm fourteen. My boyfriend is sixteen. We've been dating for about three and a half months.
He has mono...
Mono can last like five months or longer... Am I really supposed to not kiss my boyfriend for five months???? :( please help.
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I think I may have a serious problem
Posted Tuesday February 9 2010, 6:03 pm
I met my husband when I was 17 and just coming out of a really bad relationship. We ended up getting married and having children.
Since we have been married I have had two emotional affairs with male friends, one about 6 years ago and one about 4 years ago. Honestly at firt it was all about the attention. I crave the rush of knowing that someone is interested in me even though I love my husband and I don't want to leave him. I eventually told my husband about the affairs and he is being as supportive as he can be. I never had sex with either of them (I did kiss them however) and I never really had the intention of consumating the relationship but on the other hand I really believed I was in love with the second one. The probl...
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I'll have a large miscommunication with "I forgot my phone" and a work...
Posted Tuesday February 9 2010, 1:41 pm
22/f, he's my age.
I recently got out of a relationship with a VERY sensitive guy, and it was a LONG relationship, so this all feels very new to me...
I had a very short, very tightly scheduled coffee date with a guy from a class I no longer attend. I was at work until half an hour before we were supposed to meet, and was actually at the coffee shop on time, but never called him to confirm. I didn't know he wanted me to call him beforehand, and I had forgotten my phone. I figured I'd just show up and we'd meet up. So that was my mistake, I guess.
I did call him back (an hour later) after I got his message asking if we were still on, telling him what happened, but he hasn't called me back yet. This was yesterday...
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the future freaks me out
Posted Tuesday February 9 2010, 10:21 am
So I am in love with my boyfriend. Its going to be 1 year this valentines day. Things are very good between us, and he is convinced were going to spend the rest of our lives together. I am 18 years old, he is 26. You see a problem there? At first I thought he was crazy when he said it but hes just so sure were gonna get married that hes starting to convince me of it.
Me, being the young, less experienced one want to believe that it will work out. I want to believe that everything will be perfect between us. Yet theres still so much I haven't experienced in life. He's doing his last 4 years of school, I'm starting my first 4 years. He's dated so much its almost ridiculous,and I've barely dated at all.
He says that bec...
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when starting a relationship...
Posted Tuesday February 9 2010, 6:04 am
i've never been in a relationship,but i am now for my first time.We haven't been together very long but my expectations were higher than I thought.My boyfriend isn't like most boyfriends I see or hear about. He doesn't call me to talk on the phone,we don't hangout everyday,he texts me a little bit but not that much and i usually have to make the plans when we hangout (since I drive).He is a very busy guy,but still he could atleast text me to say goodnight.whenever we text at night,it usually just results in him not answering because he fell asleep ,instead of him saying goodnight.He doesn't really say cute stuff often but before we were going out,he would offer to buy me lunch and be really nice and since we started going out and doing sexu...
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I Prefer a Small Penis: I had the best sex ever with a smaller penis?
Posted Monday February 8 2010, 10:32 pm
Alright so.. I'm just gonna start right from the beginning :P
In general, I'm normally attracted to men bigger and taller than myself. And as a rule (not always the case but in my experience, pretty much :P) taller men have larger penises. Soo just by default, I have always been with men who are reasonably well-endowed.
But this Halloween I ended up getting thoroughly intoxicated & hooking up with a guy that was totally not my type. Short, cute but in a very boybandish kind of way (lol), smaller penis than what I was used to.
& the sex was the best I've ever had!
We hooked up a few more time and he was consistently great, so it wasn't a matter of just being too high&drunk the first time to judge accur...
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the perfect guy has a gf !
Posted Monday February 8 2010, 9:12 pm
I'm head over heels with a guy that has a serious girlfriend. Him & me are good friends, but I don't know the girlfriend that well. I don't want to be a 'homewrecker' but I truly like him more and more everyday. I haven't felt this way in years, so when I feel it, it's real. We basically act like bf/gf, and other people are noticing it. I know that if I had a boyfriend, I wouldn't want some girl being all over him, so I don't cross any lines. I flirt and I just want him to know that there's other options out there. He's a genuine good guy that would never cheat. I think he's getting tired of his relationship, and I can't avoid him because we see eachother almost every other day, and I honestly don't want to. What am I supposed to do about all this? [19/f]
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