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Do you think he forgot about me yet?
My boyfriend broke up with me about 2-3 days ago.We were together for like a little over 3 months,very attatched and were so happy.I had no idea the break up was even coming,it just popped up.Ofcourse I cried right then and there but when he texted me the next day saying" Hey i know you probably don't care but im sorry." and i responded with " i do care but i agree we needed some time apart" then he said "thanks for being cool about all this" and i didn't respond further.And we havent spoken to eachother since. My friends have talked to him and told me he's sad and my friends have told him that i'm a little sad too.Since I was to clingy before,I will refuse to text him first.I'm just wondering if he's forgotten about me because I know if he's thinking about me,its only good things..because he said the only bad thing about me was i was to clingy.Do most boys forget about their ex girlfriends instantly? I havent stopped thinking about him ever since he broke up with me 2-3 days ago and he's on vacation now,but I'm just waiting for him to contact me...
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I could understand if yall were together for like at least a year...but 3 months? thats not even enough time to do anything. I would just move on. if he really wants to talk to you he will contact you.
DONT CONTACT HIM.
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Guys don't forget their exes, they just don't like to show emotion.
I just answered a similar question, and my advice for you is much the same: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location).
I know you want badly to get back with him, but I think expecting it is setting yourself up for heartache. This is not the same as thinking about him though; allow yourself to think about the good times and grieve over the lost relationship.
If it makes you feel better, send a single message that says you are sorry it's over, and if he ever changes his mind and wants to try again, you are open to it. Don't promise anything; don't expect anything. This is just enough to say "I did my best and it didn't work," allowing yourself to move on.
Good luck and much love!
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aw i hate break ups :[ but i wouldnt worry too much about it, its impossible for someone to just forget about someone instantly and if he hasnt contacted you yet its probably just because he is on vacation . if your friends told you he is sad about it he deff. has not forgotten about you . if you guys were very close and the only thing that was wrong was you being too clingy then things will more than likely work out . being clingy is almost every girls problem , but dont let that stop you from contacting him first . since its been a couple of days maybe you can text him and ask him how his vacation was . keep it casual dont get into the break up unless he talks about it first . ask him how he is and just keep the conversation to a minimum , kinda letting him know you still care and that your still there for him even if he is the one who broke up with you . if he does not answer the text do not text him more than once . just let it go and wait for him to respond to you .
i hope i helped , if you have any further questions feel free to ask (:
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