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SO.
Last summer I met this guy when I was on vacation and we a quite a passionate couple of days there. :) When we got back from each of our vacations, we had about three weeks because after that he was leaving the country to study. So we went out twice. The last week that he was supposed to be here I didn't hear anything from him (I had texted him to maybe organize another date before he left or something) and at the end of the week he sent me "I can't be with you." and something about how he didn't want to hurt me even more later or something (I don't remember :P). He had already mentioned that he didn't want to have a long diastance relationship but we hadn't really discussed it very much. I was thinking it would be sort of weird anyway to have a long distance relationship since I barely knew him and he would have tons of "temptations" as a college student. But I did REALLY like him. So then he left and we've been commenting on eachothers' status' and stuff on Facebook all year. When he was here for Christmas though he didn't mention us meeting or anything so I just sent him a Happy New Year message and he answered and whatever but that was it. Then about a month or a month and a half ago, I commented on one of his status' that he's really cute or something like that half jokingly but he took it seriously and also told me we should meet when he comes for Easter. And since then we have been flirting quite a lot on Facebook. xD :) What do you think about all this? Do you think he just wants someone to "play" with while he's here? I mean I REALLY REALLY like him and stuff and like I've watched the Notebook a million times and compared us to that and stuff xD but should I give in and do something with him when he comes (in a few days!) ? Why do you think I told me "he couldn't be with me" ?
Oh and from stalking his facebook (xD) he appeared to have a girlfriend where he is before or around Christmas. (I have had two boyfriends in the meanwhile but I broke up with both of them because what I really wanted was to be with this guy and I felt like I was teasing them)
Oh and it was also always sort of assumed that we would see each other again next summer.
And, sorry last thing, I'm going to go study next year in the same country as him (and he knows that from my facebook) so theoretically if we got together there wouldn't be the distance problem next year.
Thanks! :)
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I don't think you should "hook up" with him when he comes into town for a couple days, simply because if he is actually interested in you.. and wants it to be more than just a fling.. he won't mind just spending time with you.. make him want more.. keep him guessing and it'll either work out in your favor.. or he'll cut you off. BUT either way you'll have your dignity!
and if he does have a girlfriend.. and is trying to creep with you, because he knows she'll never find out.. you don't wanna be that girl. Because she will find out one way or another.. we all do!
Lol.. but again, your gonna do what you want.. I'm just giving you my opinion, on what i would do (:
GOOD LUCK BOO!
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