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why did he kiss her
female 16....i like this guy and he likes me but we both dont want relationships. he dont want one b/c of lacroose and im just not ready for one. im not ready b/c i have realyyyyyyy bad trust issues. anyway to my question he is on my friends bus and my friend was texting me and told me that he was kissing this other girl and i dont know what to do. i mean i really like him and it really hurt to find that out. and no one in our school knows that we talk and stuff so i guess he figured if he kissed her i wouldnt find out but i did. and i dont know what i should do about this whole situation. like in gona hang out with him this weekend b/c its spring break. so should i ask him about it or should i just leave it and see if he tells me. b/c i dont want it to seem like i have people wathing him ???????? i could really use some helpp!!!!!! thanks :)
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what it looks like to me is that he just wants to have fun . if both of you agreed on not wanting to be in relationships technically he is free to do whatever he wants with whoever he wants . if you do confront him about it it might make him think that you are getting clingy and that might push him away , as he told you , he does not want a relationship . because you agreed to the not wanting a relationship neither you nor him are tied down . in any case if it would make you feel better by confronting him maybe you could make it into some sort of joke saying something like "oh so how was your kiss the other day ;]" make it seem like it doesnt bother you much until he leans towards that . remember you dont want to push him away if this is a person you maybe one day want to end up with . hint towards it bothering you but dont come right out and say it . (:
i hope i helped if you have any further questions feel free to ask .
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He kissed her because he wanted too.
I mean, it doesn't really need to be more complicated then that... Had he promised you he wouldn't pick up with anyone else? Did you have an agreement? Without one, he didn't do anything technically wrong.
What he did do however, might mean you don't want to talk with him as much anymore.
You should ask him about it. Unless he is a complete moron he must have realized a mutual friend might tell you. If you don't talk about, you'll never know what was going on in his head, and you'll simply beat yourself up and fed into your lack of trust for people in general.
Just keep reminding yourself: He didn't technically betray you. If feel betrayed, that probably means this friendship is no longer a good idea, because you want more then what he offering.
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