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I'm really deprssed because my BFF moved away :(
Female, Just Turned 13.
Hi! So... Me and my BFF met in the beginning of the school year (August) - And she has changed my life.
However... Our other friend told me she was moving. Long story short: She kept it from me! She said she wanted me to FIND OUT! ;( Ok so she moved before Winter break..
Winter break ended and she wasn't here all week. She texted me and told me the news.. Ever since, I couldn't stop crying. Seriously! We were even going to go to Disney World in May.. I'm so depressed. I can barely eat or sleep. What do I do? She changed my life and she meant so much to me ;(. Everytime I think of the good memories or the day we met, I start to cry. She was the bestest friend I ever had!
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I'm sorry to hear about your best friend. I can relate to your situation. It's your situation swapped around really - I didn't tell her I was leaving rather than been the person who's friend moved away and didn't tell her.
I met by best friend in infant school and she was my best friend. We did everything togther and then I found out that I had to move away. The thing I most regret is telling her sooner rather than leaving it until it was nearer to the day when I was going away. It wasn't fair on her.
She was devasted that I was leaving and I was devasted about moving away. Anyway, long story short there is a sort of happy ending. After several months past she got my new address and she wrote a letter to me. Then I found out she moved closer to where I was (not because I was here but for another reason plus we lost contact again and this came out of the blue). Anyway she came to see me and it had been years since I had last seen her. I was happy and she is happy and we hung out. After that though we did drift apart and I haven't seen or heard from her since (we both didn't really stay in contact). I guess we both moved on. I moved away, we met up years later and now we are both living our own lives.
My advice for you would be to stay in touch with her. By phone, letter, e-mail whatever it will help to talk to her when you are missing her. I still have a letter from my best friend that I kept in a memory box. That letter is so old now, but I still have it. I also have a frienship ring she gave to me after we met up again.
Also the good thing about keeping in contact is that you could maybe send her a picture of you now and she can send you one of herself. I did this with by friend and I was amazed about how much she changed. Hope this helps you x
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I'm very sorry to hear about you losing your friend. I know that can be a heartbreaking situation. It seems a little strange to me that she would keep that from you, though, but maybe she was upset about it as well and that was her way of handling it.
If you need to cry then cry. There's nothing wrong with that. You have to handle the loss of the relationship in whatever way works best for you. Try to stay in touch with her, and always remember the memories you have together, but don't be afraid to make new friends and have fun. I know it's hard right now but thinks will get easier in time.
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