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My friend only talks about boys
I have a friend and we're like best friends. A while ago she messages her crush on Facebook. She finds out tht he has a phone and starts txting and calling him. Then she asks him if he likes her and he said a little bit but more as a friends. Then a month later she tells me that he told her that he likes her. And then I started having problems with my friends and got mad cuz everytime I wanted to talk to her about it it's always "ok, hold on I'm talkin to ????" and then she never texts me until I'm like "HELLO???". I want our friendship to go back to normal but everytime it does something happens again. This is the 5th or 6th time writing about her, all for different reasons. Someone please help!!!
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If she let her affections for guys be stronger than you, then she's probably not a good friend to begin with. Just the fact that she didn't know who you were was a big sign right there. How could you forget someone you used to talk to in a month?! That was really rude of her, honestly. She probably thinks you're some girl desperate for her attention now, unfortunately if she treats you that way. Be cautious of people like that.
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You need to talk to her. Tell her you feel like she put your friendship on the back burner.
If she is not willing to work around it then maybe she was not that great of a friend after all.
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I'm sure we ALL have that one friend that is constantly talking about guys, and sometimes seems so wrapped up in them that they fail to realize they're own friendships are failing. All you can do in this situation is talk to her. Whether face to face or throught text, MAKE SURE she gets the message that she's getting to caught up in this guy, and you feel like your friendship is being affected. Don't be rude or come across like you're jumping down her throat either. Just be calm, and polite, but make sure she understands. If she doesn't and it continues, just try and brush it off. She'll eventually come to her senses.
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