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ups and downs
Posted Wednesday March 31 2010, 2:24 pm
there’s this guy who i/‘i’ve like(d) for a really long time and he started talking to me one day and since then we’ve been talking everyday. and we’re like two grades apart so we don’t really talk in school much because we don’t have classes together.
so anyways... i’m pretty sure he likes me now but i’m starting to stop liking him. and it’s not about the chase anymore because for so long i’ve been trying to figure it out - at first, i’ll admit, it was about the chase, but now i’m trying to figure out what’s keeping me from liking him.
i think it’s mostly because i’m so scared of being let down, or maybe even i’m really embarassed (he’s not popular... and i know that shouldn’t mat...
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how to pursue him?
Posted Wednesday March 31 2010, 11:26 am
16/f/uk
I'm really interested in this guy. I saw him around college a few times and was very attracted to him, then found myself in a situation where I was with him and a lot of others for an hour. Although we never directly spoke to each, there was a lot of eye contact, secret smiles, eyeing each other up, him watching me etc.
Problem is, he has recently got a girlfriend. Like I said, we've never spoken to each other, & I hardly get the chance to see him.
He goes to the same college as me, I know some people he knows (though not well), from his fb profile I know we have similar taste in music. I've added him on facebook but we havn't spoken.
How can I pursue him?
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Should i stay or leave?
Posted Wednesday March 31 2010, 3:29 am
I'm 18 years old and a girl. I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year and a half. We dont really fight much but when we do its usually about his family. They dont like me at all. Which i think its fine doesnt bother but what i dont like is that they want me to respect them when their constantly saying things about me and mean things to me. His older brother who's 23 calls me immature and tells me i need to grow up. He's always making fun of me and once he even said he's gonna burn his clothes because he touched me. if that isnt bad enough my boyfriends sister hates me too now i called someone a jerk and she thought i meant her brother and now is giving a bunch of crap when it didnt even deal with their family.
I'm tired...
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How do I have "The Talk" with my new boyfriend?
Posted Wednesday March 31 2010, 2:33 am
20/f, dating a 20/m
My boyfriend and I have been dating for just about two weeks now, and I'm very very happy with him. But I'm really anxious about discussing sex with him.. in my last relationship, we rushed into sex and slept together after only 10 days. It set an unhealthy precedent for our relationship and this time I really want to wait. My new bf and I have made out, but that's it. He's too polite and shy to bring it up, but I know its on his mind, judging by his attitude when we're making out and it gets pretty heavy..
I don't want to rush into sex, but I'm not sure how to start that dialogue with him. I don't even know if he's a virgin or not, and I really want to know but I don't want to just ask him ...
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What to do!
Posted Wednesday March 31 2010, 1:12 am
17/f
so there's this guy at my school that I think I kinda like. I feel soo dumb for havin a sort of crush bein 17 but I can't exclactly help it. Okay so the problem is he doesn't have a facebook an I don't have his number so i don't know that to do...I have pe with him but I don't know how to just go up and randomly start talkin to him. And how would I get his number if I did because I don't wanna seem like a creeper. We have hung out once before at my best friends block party but thy was a while ago and we barely talk. I get the feelin that if I were to take initiative that he would want to talk to me but I just don't know how!!! Please help I wanna talk to him but don't know how to go about it! Thanks in advance!!
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will I look desperate?
Posted Tuesday March 30 2010, 11:54 pm
Long story short... guy I like asks me to a party at his house. It's a 'housewarming' for his new housemate, who I've never met. This guy and I don't know each other that well.. we were friends through my ex and have been bumping into each other a bit at college recently. Anyway he invited me in person and told me he'd send me the facebook invite after I asked him to, but he hasn't... even though he's been online. I won't see him at college before the party and I'm wondering if I'm actually properly invited or whether he just being nice. Like I said it's technically for his housemate who I don't even really know. This party is like, my chance to actually get with this guy but I don't want to turn up if it's going to look weird. I also forge...
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Arguing more
Posted Tuesday March 30 2010, 11:16 pm
Hello i recently got married and my husband has pointed out that i argue with him a lot. I've noticed it too. Whenever he says something or points something out i always have to argue with him and tell him he's wrong. Like for example today he was telling me about a certain breed of dogs and their behavior and immediately without even thinking i started arguing saying thats not true. I've never been like that before. Also i tend to pick fights and get mad easier. Does anybody know why this is and how to fix it? I'm doing my best but i still pick fights and i dont want it to ruin my marriage :(
Thanks!
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How to handle a break up
Posted Tuesday March 30 2010, 6:07 pm
My boyfriend broke up with me 4 days ago..we were dating for about 3 months.He was my first REAL boyfriend (im 17) and it was like a real relationship where we talk and hangout and bond ALOT .So you could say for my first relationship it was pretty serious.He broke up with me because "he started to see me as a friend and i was clingy" .I had no idea this was coming so i was devastated.He went on vacation and will be back on Thursday and hasn't spoken to me since the breakup ..except one text .I've been an absolute wreck ,crying the minute i wake up,being upset most of the day and probably crying during the day and ofcourse at night too for the last 4 days. Each day is harder for me because all the songs on my ipod,we used to liste...
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snooping
Posted Tuesday March 30 2010, 12:26 am
19/f
so my boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months now and we're so in love. We trust each other and that's a big deal with us. Except I screwed up...
Today I snooped through his computer and found a lot of upsetting things. Not too serious, no cheating, but I'm still really upset and I feel played. I don't want to talk to him about it, especially because I was in the wrong to snoop. But I can't get over this feeling and he knows something is wrong.
I don't know if I just ruined my relationship bc this is the kind of thing thats hard to get over and I can't look at him the same. But I love him so much, so how do I forget it and move on?
Please help, I'm lost.
P...
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Parents and Girlfriend
Posted Monday March 29 2010, 8:25 pm
18/f
So, I've been with my girlfriend now for 7+ months and my parents found out that they were dating since December or January, but she doesnt seem to like my girlfriend very much, and my girlfriend doesnt like the way she's being treated and it's driving me crazy. My mom wants me to be with a guy, and my girlfriend wants me to be with her. And I want to be with her, but the way she behaves sometimes makes my mom wonder if she really loves me. Butsometimes I think it's because of the way my mom is treating my girlfriend. Today we went to the mall to pick out my prom dress. My mom and I held hands and I guess my girlfriend felt left out, but she was walking ahead of us and I called her twice, but she ignored me the second time. She ...
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ok
Posted Monday March 29 2010, 7:02 pm
Dose geting fingerd count 4 not being a virgin
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Right or wrong?
Posted Monday March 29 2010, 5:25 pm
Most guys don't want you to come crawling back to them right? because my boyfriend just VERY recently broke up with me and hasn't talked to me.I plan on not contacting him,changing my relationship status,changing my facebook picture,and making my status's look like im moving on because I know he will see them.I want him back more than anything.Am I doing the right thing by pretty much not acknowledging him? Usually I end up begging and repeatedly contacting and it has NEVER EVER worked.advice?
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Do you think he forgot about me yet?
Posted Monday March 29 2010, 5:17 pm
My boyfriend broke up with me about 2-3 days ago.We were together for like a little over 3 months,very attatched and were so happy.I had no idea the break up was even coming,it just popped up.Ofcourse I cried right then and there but when he texted me the next day saying" Hey i know you probably don't care but im sorry." and i responded with " i do care but i agree we needed some time apart" then he said "thanks for being cool about all this" and i didn't respond further.And we havent spoken to eachother since. My friends have talked to him and told me he's sad and my friends have told him that i'm a little sad too.Since I was to clingy before,I will refuse to text him first.I'm just wondering if he's forgotten...
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why did he kiss her
Posted Monday March 29 2010, 5:07 pm
female 16....i like this guy and he likes me but we both dont want relationships. he dont want one b/c of lacroose and im just not ready for one. im not ready b/c i have realyyyyyyy bad trust issues. anyway to my question he is on my friends bus and my friend was texting me and told me that he was kissing this other girl and i dont know what to do. i mean i really like him and it really hurt to find that out. and no one in our school knows that we talk and stuff so i guess he figured if he kissed her i wouldnt find out but i did. and i dont know what i should do about this whole situation. like in gona hang out with him this weekend b/c its spring break. so should i ask him about it or should i just leave it and see if he tells me. b/c i do...
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Boyfriend broke up w/me
Posted Monday March 29 2010, 12:12 pm
My boyfriend broke up with me ..2 and a half days ago.The only communication we had was a text he sent me the next morning and i responded and he responded one more time and I didn't write back.He's away on a mini vacation right now but I'm playing my cards right and not texting him and giving him space because that's his reason for breaking up with me.I miss him like crazy and I've never been so depressed ever.He told two of my friends(separately) that he's sad and misses me too.I wrote him a two page letter but I don't know when the right time to give it to him is. I don't know if he plans on talking to me when he gets back and I won't see him until school starts again (in like a week) unless we hangout ..which is doubtful.The letter isn'...
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A very confusing friendship..
Posted Monday March 29 2010, 4:51 am
I'm 16/f. Theres this guy(let's call him bob) and weve been friends for 2 years now. He liked me all last year but I had a boyfriend and whenever I was interested in bob, he wasn't interested in me. We were at the same school and we were pretty much best friends. It's been around two months since I switched schools and we are no where as near as good of friends as we used to be. I talk to him every once in a while and now I realized I REALLY REALLY like him. He's coming to my house in two days. My best friend(a girl) will also be here. How do I know if he likes me or how do I give him a hint that I have feelings for him without making it that obvious?
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break up
Posted Monday March 29 2010, 1:10 am
I'l summarize this as much as i can.Me and my boyfriend were only together for about 3 months but we got very attatched.We were together way to much,but didn't fight that much either.We would be with eachother from the minute we wokeup to the minute we went to sleep ..it seems like.He was the boyfriend that was my best friend as well.He broke up with me ..randomly.I had no idea it was coming. He said " he doesnt like me as much as he did,he sees me as more of a friend,i didnt give him enough space,etc" (typical breakup stuff) then he said "that im the coolest,cutest most amazing girl ever ".I cared way to much for him,i made him food,i wrote him cute letters,i drove him every where everyday,yes he acknowledged that I car...
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My CLOSE friend is 5 years older than me
Posted Sunday March 28 2010, 8:48 pm
My friend is a senior in high school and im not even a freshman yet. We been talking for about 4 years now. We're not together but we really love each other. The only we aren't together is because of what we kno everyone will say. My mother knows I talk to him and how i feel about him. She likes him and things he's very nice. He's graduating this year and plans on going away 2 college. I think that's great but im going to miss him. So my question is "Is it best for us to just stop talking now ?"
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my love life is failing
Posted Sunday March 28 2010, 7:26 pm
I'm a freshman in highschool and this year i've had a lot of "things" with people where it hasnt gotten farther then a hookup and just "i like you"& "i like you too". I really want a serious relationship but im on the verge of giving up because everytime I try and make a relationship work with someone it never does. Any advice?
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hooking up
Posted Sunday March 28 2010, 7:23 pm
I'm almost 16/f and yesterday i went over my friends house who's a guy and we hooked up. We only madeout and he went up my shirt but before we made out i was kind of teasing him by saying I was bad at making out and just stuff like that but when i eventually let him makeout with me it was kinda weird and I told him to rate me and he gave me a 5 which wasnt good. So idk i feel like im just not good at making out and i really want some tips on how to get better. cause every guy I makeout with does it differently so any tips?
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