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What kind of trust issues does she have?
I met a new friend in my class well lets say we just started talking as a friend cause we only used to have those small talk.But I was kind of able to read her like her personality, shes shy,has trust issues,advice giver,sympathetic and introvert, bottles up her feelings and write it out instead and likes art she thought it was kinda scary how I knew I was able to read her and we started talking more because of that, well the thing is how can I open her up more? She has friends but shes scared to get close to people because in the past she had a best friend that was like her sister but her mom told her to not talk to her anymore and she was really really sad about it and since then she has trust issues and she said she doesn’t trust people in general I cant figure this out what kind of trust issues is this? Is she afraid that people will leave her once she gets close to them?
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Well I have one of my friend's like this. What you could do is listen to her, if she doesn't talk you ask her questions. After a while she'll open up and tell about her without your asking. You talk and share too. Know her interests and if you could together do something she'll be quite happy. If you care so much spend time with her and don't suddenly stop communicating with her for a long period. That would make her think she is forgotten and not important.
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She is probably afraid of becoming attatched and having to go through the same thing all over again. Plenty of girls have trust issues. Your friend doesn't want to let anyone have the ability to hurt her. The best way to get her to open up to you is by showing her you can be trusted. Tell her a little bit about yourself. Invite her somewhere where you guys will be able to have a nice conversation.
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