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Lost Bestfriend?
Posted Sunday January 13 2013, 2:34 pm
I've been best friends with this one girl for years now. I went through a lot last year with my grandmother dying and having constant anxiety attacks. She was deffinetly there for me, but I also felt I was living in her shadow for such a long time. This year, the table has turned into my favor I guess you could say by me being more of the center, getting in colleges she hasn't, and a lot more. I feel like she has checked out on our friendship and has basically stopped making effort over the past months. About three weeks ago, I pretty much checked out the friendship by not calling her and inviting her to things. For months now, I feel like when I invite her to things she just makes me feel bad for it. Either beecause it is with other people...
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who should i belive?
Posted Saturday January 12 2013, 9:54 pm
So I'm in every 7th grade and i have this group of friends and in the morning of school we have 30 min. In the gym and we sit in the middle of the gym.
I had this friend (aaleah) in the6th grade and she sit with the press.her and i are still friends and my new friend (cypress) got in a fight with her in math. My new friend and i are really close like sisters. So she told me and aaleah said were all getto preppy bitches.
So i asked aaleah if that was true and she said no. Yet cypress said aaleah did say it.
I don't know who to believe.....help!!
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I'm really deprssed because my BFF moved away :(
Posted Saturday January 12 2013, 8:17 pm
Female, Just Turned 13.
Hi! So... Me and my BFF met in the beginning of the school year (August) - And she has changed my life.
However... Our other friend told me she was moving. Long story short: She kept it from me! She said she wanted me to FIND OUT! ;( Ok so she moved before Winter break..
Winter break ended and she wasn't here all week. She texted me and told me the news.. Ever since, I couldn't stop crying. Seriously! We were even going to go to Disney World in May.. I'm so depressed. I can barely eat or sleep. What do I do? She changed my life and she meant so much to me ;(. Everytime I think of the good memories or the day we met, I start to cry. She was the bestest friend I ever had!
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Is this called bad-mouthing??!?!
Posted Friday January 11 2013, 5:30 am
Okay. I have this friend. No, not a friend. A bitch. She takes advantage of me and then treats me as if I'm transparent. She was close to me last time but I realised that I was the one giving in to her all the time and she took the friendship for granted, so we became just friends. But she was mean. So once, my friend was chatting with me. At that time my friend was close to her. But I told her, "Maybe you shouldn't tell all your secrets to her. She might betray you when she gets angry. She did that to me."
Then my friend told her. WTF?! And then BOTH of them got angry at me because they said I BAD-MOUTHED HER. They started spreading rumours about me and stuff. I'm serious. She really did that to me before. I'm so upset bec...
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Is it better to choose a college roommate with more in common with me
Posted Wednesday January 9 2013, 9:35 pm
Is it better to choose a college roommate with more in common with me, or one who is more religious?
(sorry this is long, i just really need help and i really appreciate all genuine answers)
I want to be more religious, but at the same time I think I need to learn how to have fun. Both girls were nice to me last semester, even when I became really depressed and tried to hide it. I have similar interests with one of the girls, but I don't think she's religious. While the other girl, she has many friends and is very religious, but I don't have much in common with her. I can't tell if that girl really wants to be my friend, either.. when I dropped from the class we were both in it was kind of like she was looking ...
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This girl invited me over...
Posted Wednesday January 9 2013, 5:26 pm
Ok so Im 13/f and last night, I got a text from the person I least expected it to be. It was this girl named Rachel. Me and her have had some differences in the past and we dont talk often and I never trusted her before and never talked to her because I get so jealous of her whenever Im around her! She texted and invited me with a bunch of other people over to her house after school friday so we can all have dinner and get ready for the dance together. I asked my parents and they said I could go so I said to her sure.
Although, Im really not sure if I should go? Should I tell her I have a family thing and back out of it? I know shes trying really hard to be my friend and get along with me but Im not sure if I wanna be her f...
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How can I make it up to this friend?
Posted Monday January 7 2013, 5:27 pm
I am from Egypt.
Before you proceed, please make sure you're open-minded
I am probably the worst person ever. I have betrayed my best friend.
I will tell you my story honestly with nothing to hide.
It all started 4 years ago. I was 13 years old. I had known my friends since I was 4 years old. They were my childhood friends, and the ones you don't take care of while choosing. I was the friend who everyone turned to when they had troubles. They never remembered me except when they had a problem and needed someone to talk to. I was always there for them. On the other hand, they were never there for me when I needed them. In fact, they even bullied me sometimes and made fun of me at class. I laughed with t...
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I can't 'forget' my best friend.
Posted Monday January 7 2013, 9:07 am
She was my best friend, now she's a bitch. She acts cool and back-stabs me. I feel hurt and just because I said one things about her, she blew her top off and threatened to break off all ties with me. She then spread vicious rumors about me and now I feel so sad. I wasn't in the wrong!
My other friends tell me to forget about her and keep a distance. Because it was her who made my life hell. But how?! It's so hard! She was my best friend! How can you forget an ex-best friend even if she is so bitchy now? Help:(
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my best friend isn't acting like the girl I became best friends with
Posted Sunday January 6 2013, 10:27 pm
I'm a 13 year old girl. My best friend and I have been fighting. We were fighting at her cousins house and she pushed me then kicked me in the head. It really hurt afterwards but I was ok. She betrayed my trust and then lied to me about it. She has been very mean to my boyfriend and he thinks I should stop being her friend (not just for him but for me too). My parents aren't crazy about her either. She used to be nice and actually beautiful, and I don't know what happened to her. I've always found someway to forgive her but this time I don't know.
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I kinda have a urge for my BFF
Posted Sunday January 6 2013, 6:08 pm
Well, I am straight, at least I know, and my bff always says how imperfect she is. But really she is super pretty and all that. Some one showed me one of those My little pony things with the ponies liking eachothers vagina, I kinda have the urge to do that to my BFF. Im not sure if that would just be group masturbation or if it considered bisexual or lesbian.HELP!!!! Btw im female
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Guy and girl just being friends.
Posted Sunday January 6 2013, 12:34 am
18/f. I've stumbled upon somebody talking about guy and girl friendships. I read it and I disagree, due to personal experience, of course. I have two best guy friends. I hang out with the one more than the other but I can talk to the other about everything. I'm told all the time that I will wind up dating one of them. Some say that about the first guy, some say that about the second guy but everybody and I mean EVERYBODY thinks that I will date at least one of my guy best friends.
Anyway, the saying is "A guy and a girl can be just friends, but at one point, they will fall for each other.. maybe temporarily, maybe at the wrong time, maybe to late or maybe forever."
The gist of this is basically: what...
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Feeling so hurt.
Posted Saturday January 5 2013, 8:07 am
Hi,
My best friend of 15 years is getting married next year.
To my surprise she posted up a facebook status the other day listing her four bridesmaids & I was not included.
I've never felt so hurt by someone in my entire life, I was crying all night thinking I had done something wrong & trying to figure out why she didn't pick me.
Now I don't want to be friends with her anymore or even go to her wedding. I don't have a boyfriend, never have so I will be by myself as usual. Also I don't want to be embarrassed in front of her family who I've known for years starring at me wondering why I'm not there.
She lives in Australia but is coming home to New Zealand to...
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My best friend is being a Bitch.
Posted Friday January 4 2013, 11:14 pm
So my best friend and I are talking she says she thinks I come over too much which i barely do anymore. she wont answer me at all. and her mom and dad hate me and say i maniupulate her. my other bff is her sister and bff 1 says oh you cant come over anymore, so i tell bff 2 sorry we cant see eachother again. i said im going to be homeschooled anyways so we cant see eachother at school and then she starts saying "oh youre so stupid, stupid reason for being homeschooled blah blah bllah. I say you dont even know why u are so ignorant then she flips out because she doesnt realise what the word ignorant means...Then shes says...its unfair because your life isnt bad and blah blah complain complain. he sister bff 2 gets involved of course and...
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my friend completely stopped talking to me and walks past me like I don't exist... and I have NO idea why!
Posted Tuesday January 1 2013, 7:06 pm
I met my friend back about 2 months ago when she first moved into the apartment complex. This woman is 52 and lives alone. I live across the hall from her so I would visit often. We both gradually started getting into refurbishing our old furniture, shopping together and hanging out. We seemed to of got along very well. (I am 27) suddenly, yesterday I come home from my mothers to find all my board games I gave too her grandson in front of my door with a note that read already have thanks anyway then to find out she removed me from Facebook and now walks by me like I don't exist?. I don't know what the hell too think. I went out of my way to help her many times. I even texted and called her bit no answer. I am not good with confrontation in person...should I move on or what?
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This girl is getting on my serious nerves.
Posted Tuesday January 1 2013, 1:00 am
Gosh. She's such a bitch. I'm a 16 year old college student. They say "forgive those who wrong you and be nice to them.". Well yes, that's what I did. End result? Loads of insults and mockery. I try to be nice to her and she doesn't appreciate. I wasn't in the wrong in the first place, but it was her who thought everything she did was right and that everyone has to do things her way. She's getting on my nerves and I don't know what to do. She keeps judging me and stealing my friends away.>:( Oh dear. Help. Thanksss.
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My friend smokes way to much weed.
Posted Monday December 31 2012, 11:43 pm
My friend Hannah smokes ALOT of pot and it is so concerning. Im 18 and she is 20. Yes, she is old enough to make her own decisions, but at the same time, I don't want to hang out with someone thats on the benefit (gets money from the government), sits at home with her boyfriend in bed all day, every day and just smokes pot. Me and my friend had to literally go and get her from her house just to get her out of the house. I have tried talking to her 10000000 times about it and it just turns into an argument. Im just at the point like 'this is useless' and give up. What do I do!!!!
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Is my friend an alcoholic?
Posted Monday December 31 2012, 11:40 pm
Im 18 and my friend Ricci is 17. Basically, she 'likes' to drink. So, of course we will go out and drink with friends but I am not to fussed if I drink or not, also, when I do drink, I only have a few (2-3) and then go home. Ricci feels the need to get drunk all the time and if we arn't doing anything, then she wants to drink but if we can not afford to drink or we have no way to the liquor shop and back, then she gets in a bad mood and it is quite embarrassing when people are around. I also do not know how to talk to her about it. Im just worried about her, I don't want her to be an alcoholic when she's older.
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My friend only talks about boys
Posted Sunday December 30 2012, 9:53 pm
I have a friend and we're like best friends. A while ago she messages her crush on Facebook. She finds out tht he has a phone and starts txting and calling him. Then she asks him if he likes her and he said a little bit but more as a friends. Then a month later she tells me that he told her that he likes her. And then I started having problems with my friends and got mad cuz everytime I wanted to talk to her about it it's always "ok, hold on I'm talkin to ????" and then she never texts me until I'm like "HELLO???". I want our friendship to go back to normal but everytime it does something happens again. This is the 5th or 6th time writing about her, all for different reasons. Someone please help!!!
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Friends and other friends
Posted Sunday December 30 2012, 9:31 pm
Hey I really need some help. Well I'm I have 2 friends tht r in all my classes, so I hang with them all the time. And I'm getting kinda tired of them because one of them ditched us for another one of our friends and only talks to us when our other friend isn't there( let's name her B). And then my other friend is nice and all but I'm gettin tired of her, not because shes mean or anything bad it's just I want to hang out with different people( lets name her M). And I can't sit with other people at luch either because we have to sit with our 4th period. And I don't like anybody else in my 4th period.
I have nother friend that doesn't go to my school, and normally I talk to her and ask her for advice, but lately all she does is talk...
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My friendship part 2
Posted Sunday December 30 2012, 9:26 pm
earlier today you answered one of my question well i been opened up to her and told her how i feel, but she just told me how she not into me like that. so we just stayed friends, but she always get me things always ask me to hangout and ask for advice and stuff, but when i asked her out she came up with severial excuses.
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