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oppasites attract
im dating a guy, were not boyfriend girlfriend yet though because i said im not ready, again. but the thing is were oppasites and nothing alike so would it work? we have none of the same friends and were in different grades but hes sweet and knows the perfect things to say to make me smile and very buff. he is a jock, muscle head, hunter and somewhat self centered but i like him alot :) ..i am all about art and music, am a vegetarian, and i like to keep people guessing i wont brag or even tell em what they want and he is against smokeing and i smoke sometimes. id be his first girl that is serious, as iv had a few guys in the past. i can drive and he cant, but when we are together nothing matters we can talk about nothing and the smiles not drift off our faces and he always holds me so sweetly and non stop compliments between us, its just amazing. does the good outweigh the bad? we have nothing in common, but we met threw theater i am the main backdrop painter and he is a construction guy and also in track he was a thrower but quit and i am a sprinter still. would it work? what could we do as dates?
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I actually never believed in two people who have exactly everything in common to date lol because it would be so lame, that you just sit and talk with someone who shares everything like you, that would be like really boring, i mean, what would you talk about then, the same things?
Unlike when you're different, and each one has their one life, and when you come to share it, that's the part where its interesting, that you have different things to talk about, and maybe there would come a time, when your fields of interest could come in handy in helping one another.
Being opposites attracts you more, makes things more exciting,more to talk about, more to get to know about each other, and there will come a time, when you'd find little things that you have in common, and that would be nice then.
He sounds like he really likes you, and you do too, so why waste that because your interested in one thing and he's interested in another, what has this got to do with what you're feeling and that your inlove and that you care about each other, that you are even ready to overcome the bad things about him, like how he's self centered, its cause you love him ,and your blinded to see the little flaws he has, and i'm sure he does the same.
I think your perfect together, so don't waste that, cause if you do, you wouldn't find it elsewhere not even with the person you'd have everything in common with.
Hope i helped, please be free to contact me if you need anything else. Best of luck :D
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