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Is he for real?


Question Posted Sunday December 5 2010, 1:40 am

so , my guy asked me , what are you doing today? and i said im going to the store , and I asked him want to come? and he said , no he cant leave the house.. because of his thumb and he doesnt want to make it worse... , apparently he never told me , but he hurt it a few days ago and im like did you go to the doctors? he said yes , the military doctor... and either way he still went to work and he's telling me he can't meet up with me... and he doesnt talk to me as much and he wasnt responding and he replied later '' i was sleeping and woke up because of all the buzzin ,lol jeeze dont panic''
is this an excuse? is it worth it?


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NinjaNeer answered Sunday December 5 2010, 2:08 am:
We can't make snap judgments about your relationship because of one side of an isolated incident.

My advice to you would be to take a chill pill, relax and just see where things are instead of trying to read meaning into every time he can't hang out or answer his texts immediately. Chances are he's busy. He's working, right? Maybe he just didn't want to go to the store. We don't know.

If you're constantly freaking out about his every move, your relationship will be miserable for the both of you. If you really are concerned about a pattern that he's developed (like, say, not seeing you for a month) then you should talk to him. Let him know what you're feeling about the situation and see where he stands on the issue.

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