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About to break up
f/17. Sorry if this is long. Me and my kindasorta boyfriend- lets call him cody-have been together for two years. This past month or so ijust havent felt the same. I feel like were just growing apart and idk what to do. We took a break and during this break i went and got a milkshake with a guy named caleb. this really upset cody and he got really mad. I understand why hes upset i just dont think he should be as mad as he is. I dont feel like i did anything wrong we didnt do anything sexual we didnt even kiss. me and cody are together now just not really on good terms. I do like caleb, hes a sweet guy and hes more my type then cody is. but i love cody(i think) and i just cant leave him. i dont know if i want to leave him or try and make it work and i just really dont know what to do. How can I fix my relationship with him or get us both to move on?
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hi there,
i went through this exact same experience as you a little while ago.
I was with a girl that i really liked, she was my kinda sorta girlfriend, and i was sure that i was in love with her :]
we grew apart, and i became miserable with the way she flirted with other guys, and her jealousy when i would chat with other girls.
i know it seems hard, but the best thing i did, was let us grow apart from each other. It made the breakup so much easier, and it gave it the sense that it was mutual, so that there was no blame and no residue from the relationship.
The thing that i realised, was that i have a long time ahead of me to find a better relationship. ya know?
It's never an easy decision to make, and i very much commend you for asking for help :]
i hope this has been at least a little help :3
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I see you're in a bit of a dilema because even though you're with a someone, there's someone else that you find attractive. Honestly, you have to follow your heart and decide who you think you would be better off with. You have to try to relate your experiences with each one and see who makes you more happy. For now, if you feel your relationship can be stable after you and Cody get past this argument, then I think you should stay with him and let Cody understand why you did what you did. He cannot be so stubborn about it but clearly if he's mad, it shows that he has a lot of feelings for you because not caring would have been worse. Getting a milkshake with a friend is one thing but when you do it because you think you might have feelings for someone else is inviting trouble. If you know you you have true feelings for Cody, then you should remain with him.
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