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should I be worried about this?
Posted Friday March 26 2010, 3:10 pm
so ive been dating this guy for coming on 6 months not we are really close and we get along perfect.unfortunetly we dont go to the same school... at his school he has a friend that is a girl. lets call her...kim. anyways so kim has told him that he finds him cute and that his girlfriend (me) is the luckiest girl in the world.. also she is constantly wrighting in his face book wall and texting him.. she claims that she really wants to meet me and hangout with me but for some reason it really bothers me.
am i just being over protective? what should i do?
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My Relationship problems... what should i do?
Posted Friday March 26 2010, 6:22 am
~Male,15~ . I met this girl at a military ball on Saturday (last weekend).Then on Monday we started talking more and we start going to the basement of the school ever since Monday to Hug up on each other ( other peoples be down there sometime to). Here come my first problem i don't know when the right time to kiss her and i don't want to talk to her about it ( so any advice on that am thankful for). Now i got her friends walking up to me threaten me.Today her friend told me to keep my hand off her ( the girl i like). I ignored her and walk away and i still didn't keep my hands off and my girl don't know nothing about her friend walking up to me cause i didn't tell her. Me and her business is spreading around the school like HIV. here my las...
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How to keep this guy
Posted Friday March 26 2010, 12:11 am
what's something you can say to a guy to make him yours forever, well not forever but just to make him stay with you.
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I don't want to be "that" girl.
Posted Thursday March 25 2010, 11:16 pm
So me and my bf have been together for a year and at the beginning, i always told myself that i wouldn't be that stereotypical clingy girlfriend. But I find myself demanding or wanting more attention lately. I don't want to be annoying, so how do i tell him that i want him to hang out with me as opposed to his friends (for example) in a good way?
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oppasites attract
Posted Thursday March 25 2010, 7:20 pm
im dating a guy, were not boyfriend girlfriend yet though because i said im not ready, again. but the thing is were oppasites and nothing alike so would it work? we have none of the same friends and were in different grades but hes sweet and knows the perfect things to say to make me smile and very buff. he is a jock, muscle head, hunter and somewhat self centered but i like him alot :) ..i am all about art and music, am a vegetarian, and i like to keep people guessing i wont brag or even tell em what they want and he is against smokeing and i smoke sometimes. id be his first girl that is serious, as iv had a few guys in the past. i can drive and he cant, but when we are together nothing matters we can talk about nothing and the smiles not...
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a girl who let me hug her and put me my arms around her ..
Posted Thursday March 25 2010, 10:50 am
i have this girl in my school and she is real cute. so i had the guts to ask her to come to me and i had asked her to hug me while i was sitting and she did. so she asked me what i was doing and left. i was just lookin at her. the next few days my friend had talked about her and she was behind me and us so i had put my arm around her and sweet talk her telling her i missed you and i was just wanting to see what she wud say to me. so i dont know what it means if i should keep doing what i am doing. and is she comfortable ?
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I hate it when ppl say i don't know what "love is"
Posted Thursday March 25 2010, 9:55 am
14 f
Alright, I'm sick of people saying that I don't know what love is. My friend Cierra thinks the same. She's in a relationship with her bf they have been dating for 3 years, and she says that anyone can be in love at almost any age. My bf is the guy I want, he helps me feel better when no one else can. I sometimes cry and pray to god that he won't take him away from me because I have never been treated this well before. I"ve dated 3 other guys than him in the past and they never came close to be this close to me. Him and I think the same, and feel and worry in the same ways. We both need each other or we will be lost, we wouldn't know how to get threw life. We both feel like outcasts, alone and we don't fit in* even ...
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ugh i made a BIG mistake for falling for him.
Posted Thursday March 25 2010, 9:13 am
Hey so this is the same girl who has a crush on the boy in my art appreciation class. Well he gave me his business card, and after class i took the stairs & i was texting my dad. Well he came down and saw me and i think he gave me a weird look cause he might've thought i was waiting him, but i wasn't. And then later on i kinda did something really stupid i called from a blocked 3 times. im really embarrassed, but then i next day i called him , and he didn't answer, and yesterday he saw me and gave me a weird look again, so i didn't sit with him. He walked in and saw i was sitting somewhere else, and when he sat down he looked at me a few times, but i looked away. Then later that night, i called him, but he didn't answer. So i texted ...
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Posted Thursday March 25 2010, 8:52 am
SO.
Last summer I met this guy when I was on vacation and we a quite a passionate couple of days there. :) When we got back from each of our vacations, we had about three weeks because after that he was leaving the country to study. So we went out twice. The last week that he was supposed to be here I didn't hear anything from him (I had texted him to maybe organize another date before he left or something) and at the end of the week he sent me "I can't be with you." and something about how he didn't want to hurt me even more later or something (I don't remember :P). He had already mentioned that he didn't want to have a long diastance relationship but we hadn't really discussed it very much. I was thinking it would be sort...
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Going to tell her.....anything I need to add or do differently?
Posted Thursday March 25 2010, 4:50 am
There's this girl at school(we'll just call her K) and I love her, no not I have a crush on her, but love. Recently, I told her I loved her by following her advice, but messed up horribly(if you would like to know how, you can e-mail me at bcelaya12@gmail.com) and so now I thought maybe I could try again, but this time do it right. So this is how I'm going to tell her.....:
First I will say, "Hey K, can we talk really quick?" then she will reply how ever she pleases. Next, I will look into her eyes and say, " K H(representing her first and last names), I love you." Then it will either be, we become boyfriend and girlfriend, or I will break off our relationship for good. Is there anything I need to do differently o...
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Immature
Posted Thursday March 25 2010, 2:18 am
I never thought I would say this about myself but I have been acting quite immature lately. My boyfriend has been too, but I no longer only blame him. I realized something today thanks to advice from very smart people on this very site.
Thing is, I've kind of screwed things up with my boyfriend. I am significantly younger than him, not a ridiculous amount, and don't worry I'm over 18, but enough so that it makes a difference.
Anyway I've had unrealistic expectations about our relationship. He has made many many promises when we first started going out 3 months ago, and its really gotten to my head that I started making all these expectations. He hasn't pulled through with everything he promised, but at the same time I expect...
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Boyfriend doesn't want to go to prom :(
Posted Thursday March 25 2010, 12:29 am
We're both juniors, btw.
I've been dating my boyfriend for just about a year and we've always talked about going to both junior and senior prom. I was super excited! I've been looking at dresses and planning things and doing all this stuff. A couple of days ago my boyfriend comes up to me and says "We can't go to prom this year, I have to go to History Day." (For people who don't know who that is, it's like Science Fair except you do a project on history.)I was super upset. I was really looking forward to this... And he actually doesn't HAVE to go to HD, it's optional and he'd still get credit if other people from his group went. Plus, there are some other problems:
1. HD is in the day, prom is in the night. ...
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Can long-distance relationships REALLY work out when you're young?
Posted Wednesday March 24 2010, 10:57 pm
I've been dating this guy for a month now but he lives 3 hours away from where I live. He seems like a really nice guy but the long distance is making me nervous because everybody says it can't work out. We're both pretty young still (15 & 16) and so it makes me feel hopeless and, like...why am I even trying to be a good girlfriend, right? I don't know what to think right now. Is it possible for a long-distance relationship to really stand the test of time? Should I stick with this relationship or is it best if I move on to somebody closer to where I live?
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was i wrong?
Posted Wednesday March 24 2010, 6:16 pm
Okay so I know this is going to sound like an odd relationship, but my bf and i dont keep secrets from eachother. At all. Well at least thats how he wanted it to be. He told me he never minds if i look at his phone, or if i ask him anything he will always tell me, and he wants me to do the same...and i have been doing that, i always let him look at my texts or sometimes he will on his own nd i dont mind.
Now, last Saturday we got into a fight, and on Sunday we were together becuz we went to lunch with his family. He was texting his friend, and I asked him what about? and he didnt answer so I looked at his phone but he had deleted the convo. So I asked him, hey soo what did you talk about and he said some bs answer that was random. ...
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HALP
Posted Wednesday March 24 2010, 5:33 pm
So there's this girl.
She's smart/funny/pretty etc. etc. (read: I'm into her, a lot). She lives pretty far (a long plane ride) away, but that isn't really as big of a problem as it sounds because her job keeps her constantly on the road. I've met up with her a few times (every time she happened to roll through my city), and I keep in touch with her on AIM weekly, whenever she has a chance to get on.
The problem: She's famous. I use the word "famous" loosely because it's not like she can't go out in public without being mobbed, but if I had to guess I'd say she gets recognized by at least one person around half the time she goes out. I know the obvious next step is to just ask her out on actual date it...
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My Crush
Posted Wednesday March 24 2010, 10:00 am
Hola! I need sum Advice on how 2 seduce a man..! No seriously, Theres this dude that I like Very Much.Recently He gave me his phone number and since then we have been txtin alot. He goes to a community college out of town and he's coming home for spring break.Lucky for me, He stays like 2 minutes away from me. Anywho, He txted me one day and told me that he will be back in town on saturday and that his mom is leaving town and that she wont be present at all.(Which means that he will be home alone).So he asked me did I wanna come over. I really Like this dude and if I go over it could give us a chance to get a lil closer.But I have no clue on how to act if I do Go over. Like, What if he makes a move? What if he try's to kiss me? Is It ok 2 k...
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CRAZY for this guy...
Posted Wednesday March 24 2010, 9:37 am
21/f
I have what is akin to a high school crush on this guy. I hadn't seen him in about 4 months, but ran into him the other day at college. We talked and all like old times for an hour. Now the weird thing is, the way I know him is he is a friend of my ex.
My ex and I broke up 4 months ago and it was a nasty breakup. We were together for 3 months. When I ran into this guy the other day, he didn't really talk much about my ex except to say he was a real asshole for what he did to me and he barely sees him anymore.
When I was with my ex, this guy was always way nicer to me and would compliment me and pay attention to me. He would always say weird things like how I was better than his ex gf (who I never met) and how cool ...
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do guys just like to hook up or do they actually like the girls
Posted Tuesday March 23 2010, 11:47 pm
so I have thus really good friend and we talk a lot and he always brings up the one time we kissed, but it was nothing, and he always talks about how he wants to hook up with me and he always ask me if I want to hook up with him, and a couple days ago we were talking about how far we would ever go with each other..so do most guys just want to hook up or do they really like the girl?
we are both 16
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confusion
Posted Tuesday March 23 2010, 11:17 pm
i'm no cheater. i love my boyfriend to death. but lately i've been tempted. this guy that i used to have a huge crush on told me that he has always wanted me and he wants to sleep with me.
he doesnt know i have a boyfriend, and for some reason i didnt tell him. i think it was because i just enjoyed the sound of him raving about how sexy i am, and it made me feel important. i know my boyfriend finds me sexy, but hes not so open about it, especially since we cant have sex in his house or mine.
i just feel really terrible because for the past 4 days, sleeping with this other guy has been haunting my mind. i want him so bad, but i dont want to cheat and i dont want to dumb my boyfriend, either. i cant seem to have ...
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Love Vs. Sex.
Posted Tuesday March 23 2010, 10:59 pm
I love my boyfriend. He's been my best friend for as long as I can remember. The only reason why I'm contemplating breaking up with him is because I don't find myself sexually attracted to him.
I'm a very sexual person, and it's important to me... But am I being shallow?
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