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should I be worried about this?
so ive been dating this guy for coming on 6 months not we are really close and we get along perfect.unfortunetly we dont go to the same school... at his school he has a friend that is a girl. lets call her...kim. anyways so kim has told him that he finds him cute and that his girlfriend (me) is the luckiest girl in the world.. also she is constantly wrighting in his face book wall and texting him.. she claims that she really wants to meet me and hangout with me but for some reason it really bothers me.
am i just being over protective? what should i do?
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She does obviously like him, and wants to hang out with you to get dirt or something.
Go ahead if you want, but everyone is right, you need to trust your boyfriend that nothing will happen between them.
They are friends, so don't force him to not talk to him, but let him know that you feel she likes him. But not in an accusing way, just concerned.
It's totally okay for it to bother you. You are human. YOU ARE A GIRL. It happens.
Meet her if you want, be careful what you say. Don't trust her.--She is not your new BFF.
But let your boyfriend know how you are feeling, maybe ask him if you two should hang out.
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i think you shouldn't trust her, she obviously likes your boyfriend, tell her boyfriend how you feel about her and him talking
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You're just being a girl, there is no girl in the entire universe that doesn't get intimidated by a girl friend that he boyfriend has. What you have to do is trust your boyfriend, if you know he loves/cares about you then be secure enough to let him be friends with her. Guys love it when their girl trusts them and doesn't panic just because he has a girl that is his friend.
& I also want to add that guys and girls CAN be JUST friends, my best friend just happens to a guy and also my exboyfriend, yes my husband had difficulties with it at first but once he got to know him he was fine with it. We are all best friends and hang out all the time together.
I advise hanging out with her and getting to know her, you will be able to tell if she is one of those girls would steal your man or is too nice for it :)
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Meet the hefer! And if she has any bad intentions you will feel them immeadiatly..
But make sure, even though you love your boyfriend.. don't rule out the fact that he COULD be just as guilty as she is..
I know personally, that if you hold all this in.. without doing something about it.. it will not stop.. and you'll only end up hurting yourself in the long run.
Best you find out the truth now.. rather a year or two down the road, right? (:
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Trust is really important in a relationship. You need to be able to trust that even if she wants him, your boyfriend will stay loyal to you. Telling him you don't trust him could just hurt him and make things worse. And you could always meet her, get to know her a little, and maybe you two will become friends too?
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