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My boyfriend broke up with me about 2-3 days ago.We were together for like a little over 3 months,very attatched and were so happy.I had no idea the break up was even coming,it just popped up.Ofcourse I cried right then and there but when he texted me the next day saying" Hey i know you probably don't care but im sorry." and i responded with " i do care but i agree we needed some time apart" then he said "thanks for being cool about all this" and i didn't respond further.And we havent spoken to eachother since. My friends have talked to him and told me he's sad and my friends have told him that i'm a little sad too.Since I was to clingy before,I will refuse to text him first.I'm just wondering if he's forgotten about me because I know if he's thinking about me,its only good things..because he said the only bad thing about me was i was to clingy.Do most boys forget about their ex girlfriends instantly? I havent stopped thinking about him ever since he broke up with me 2-3 days ago and he's on vacation now,but I'm just waiting for him to contact me... (link)
I could understand if yall were together for like at least a year...but 3 months? thats not even enough time to do anything. I would just move on. if he really wants to talk to you he will contact you.
DONT CONTACT HIM.



19/f
so my boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months now and we're so in love. We trust each other and that's a big deal with us. Except I screwed up...

Today I snooped through his computer and found a lot of upsetting things. Not too serious, no cheating, but I'm still really upset and I feel played. I don't want to talk to him about it, especially because I was in the wrong to snoop. But I can't get over this feeling and he knows something is wrong.

I don't know if I just ruined my relationship bc this is the kind of thing thats hard to get over and I can't look at him the same. But I love him so much, so how do I forget it and move on?

Please help, I'm lost.

P.s. Girls learn from me, DON'T SNOOP. I just wish I never saw any of that :( (link)
I made the mistake of getting my boyfriends password to FB and Myspace. BAD IDEA. you start making up things in your head, and it is nothing. Trust is a big part of a relationship. Your boyfriend is probably a good guy so cut him some slack :)


NO MORE SNOOPING.




My friend called to tell me that Ricky Martin has come out of the closet and has announced being gay but I just can't believe it. I'm a HUGE Ricky Martin fan, and have been since Livin' La Vida Loca came out, but this is a shocker. If he is REALLY gay then how did he have two boys? I know his twins are just a couple of years old or something...wow! Is he REALLY homosexual? (link)
I cant believe you even had to ask this question...


I'm 18 years old and a girl. I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year and a half. We dont really fight much but when we do its usually about his family. They dont like me at all. Which i think its fine doesnt bother but what i dont like is that they want me to respect them when their constantly saying things about me and mean things to me. His older brother who's 23 calls me immature and tells me i need to grow up. He's always making fun of me and once he even said he's gonna burn his clothes because he touched me. if that isnt bad enough my boyfriends sister hates me too now i called someone a jerk and she thought i meant her brother and now is giving a bunch of crap when it didnt even deal with their family.
I'm tired of all theses things and i really dont know if i should break up with my boyfriend or just tell his siblings to butt out of it? Anybody got advice for me?? (link)
I hope you boyfriend is sticking up for you. If he isnt you need to leave. You think its bad now...what if you get married, or have childeren. you need to think of the future.

its not fair to you to be treated like this. something has to give and it cant be you all the time.




are diet pills effective when paired with exercise? i know the common sense thing would just be to eat better, but i'm naturally pretty thin, so having a fast metabolism i've eaten horrible my whole life. also i live on a college campus so good nutritional food is hard to come by. i do go to the gym 3-5 times a week, so would diet pills help me speed up the process at all? i just have about 5-10 pounds i'd like to lose.

also do diet pills affect birth control?

thanks! 19/f (link)
I personally took Phentermine. The bad thing about that is it makes you a little sick to your stomach. and another bad thing is when you keep taking them your body will get use to it and dont work as well as when you first started. just watch what you eat, exercise at least 30minutes a day. dont eat after 7pm, and drink LOTS of water. cutting out soda is an easly 10lbs right there.


Good Luck. I myself is trying to lose weight.



20/f, dating a 20/m

My boyfriend and I have been dating for just about two weeks now, and I'm very very happy with him. But I'm really anxious about discussing sex with him.. in my last relationship, we rushed into sex and slept together after only 10 days. It set an unhealthy precedent for our relationship and this time I really want to wait. My new bf and I have made out, but that's it. He's too polite and shy to bring it up, but I know its on his mind, judging by his attitude when we're making out and it gets pretty heavy..

I don't want to rush into sex, but I'm not sure how to start that dialogue with him. I don't even know if he's a virgin or not, and I really want to know but I don't want to just ask him and make it seem like sex is the only thing on my mind =/

How do a start the sex conversation without embarassing each other or being weird? Do I wait? What do I do?? Thanks in advance! (link)
Just let it happen. It will happen when its supposed to. Or let him bring it up. :)


HEy

my friends just randomly come up at lunch that we should start a band..epic failure haha >.< I don't know if we really ARE going to have a band or not but maybe. So, I'm assigned to be the vocals..and to be the screamo..idk how to do screamo ..a little but I start laughing during it because I sound ridicoulous ..any ideas on how to really do screamo? thanks.. (link)
Simple...don't do it.


okay so this past summer i bleached my hair and dyed it blue with Manic Panic (after midnight blue). well i loved it and the color looked great but it washed out of my hair so quickly, and i would find myself re-dyeing it every 2 weeks, and the color bled from my hair when i was in the shower. so my question is what other brands of hairdye (im still going for blue here) stay in longer and more vibrant? like special effects or splat or punky colors or something completely different? THANKS IN ADVANCE! :D (link)
I use Manic Panic Hot Hot Pink and I had to touch it up every two weeks or so. Its "semi-permanent" so its not going to stay longer. I dont think there are "permanent" blue like you want it. You just have to keep touching it up. BUT DONT KEEP BLEACHING. YOUR HAIR WILL FRY.


Im a virgin. I probably about to lose that. Im soooooo nervous and I know I'll mess up. I don't know how or what it's like. Or what it feels like. Or what it's like to have the skin break.
Plzzzzz.... It would be great for some websites that would help me with this or some personal experiences from you guys. Im not trying to be nasty but I have no one else to come to.
THANK YOU!

~Kayla~ (link)
I will be completely honest with you. I lost my virginity at 18 years old. MAKE SURE you are willing to go through alot with this boy. Once you give it up to him you will be "attached" you are going to think he is the one and most likely he isnt. Please be smart and dont be one of those desperate girls if something does happen where you two break up.

you can email me if you wanna talk about it.
tabby2113@aol.com






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