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Unwanted romance? But I want it anyway!
I like a guy, and I told him because by facebook I had sent him an extremely stupid and emabarassing wall post. He was really nice about it, and didn't make fun of me at all. Four days after this, he sent me an e-mail telling me he just wants to be friends and that he likes someone else, but he said "right now" after both of these sentences. We haven't talked ever since, we're pretty much pretending the other doesn't exist. And after all these I want us to be more than friends, but I'm too afraid to do anything. What do you suggest?
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I'm afraid you have what everyone goes through. You want what you can't have and that makes you want it even more. My advice is to be patient, be his friend (if you can without driving yourself crazy) and see what develops with his current girlfriend. Try your best not to be pushy because this may chase him away for good. Hope this helps a little and good luck.
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He's made it clear that he just wants to be friends at the moment, and you need to accept that. Don't read too much into what he's saying, as it's unlikely he meant anything by 'right now'. Be thankful that he was so gracious about it.
It's bound to be awkward between you for a while, so just act normal, smile and say 'hello' when you see him but understand that you are not going to get anything more than friendship out of him.
It's hard when you have feelings for someone who doesn't return them but you will get over it. Eventually you'll meet someone who you click with and who will feel the same way about you.
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