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Getting a guy to like you again
So I've dated this guy for about 4 months now I'll call him D. So D & I didn't really know anything about each other. we started dating. We would fight like a normal couple breaking up, getting back together within a couple of hours. We broke up about five times & we would always get back together. The fights were usually trust issues & arguments. So I told D that I was tired of us fighting & we should take a break & solve our problems then we could date again. I went to visit some of my old friends. I told him I'd hang out with my old friend Brian. I wanted to see if he would get jealous. I ended up not hanging with Brian. I told D I hung out with him. Next thing I knew he was barley Texting me & when we did text it was boring three days past & I text D saying iloveu like we always do even if we arnt dating he didn't say it back We stopped Texting for a couple of hours & then I get a text saying hey this is D's girl you don't need to be talking to him you have screwed up to many times and he doesnt want you I texted back & D texted me and said that 5 times of breaking up is too much. I said that that's why we took a break so we could fix this & didnt mean that we would date other people. Dknew that guys had asked me on dates while we were taking our break & I told them no but he still dated this girl. I didn't text him for a couple of days then I felt I still love him why should I hold my feelings back and he said he has a new girl now & I need to forget about it. But I catch him looking at me & his friends tell me that he asks about me & how I'm doing. It's been a week today since he started dating this girl. I can't sleep, I can't eat, & my days consist of thinking about him. I've cried none stop. & I just wish I could go back & be his girl again. & people tell me that I don't need to mess with him because he has a girlfriend now but I can't help it I still love him & I still want to be with him so what could I do to get him back or should I move on?
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hey der..
i was in exactly the same situation you are in now so i know what you going through. i know it s hard to stop thinking about him and wondering what his doing and if his thinking about you???
i hate to break it down to u but u need to move on. you derseve much better than that. he taking advantage of the fact that you still love him and because he knows this he keeps on giving you false hope and he also knows that he still has a hold on you so he can go out and have fun with other girls and know that you always going to there there when he need someone to be there for him...
by him getting his girlfriend to sms you shows what a coward he is and that he doesnt really care about your feelings.. if he cared he wouldnt have moved on, got his girlfriend to sms you and he would of replied to your sms's...
you need to show him that you can do without him in your life and that you can get better...
the first thing that you really need to do is to STOP SMSING HIM... and ignore him totally...
he will realise that he lost someone good and regret what he did...
REMEMBER... DONT EVER CRY OVER SOMEONE WHO WONT CRY OVER YOU!!!!! AND HE IS DEFINITLY NOT WORTH YOU TEARS!!!!!!!!!!!
i know its gona b the hardest thing but trust me when you get over him you will realise what a JERK he is!!!!!!!!
hope i helped.... feel free to inbox me for more help... :)
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Ms. Honey,
Okay i know that you are hurting and i know that you think that you cant find someone like him. But im here to tell you that you can. This is what you should of did.... you should of been real with him and told him that you was not hanging with Brian. You should of told him that you wanna be with him. All of this "wanna see if he gonna get jealous" was a bunch of bull....thats what we call kiddie games. So now he got him a new girl and now you are the one who is crying over this not him. I hope that you learn from this and this is what you should do now:
1. stop crying
2. believe that this is his lost and not yours.
3. you need to make him jealous for real by looking your best when you are around him and his friends.
4. and when he say that he wanna get with you again....you look at him and say....
THIS IS YOUR LOST!!!
And if you have any more questions, feel free to ask me and i will never stare you wrong.....one love ...remember you should always have Peace, love, and Chocolate!!
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