Going to tell her.....anything I need to add or do differently?
Question Posted Thursday March 25 2010, 4:50 am
There's this girl at school(we'll just call her K) and I love her, no not I have a crush on her, but love. Recently, I told her I loved her by following her advice, but messed up horribly(if you would like to know how, you can e-mail me at bcelaya12@gmail.com) and so now I thought maybe I could try again, but this time do it right. So this is how I'm going to tell her.....:
First I will say, "Hey K, can we talk really quick?" then she will reply how ever she pleases. Next, I will look into her eyes and say, " K H(representing her first and last names), I love you." Then it will either be, we become boyfriend and girlfriend, or I will break off our relationship for good. Is there anything I need to do differently or anything I need to add?
Thanks in advance!
-musicissoul301
And if you have any questions about anything I just said, my e-mail is somewhere in there, just find it and e-mail me.
Additional info, added Thursday March 25 2010, 4:51 am: I'm 13(m). Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? sia answered Friday March 26 2010, 7:55 am: yeah i agree...dont say can we talk really quick. im really iffy about the idea of you telling her you love her.it may scare her away.i think you should start small and work your way up.so first ask her out on a date and get to know her.tell her that you like her alot instead of saying the L word.give her time to love you back.
next time yyou see her i think you should say hey K,i was wondering what you were upto on saturday.. do you wnat to go to the movies with me...something along those lines...remember start small and work your way up [ sia's advice column | Ask sia A Question ]
DearAbby92 answered Thursday March 25 2010, 10:10 pm: Well saying "can we talk real quick" isn't the most romantic way to go about it. Find a moment when you can be alone and things are going along good. Having the courage to tell her is great, but be prepared to handle it if she doesn't feel the same.
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