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Girl trouble and drammmma
Posted Monday December 6 2010, 8:12 pm
Okay Ive posted my problem about this girl (Nicole) before but the situation changed... Let's see. She had been dating Kelly for three years them all of a sudden Nicole was intrested in me and we started getting really really close both physicaly and like emotionaly. So after a month or so she dumped Kelly and had said she wanted to date me. Now its like she's a whole new person and she doesnt want a relationship and she's just different. We still kiss and everything but... She still wants to be single which I get considering her and Kellys long relationship. But Nicole still cares about me and she wants to be with me eventually and I care about her. I just don't know what to do....
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I got drunk and kissed another guy... now I feel awful!
Posted Monday December 6 2010, 7:27 pm
okay so i have been with my boyfriend for a year now and our relationship has been quite unhealthy...(fighting alot, cursing at eachother, no trust, on and off) and recently we were in a HUGE fight and i went to a party and got drunk and high and i went with my bestfriend her boyfriend and his friend. and his friend is one of my bestfriends too so at the party he sat on my lap and turned to my and said "kiss me" and im not NO and hes lie comoen just do it and i gave him a kiss and I FEEL SO TERRIBLE ive been crying and i love my boyfriend i feel so terrible... also the boy i kissed is my boyfriends good friend so i cant tell him! or else i wont have a boyfriend or a friend :( idk what to do i feel so guilty its killling me im not ...
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Getting over someone...
Posted Monday December 6 2010, 2:51 pm
20 female.
So I've always liked my friend Nick. I've known him for 5 years. He used to have a girlfriend for 3 years, I didn't like her at all. She knew that me and Nick were close and didn't like us hanging out all the time and knew that Nick also wanted me. Well they ended up breaking up their senior year and he moved to South Dakota to play hockey. She still goes there to see him all the time even though their "broken up" supposedly. She just wrote on his facebook wall, guess what's in less than two weeks! -he's coming home for the first time it's the only break they have for hockey. Things like that just annoy me.
So I met a new guy, but he's on Nick's team. He's so nice, respectful ..everything ...
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Living with my BF
Posted Monday December 6 2010, 10:49 am
Background: I met my boyfriend online, 2 years ago, and he moved from Florida to Missouri for me after a year of dating. We were really serious, and into each other. My parents disagreed with me dating him because we are different nationalities, and different religions. My parents aren't religious at all but they disliked the idea of me going against my culture. In June of 2010, I moved out of my house and in with my boyfriend.
Lately, I just haven't been happy with him. I realized how messy he is, how aggressive he is, how constantly unhappy he is, and it's the complete opposite of everything I am. I am always neat, meak, and optimistic. I'm not sure if I'm unhappy with him because I've been really stressed with school and ...
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How do I forget her?
Posted Monday December 6 2010, 9:01 am
Well ... I was in a relationship with a cute girl and now I dumbed her , but the problem is I still love her :( even though I'm the one who stopped our relationship , I want to just forget her(by the meaning of not really forget her , i want to stop loving her) so what do I do to stop loving a girl I see everyday in school!???
P.S: She is with me in the same class and same school!:(
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Can I call him my boyfriend?
Posted Monday December 6 2010, 7:14 am
I'm 21 year old female and i have a rather pressing question. Well i got out of a 4 year relationship a while ago and it was rather serious we were engaged to be married. it ended for abusive reasons. my friend lets call him matt also got out of a long relationship too i believe 5 years and he is 24. we have been friends for a few years and resently we started to become more than friends we are sort of secretly dating since our families are telling us to take time to be single and be independaant since niether of us has ever lived alone. but i don"t want to wait and he doesn't either. i would llike to know how long before i can call hiim my boyfriend to my family ps its been 6 months since my break up and 3 since his if that helps thank you for your help
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how to 'win over' a girl i have deep feelings for D:
Posted Monday December 6 2010, 6:23 am
Ok, so here's the situation.
I've thought a girl that i know was really attractive for a very long time, but only over the last couple of months, have i felt any real attractions and emotions toward her. I've been hanging out with her a lot recently, and my feelings are only developing more for her.
I have a really good friend thats a girl (we'll call her sandra), also one of her best friends - she at first told me that this girl, (we'll call her Jess), liked another boy, and he also liked her.
At first i was very disheartened and wanted to give up on her.
I chose to keep on getting close to her, and see what happened, and recently a month ago my other good friend (sandra) sent me a message saying...
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A male toying with my feelings. Not sure what to do.
Posted Monday December 6 2010, 6:14 am
Where do I start. In May or 09 I met a guy (online yes). We were just talking and friends whatnot. We hit it off pretty well, and exchanged cell numbers and would text a lot. By January of 2010 I started to develop really strong feelings I guess.
I told him that I liked him, and he told me that since it was just online my feelings couldn't be real, but he was flattered.
to make this as short as possible.The next couple of months, I'd practically speak to him every single day. Except for June, when he had a crush on a girl for the month and pretty much stopped talking to me. When that didn't work out, he came back to me, telling me how much he missed me and then ultimately dropped the L-bomb on me. Saying tha...
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What is the best way say this?
Posted Monday December 6 2010, 12:24 am
I am still extremely close friends with my first love. I never really stopped loving him. We lost contact for 2 years, but we have been back in contact for a few months now. We both moved on after we separated. Both of us have been married and divorced, and I have a 4 year old. He lives in another state, and we have not seen each other in person (just video chat and talking on the phone) for a little over 8 years now. He is in the army, and is going to be shipping out after Christmas. I want to tell him that my feelings for him are still here before he leaves, because if something happened to him and I never said anything I would severely regret it. What is the best way to tell him? I don't want to compromise our friendship, but I have to tell him, so how should I do it?
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he just deployed
Posted Sunday December 5 2010, 11:54 pm
Hello im 19 and my husband just deployed to Afghanistan. We just said goodbye about 3 hours ago. My mind just seems so cloudy and i feel like my life was just ripped from me. I didn't think it was going to be this hard. I knew it was going to be hard but it was alot more difficult than i thought it was going to be. We've been married almost a year and he's only been home for about 4 months. When he left for basic and AIT it was hard for me but i feel like that was nothing compared to what im feeling now. I wont see him until around next Halloween. I need something to keep my mind off of him. I just feel so stressed out and i dont know what to do, or how to feel. I basically just want to know that everything im feeling is okay. Has anybody e...
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Should I stay?
Posted Sunday December 5 2010, 11:41 pm
I have a boyfriend. When I first met him, we started talking as friends, and those feelings turned into a relationship. He asked me out the first time we hung out aside from where we met. It was Valentines Day. He would have been considered to be my first boyfriend. I was scared to get into the relationshp because I was terrified at what was going to happen. My parents wouldn't have approved of me dating now but I figured I was old enough and if everyone can hide it, why can't I? It was pretty difficult for me to adjust to the feeling of depending on my relationship with a person to have a certain mood. It was hard to see each other when we started dating because my parents were so strict so we saw each other maybe once a month or every two...
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About to break up
Posted Sunday December 5 2010, 4:56 pm
f/17. Sorry if this is long. Me and my kindasorta boyfriend- lets call him cody-have been together for two years. This past month or so ijust havent felt the same. I feel like were just growing apart and idk what to do. We took a break and during this break i went and got a milkshake with a guy named caleb. this really upset cody and he got really mad. I understand why hes upset i just dont think he should be as mad as he is. I dont feel like i did anything wrong we didnt do anything sexual we didnt even kiss. me and cody are together now just not really on good terms. I do like caleb, hes a sweet guy and hes more my type then cody is. but i love cody(i think) and i just cant leave him. i dont know if i want to leave him or try and make it...
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Do you think this couple will last?
Posted Sunday December 5 2010, 7:03 am
There's this couple that i know they were together before but they were always constantly fighting i think he was too strict on her and she was always controlling him and asking him questions and swearing at him and his family and she pretty much treated him like dirt and accused him of cheating and everything and i'm not sure about him but i know his short tempered however,they broke up for about 2 months she dumped him though she would always call him and she'd cry to get back with him though she'd also tell him off and swear at him they got back about 2 weeks ago i'm just wondering do you people think they'll last or what i'm not sure how their relationship is now im just curious thank you.
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Is he for real?
Posted Sunday December 5 2010, 1:40 am
so , my guy asked me , what are you doing today? and i said im going to the store , and I asked him want to come? and he said , no he cant leave the house.. because of his thumb and he doesnt want to make it worse... , apparently he never told me , but he hurt it a few days ago and im like did you go to the doctors? he said yes , the military doctor... and either way he still went to work and he's telling me he can't meet up with me... and he doesnt talk to me as much and he wasnt responding and he replied later '' i was sleeping and woke up because of all the buzzin ,lol jeeze dont panic''
is this an excuse? is it worth it?
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i need a nickname for my guy friend marquis
Posted Sunday December 5 2010, 12:13 am
What is a nickname I could give my friend marquis?
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paragard (IUD) help
Posted Saturday December 4 2010, 10:03 pm
okay ive had my paragard in for about five days now and i get slight pains now and again, ive also havent been able to orgasm with my partner or be myself and on top of that i cant feel the strings im really scared if something went wrong because i really dont want it taken out i went threw so much pain to get it just to have it taken out, please help
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Food Poisoning or Pregnancy?
Posted Saturday December 4 2010, 4:17 pm
Alright. My boyfriend and I have been having unprotected sex for eleven months. It used to be that my period was extremely irregular but for the last 4 months it has come on the exact same day. Now my period ended on Thursday, and I woke up today and threw up 7 times. I also have diarrhea. Now what I want to know is do you think I have food poisoning or could I possibly be pregnant? He long does it take for your period to be affected by pregnancy? And how long does it take you to get morning sickness? Thanks so much for any advice!
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Abusive Boyfriend?
Posted Saturday December 4 2010, 1:45 am
I'm junior girl in high school. One of my very best friends is going out with this guy. He's in a couple of my classes and i've gone to school with him since elementary school so i know him pretty well. But he gets in fights all the time and gets suspended; he's kind of violent sometimes. He's really funny and nice, but he's scary when he's mad. I sometimes think he might do drugs or something, and i'm scared for my friend because she's the most innocent person i know. She would never hurt anyone or do anything bad. The other day, i was joking around and i didn't know he was mad, and he got pissed at me and shoved me really hard almost knocking me down. He then screamed in my friend's face and ran off. She was so embarrassed and kept apolog...
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Am I right by this?
Posted Saturday December 4 2010, 1:20 am
Ok I am a 26 year old male... It's a girl that I have been talking to for the last three months...We haven't seen each other we meet off of
a social networking site... But we haven't seen each other before... But for the last three month we have been texting each other everyday and, talking on the phone everynight for hours... We have been sort of liking each other since we talked... But we both kept the relationship on a friendly manner... But when other females try to talk to me she gets jealous and vice versa... so the day before yesterday we both admmited that we liked each other... And if our meeting went right we will date each other... shes way on the east coast and im on the westcoast... but next month i was gonna fly out the...
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Unwanted romance? But I want it anyway!
Posted Friday December 3 2010, 5:50 pm
I like a guy, and I told him because by facebook I had sent him an extremely stupid and emabarassing wall post. He was really nice about it, and didn't make fun of me at all. Four days after this, he sent me an e-mail telling me he just wants to be friends and that he likes someone else, but he said "right now" after both of these sentences. We haven't talked ever since, we're pretty much pretending the other doesn't exist. And after all these I want us to be more than friends, but I'm too afraid to do anything. What do you suggest?
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