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She is gone.


Question Posted Thursday February 11 2010, 5:37 am

18/m

Alright, well for the past 4 months I have been completly.. (I don't think words can describe it? I don't want to say love, But I don't know) with this girl, but being me, I never said anything. Although, I'm fairly sure she knew. Well, last night I was talking to her, and she said that she wished she had dated me, Pathetically, my answer was "Thanks" I mean seriously wtf is that. Well, this couldn't have been better timing, because now she is moving 500 miles away, Tomorrow. Now, my question? well.. I don't know what I should do? Any ideas? This just sucks. I feel as though there is nothing I can do, which is killing me.

P.S This entire scenario is so out of character for me. Usually, I'd have asked her out straight away. She is just.. Different. (You know, that different which is just unexplainable?)


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Additional info, added Thursday February 11 2010, 9:57 pm:
She is moving to University. And I have landed an almost perfect job here..

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sunshine1232 answered Thursday February 11 2010, 3:27 pm:
I don't think there's much you can do truthfully since she's moving long distance relationships usually don't work everything happens for a reason you've got to realize that there was nothing you could of done to stop her from moving it was going to happen either way you can't beat yourself up over it seeing as it wasn't your fault in a sense you were caught off guard her telling you she was moving was unexpected she told you at the last minute yes your hurting because things didn't work out and some things aren't meant to be and in your situation that's the case it wasn't meant to be between you two the good thing is that there's plenty of other girls out there your best option is to move on you could try telling her how you feel just to give yourself piece of mind and you'll know that at least you tried your best(:

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Sweet_LiL_Angel answered Thursday February 11 2010, 2:52 pm:
What is her reason for moving is there anyway to convince her to stay? Is it an option for you to go? If not everything happens for a reason. Weather you go together or no maybe years down the road you till will run into each other and get your second chance.

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inevitable_pain16 answered Thursday February 11 2010, 10:19 am:
Okay I just tell you right now that no girl can read your mind. Not all girls can tell when a guy is silently telling them that they love them. Even though she is moving, she still deserves to know how you feel, am I right? She is moving so what is the worst that can happen? She might even have feelings for you, but you won't know unless you ask. Trust me when I say that everything will be okay. You say she is a different kind of girl and if that is true than let her know that, that is why you love her and what makes her unique. Just be calm and go for it.

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