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how to 'win over' a girl i have deep feelings for D:


Question Posted Monday December 6 2010, 6:23 am

Ok, so here's the situation.

I've thought a girl that i know was really attractive for a very long time, but only over the last couple of months, have i felt any real attractions and emotions toward her. I've been hanging out with her a lot recently, and my feelings are only developing more for her.

I have a really good friend thats a girl (we'll call her sandra), also one of her best friends - she at first told me that this girl, (we'll call her Jess), liked another boy, and he also liked her.
At first i was very disheartened and wanted to give up on her.
I chose to keep on getting close to her, and see what happened, and recently a month ago my other good friend (sandra) sent me a message saying "good work with Jess, keep it up!"

I'm really hoping that this means that 'Jess' is developing feelings for me - and she seems to be really keen to hang out with me a lot.

what can i do to win her over more?
Girls: what do you like most in a guy that i can portray in myself?


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Kaye2918 answered Monday December 6 2010, 1:00 pm:
If it seems that she has taken a little more interest in you it would help if you just play it cool and do over kill. It's good to be yourself and let things come naturally. Don't expect to much and let her know that your there if she needs you. Both of you will know when the time comes to take the next step, but don't rush into things. Hope I helped a little and good luck!=)

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nolz answered Monday December 6 2010, 7:50 am:
helo...

just be yourself
show her that you care
phone and text her often but dont be a nag... like atleast 3-4 times a day...
take the time to compliment her
listen to her show her that you are paying attention when she talks and that you are interested in what she is saying
buy her chocholates now and then
make her feel like she shes the only girl in your world....
there are more things you can do but for now keep it simple and try those things out...
DONT BE A PAIN TO HER AND DONT GET TOO CLOSE COZ SHE MIGHT FIND IT ANNOYING

hope i helped... inbox me if you need more info
gudluck

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