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Boyfriend broke up w/me
My boyfriend broke up with me ..2 and a half days ago.The only communication we had was a text he sent me the next morning and i responded and he responded one more time and I didn't write back.He's away on a mini vacation right now but I'm playing my cards right and not texting him and giving him space because that's his reason for breaking up with me.I miss him like crazy and I've never been so depressed ever.He told two of my friends(separately) that he's sad and misses me too.I wrote him a two page letter but I don't know when the right time to give it to him is. I don't know if he plans on talking to me when he gets back and I won't see him until school starts again (in like a week) unless we hangout ..which is doubtful.The letter isn't begging him to take me back..it's actually a letter thanking him for all the fun times we had and saying that I miss him and stuff like that.He has some of his stuff at my house and in my locker at school,so should I slip it in there? or wait for him to talk to me first? How should I do the letter?
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When my (now ex) boyfriend and I broke up, I was miserable, to say the least. Throughout our relationship, I would always write him little notes because he liked them and I loved writing them. So once we broke up, I wrote him a 4 page letter that was really very nice. I wasn't begging for him to take me back, but more so of how I appreciated him and loved him. It wasn't cheesy or lame at all.
However, (yes, there is a downside, sadly) the letter did me no justice. I had hoped maybe after he read my hard work of a letter, he would see what he really meant to me and our relationship would come together, and I was wrong. He appreciated my note, but it didn't help me at all like I thought it would.
You mentioned that he's said he misses you to your friends and that is perfectly fine. I don't want you to get your hopes up and think that once he reads the letter, he will come running back, because there are no guarantees. But you should do what you think is right for you. If that means giving him the letter, than so be it. But I just want to assure you that it's not set in stone that he will be adored immediately by the note.
I would either write in the note that he has some belongings at your house or I would tell him in person.
I really hope I helped, good luck :)
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A relationship is not a relationship if you only communicate through texting. You need to have verbal communication skills.
Personally, I would not write him a letter not to be harsh here but a letter is sounding desperate. I would approach him in person or call him on the phone and discuss it verbally. Texting all the time is a huge downfall on communication in a relationship.
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I would also write on the note that you have some of his stuff at your house. Just kinda throw that out there to him. Just make sure he gets it somehow, whether that means sticking it in his locker or whatever. You need to give him the space that he says he needs. Give him time to think about what he wants. If he really likes you and wants to be with you, then he will talk to you. He will want to come back, and he will have to get ahold of you somehow if he still wants to be with you. If he doesn't, don't stress, trust me, there is plenty of guys out there that would love to have a girlfriend!
Hope everything turns out for the best! Good Luck!!!
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