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I don't want to be "that" girl.
So me and my bf have been together for a year and at the beginning, i always told myself that i wouldn't be that stereotypical clingy girlfriend. But I find myself demanding or wanting more attention lately. I don't want to be annoying, so how do i tell him that i want him to hang out with me as opposed to his friends (for example) in a good way?
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Well first of all, being too clingy is not a good thing,it usually drives people off, but there is good clingy, where you and your boyfriend just love each other that you don't mind spending all the time together away from everyone else, you just can't get enough of each other.
You can tell him that you love him or that you miss him, or that you can't stay away from him, or that you want to spend every minute with him, or that you want him all by yourself, but the thing is, how you say it, don's say it in a way to give him the feeling that you are clingy or that you are stalking or something, just say it with love and if you really want to be with him all the time because you love him so much, he'll feel that. And besides, no matter how sometimes, he'll hang out with his other friends, he'll always be there for you if he really loves you.
And sometimes, they say that distance makes the love grow more, so being together all the time sometimes makes you get bored or you wouldn't have much to say or do, so sometimes its better when you miss each other, so then there would be love next time you meet.
Its not wrong that you want him all for yourself, and you want to see him all the time and you'd rather he spent the time with you than with his friends, its a normal feeling and its a good feeling, its cause you love him so much. You wouldn't be annoying if you tell him about it, maybe he'll compensate, maybe he'd go out less with his friends, and see you more.
Or maybe you should consider going out with his friends, if its like a group of guys and girls, maybe you'd get to know his friends and you'd like them and get along with them, and then it would be a chance for you to be with him more.
Hope i helped, if you need any other help, please be free to contact me. Best of luck :D
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Your boyfriend is entitled to his guy time it would be wrong of you to prevent him from that. If you want him to pay more attention to you just ask him if he wants to go for a walk, watch a movie and plan something together.
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