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...or more specifically, can Hindu guys go to prom?Is there anything against them by going? (link)
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lol no. i am hindu and its perfectly fine for an indian male to attend prom, its actually all up to him to go if he wants or not, but as far as i know there isnt a rule that says he shouldnt go because he is a hindu...!!!!!
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the thing is, I really do have deep emotional feelings for her, but at the moment i think we are just friends.
the compliments and those kinds of gestures are a good idea, but i don't wanna be on the wrong end of the stick, and mess up a friendship.
to be honest, (without sounding up myself) i'm considered to be quite smooth with girls, but i'm really not sure if i should take the plunge and try to become more than friends with her. what if i'm wrong? what if she is only just a really friendly girl :\ (link)
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well.. with regards to the gestures, by doing those things will make her realise that you have feelings for her and she will change the way she looks at your friendship but obviously you cant b doing this every single day and drive her away.. just take it slow and relax things will work out... another thing you should remember is that when it comes to things like this you cant expect it to happen overnight.
in my opinion you should tell her because one thing that i have learnt is that you cant make up for lost time.. i really dont think that it will mess up the friendship, if she doesnt feel the same because she allowed your'lls friendship to come this far and surely she cares abput you so even if she doesnt feel that way about you she will tell you nicely and still continue the friendship..
from some personal experience it only makes things stronger...
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Ok, so here's the situation.
I've thought a girl that i know was really attractive for a very long time, but only over the last couple of months, have i felt any real attractions and emotions toward her. I've been hanging out with her a lot recently, and my feelings are only developing more for her.
I have a really good friend thats a girl (we'll call her sandra), also one of her best friends - she at first told me that this girl, (we'll call her Jess), liked another boy, and he also liked her.
At first i was very disheartened and wanted to give up on her.
I chose to keep on getting close to her, and see what happened, and recently a month ago my other good friend (sandra) sent me a message saying "good work with Jess, keep it up!"
I'm really hoping that this means that 'Jess' is developing feelings for me - and she seems to be really keen to hang out with me a lot.
what can i do to win her over more?
Girls: what do you like most in a guy that i can portray in myself? (link)
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helo...
just be yourself
show her that you care
phone and text her often but dont be a nag... like atleast 3-4 times a day...
take the time to compliment her
listen to her show her that you are paying attention when she talks and that you are interested in what she is saying
buy her chocholates now and then
make her feel like she shes the only girl in your world....
there are more things you can do but for now keep it simple and try those things out...
DONT BE A PAIN TO HER AND DONT GET TOO CLOSE COZ SHE MIGHT FIND IT ANNOYING
hope i helped... inbox me if you need more info
gudluck
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I am from United Arab Emirates.
Where i can buy Hello Kitty Condom? (link)
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laugh my ass of.........
i dont think such things exist....
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So I've dated this guy for about 4 months now I'll call him D. So D & I didn't really know anything about each other. we started dating. We would fight like a normal couple breaking up, getting back together within a couple of hours. We broke up about five times & we would always get back together. The fights were usually trust issues & arguments. So I told D that I was tired of us fighting & we should take a break & solve our problems then we could date again. I went to visit some of my old friends. I told him I'd hang out with my old friend Brian. I wanted to see if he would get jealous. I ended up not hanging with Brian. I told D I hung out with him. Next thing I knew he was barley Texting me & when we did text it was boring three days past & I text D saying iloveu like we always do even if we arnt dating he didn't say it back We stopped Texting for a couple of hours & then I get a text saying hey this is D's girl you don't need to be talking to him you have screwed up to many times and he doesnt want you I texted back & D texted me and said that 5 times of breaking up is too much. I said that that's why we took a break so we could fix this & didnt mean that we would date other people. Dknew that guys had asked me on dates while we were taking our break & I told them no but he still dated this girl. I didn't text him for a couple of days then I felt I still love him why should I hold my feelings back and he said he has a new girl now & I need to forget about it. But I catch him looking at me & his friends tell me that he asks about me & how I'm doing. It's been a week today since he started dating this girl. I can't sleep, I can't eat, & my days consist of thinking about him. I've cried none stop. & I just wish I could go back & be his girl again. & people tell me that I don't need to mess with him because he has a girlfriend now but I can't help it I still love him & I still want to be with him so what could I do to get him back or should I move on? (link)
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hey der..
i was in exactly the same situation you are in now so i know what you going through. i know it s hard to stop thinking about him and wondering what his doing and if his thinking about you???
i hate to break it down to u but u need to move on. you derseve much better than that. he taking advantage of the fact that you still love him and because he knows this he keeps on giving you false hope and he also knows that he still has a hold on you so he can go out and have fun with other girls and know that you always going to there there when he need someone to be there for him...
by him getting his girlfriend to sms you shows what a coward he is and that he doesnt really care about your feelings.. if he cared he wouldnt have moved on, got his girlfriend to sms you and he would of replied to your sms's...
you need to show him that you can do without him in your life and that you can get better...
the first thing that you really need to do is to STOP SMSING HIM... and ignore him totally...
he will realise that he lost someone good and regret what he did...
REMEMBER... DONT EVER CRY OVER SOMEONE WHO WONT CRY OVER YOU!!!!! AND HE IS DEFINITLY NOT WORTH YOU TEARS!!!!!!!!!!!
i know its gona b the hardest thing but trust me when you get over him you will realise what a JERK he is!!!!!!!!
hope i helped.... feel free to inbox me for more help... :)
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i started dating a guy in june, we dated for 4 months. his ex broke up with him a month before we got together. she just told him she didnt love him anymore.
now he has broken up with me and gone back to her cos she wants him back. i cant help but feel hurt, i will never take him back but i cant help but think what goes around comes around, do you think it will??? (link)
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hey der
sorry to hear that but it will most definitly bite him in his ass and when hes girlfriend dumps him he will realise that he lost someone special... someone who really liked him.. ive been in the same situation so i know the feeling, it aint good at all... even though its extremly hard you should move on with life coz honestly he doesnt derserve you and when you get over him, you will realise what i jerk he is....
inbox me for more help.
hope i helped:)
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I've always been a positive person. Though deep down inside I've dealt with a lot. I hate the person I am, and it's hard to change without any help... I've seriously thought about killing myself so I won't bother those around me, and so I can be done with being miserable. I can't afford to see a Psychologist, and I just want to know if anyone has ever been in this type of situation. A situation where everything is going downhill, you hate your own self, and you seem to have no way out. Thanks to everyone who answers. (link)
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hey der..
i know what you mean because there are amny times in my life where i also feel like that but killing yourself doesnt resolve anyting its a selfish way of trying to sort things out...
you must understand that if you cant love yourself and the person you are then no-one else will.you should find peace with yourself for whatever happened in your past if thats why u feel this way...
in order for you to feel positive about life, you must prepare yourself mentally, emotionally and physically for problems in life as there will always problems in life..
start small and in no time you will start enjoying life ...
hope i helped... gudluck:)
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my boyfriend is annoying..
he's a year younger than me (i'm 18) and he's only been in 1 relationship prior to me. i honestly feel like i have to teach him everything. how to act, what to say, what to expect blah blah blah..
i'm a huge feminist. i believe that women can pay for their own things and i dont like getting anything without me earning it..
he always buys me things. no matter what it is. candy, water, pencil, book.. at first it was sweet, but now its to the point where i want to yell at his face like "seriously stop! i can buy stuff for myself. i dont need to depend on you for money" i've tried talking to him about it once but he keeps doing it..
another thing that irritates me about him is that he wont accept the fact that i have personal stuff that i dont want to tell him about. like just now.. he asked me what i'm doing tomorrow and i said just personal stuff. not a big deal. none of his business. then he starts accusing me of lying. asking if another guy is involved. i tell him the truth- no. i'm not hiding anything from him. its personal and i prefer not to share it with him.. he still wont leave it alone. then he starts b*tching me out about hiding things from him and how he has to know these things.. i b*tched him back out saying "its my life. you dont need to know every single thing that happens. there are things that i want to keep to myself. and this is one of them. its nothing bad. i'm not cheating on you. i'm not doing anything bad. its just something i dont want to share with you. so leave it alone." and he just wont stop bugging me about it.
its gotten so bad to the point where i told him "when you finally learn how to respect me and treat me right- come talk to me. because right now you're acting like an overcontrolling jackass"
i just dont know what to do anymore. we have been dating for about 3 months and he's very sweet sometimes and i like him a lot, but there are times when i just want to yell at his face and cry because he is so annoying and causes a lot of drama and fights..
what do i do? everytime we try to talk about it, we end up fighting. help!! (link)
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hey...
lol i was also in the same situation not so long ago so i know the feeling when your bf treats you like a two year old and you cant really say anything coz you scared to hurt his feelings and when you try to say it nicely u guys end up fighting...
you should tell him that he needs to give you space to do ''girly'' tings and that yourl need to respect each others space bcz he is going to drive you away. tell him dat u were brought up to be independent so he should stop being so clingy and let you have some time to yourself... tell him that he needs to understands where you coming from because its annoying to fight for every small thing.
try not to be too hard on him as you are his 2nd girlfriend altough try to hint that he should grow up abit..
if this does not work... then you need to ask him for some time out because if he cant listen and understand you now , he never will...
gudluck:)
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So I've been with the same guy now for about 2 years. We're happy together. The only problem is that my family hates him. He's never done anything to anyone, he's been nothing but polite and cordial. Their hate is based completely off his looks. They are all mad because they think I can do better. But I don't care what he looks like. How do I tell them to mind their own business, and come to me with their problems? (link)
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hi...
the fact that you are willing to tell your family where to get off because you want to be with a guy that they do not approve of really shows that you love him. its great that appearance doesnt matter to you because the true beauty of a person is their heart, something you cant see.
i think you should sit them down and explain to them that looks does not matter to you and you are comfortable with him and that you are happy being with him. you should also tell them not to judge him because they dont know him the way you do and they should make the effort in giving him a chance. also you should tell them that if he is not good enough for you then that is your decision to make, and you will evenually realise it but its totally up to u!!!!!!!!!!!
ask them politly to please come to you whenever they a problem so that you being his girlfriend can discuss your problems in- order not to make him feel more uncomfortable then he already is...
try not be too rude to them...
gudluck.
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Hi welL I'm not realy sure what I should do. I'm sTill a virgin and so is my boyfriend we been dating for a year alreay he is also a virgin. Should we have sex already? Should we loose it already I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 15. Are relationship is realy close and serious but I don't want to mes it up by having sex.. Please help or give me tips on what to do :) thanks (link)
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peesonally, i think you still young and so is ur bf, however if you 2 are comfortable with each other then its your choice but dont have sex with him because your scared of loosing him. break your virginity bcoz you are ready to... having sex usually makes a relationship stronger but dats not always tha case, tings could change... speak to your bf about it and c hw he feels about it...
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how can you tell if a guy likes you by body language? (link)
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he will compliment you randomly. take note of the tings you say. touch you in comfortable places. smile at u for no apparent reason... he will make you feel like you da most important person in the world:)
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