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break up
I'l summarize this as much as i can.Me and my boyfriend were only together for about 3 months but we got very attatched.We were together way to much,but didn't fight that much either.We would be with eachother from the minute we wokeup to the minute we went to sleep ..it seems like.He was the boyfriend that was my best friend as well.He broke up with me ..randomly.I had no idea it was coming. He said " he doesnt like me as much as he did,he sees me as more of a friend,i didnt give him enough space,etc" (typical breakup stuff) then he said "that im the coolest,cutest most amazing girl ever ".I cared way to much for him,i made him food,i wrote him cute letters,i drove him every where everyday,yes he acknowledged that I cared to much ,,which drove him away.It's been two days and my friends have talked to him and to one of my friends he said "he knows he's gonna miss me" and my other friend said that he said " he was alright but sad " and that he had a sad look on his face the whole time they were with eachother.We haven't spoken a word to eachother really since the breakup.He was my first real boyfriend and he told me I was the only girl he ever loved and he's even cried to me 3 times and said he's never cried to anyone before.His family is down this week so he's been occupied with that and he's going to his brothers college (about 3 hours away) for a few days just to spend time away.I'm hoping when he comes back,he comes back to me to! Or i atleast hope he's thinking about me as much as I'm thinking about him.Since he broke up with me,i won't dare text him or call him..that's his job! He said he wanted a "break" but we both ended up taking it as a "break up"..We didn't have a nasty break up with yelling and screaming or anything.Do you think he'll come back?
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Maybe it's hard to tell or even say... Sometimes they comeback sometimes not. It depends on that person really. But one thing you canot do is not put your life on hold wating for his return... Because if you do and he don't come back you will be devastated.
I've really been in your shoes before and I have spent alot of time too much time with my ex. Maybe that's a some of the reason that he is my ex. But we all know that time apart mends the heart. And it makes it grow fonder. So that can be a mistake sometimes... So if you two were to get back togeather maybe that's something you need to change even if he does ask you to be around with you.
Hang out with your friends, family, time with yourself... And focus on the things you like and last but not least never make someone your all your entire because, if they leave you'll have nothing left...
Will he come back to you? I don't know Noone really knows but he. But until then focus mainly on yourself and the process of moving on...
The best of luck to you... and always
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I really hate to give you bad news, but no, I don't think he'll come back.
All the lines you were given about how he's going to miss you etc. were just that. Lines. They kept you from freaking out to much when he broke up with you. Kept the break up friendly.
Next time you get into a relationship, give the guy some space. Don't spend every waking hour together.
Most guys will feel you are smothering them. Being clingy. They want to date you, not be married to you.
Don't wait around for this guy yo change his mind. Go find a new one. :)
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