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I lost him
Posted Saturday February 11 2006, 2:56 pm
OKay lets call this guy.. sean.
sean and i have been best frineds for 3 years.
4 months we went out
but we stayed close.. even closer.
he told me i was irriplacible and he loves me more than a best friend. That all changed this year. My birthday party came up and i was hanging with him the most. There were 6 guys there including sean and 4 out of the 6 liked me. They got mad and decided they "hate" sean. All the grlz hated him too cus hes "popular" (bad reason.. i know!) and then my friend laurens dad died and i asked him if he was going to the funeral and he has a spazz attack on me telling me its not a social hour. Later he told meits cus of that and my friends hating him. He didnt want to b...
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what do i do
Posted Saturday February 11 2006, 2:08 pm
ok, me and my friend took the new york specialized high school admissions test, or SHSAT. My friend also auditioned for LaGuardia. I passed the SHSAT and made it into a specialized hs, while my friend didnt pass the test OR make laguardia. I feel really bad, and I cant really comfort her becuase I made it in. She really wanted to get into a specialized hs...what can I do to comfort her?
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They used to be my friends...
Posted Saturday February 11 2006, 12:51 pm
there are these two girls who i used to be really good friends with but now all they care about is themselves. i was just at the mall and it was really bad i was crying and everything but they didn't even care about me and that upsets me a lot. i've told them what they do when they're together and sometimes they apologize and tell me they'll be nicer but then other times they tell me that i'm wrong and that they don't act like that. a lot of my other friends feel the same way but are too scared to say anything. how do i get them to change or should i just drop them as friends?
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WAT DO I DO
Posted Saturday February 11 2006, 8:25 am
Well my friend at school is really beautiful and very flirtatious and all the guys like her, but im kinda the tomboy girl who all the guys "hang out with" but dont "go out with". but recently her ex bf has started to like me but he says he still likes my friend (his ex) and she still likes him too(she is in a relationship), soo please help and tell me what to do !
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why is he trying to hide our friendship?
Posted Saturday February 11 2006, 12:18 am
Why would a married man lie to his wife about his wherabouts? This is what happened. I've been friends with this man and his wife for the last 3 years. They have both been working out of town for the last year and only come home once a month to pay their bills. Well I had my friend come over for a visit to my appartment. We were just talking and I was filling him in on all the latest town gossip. Nothing was going on sexually for him to feel quilty about, which is why what happend next was so odd to me. His cell phone rang, and he looked hesitant to answer it. Well he decided to answer, and it was his wife. She was asking where he was, and he LIED right in front of me to her! He said he was out "shopping". Then he hung ...
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Twin Souls to Invisible
Posted Friday February 10 2006, 10:37 pm
I have this friend. I wanted to be more than friends at one point, but I am pretty sure he doesn't know that. However, like before Christmas we were so close. We were with each other constantly. He was like the only person I have ever felt like I could bear my soul to, but I didn't because I didn't want him to think I was wierd.
On New Years, we went to the beach with like 30 of our friends. We hugged and mess like we always did, but then when we came back to school after New Years, half the time he acts like I am not even there. I just want ot be friends with him, and I don't even know why he's mad.
If you have any advice on how to talk to him please, please help me. Thank you in advance.
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It's nothing to worry about, right?
Posted Friday February 10 2006, 1:13 pm
Last night, I went out clubbing with my best friend and some other people, including a guy friend of mine, I'll call him "Brian". Brian has always told me that he's bisexual and I'm cool with that and we get along great. He's always treated me like one of the guys, but last night, he got pretty drunk and he started touching me inappropriately. It wasn't anything particularly sexual, just holding my hand and putting his hands on my waist, but I was really confused. I'm not attracted to him or anything, but it's got me really confused. It was just the alcohol talking wasn't it? My best friend also said he held her hand as well.
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Clone
Posted Friday February 10 2006, 10:46 am
Well me and my friend Chrissy are fighting because she thinks I am acting really fake and acting like a clone because I have a new friend Krisina. I dont see how I am but she sent me this email. Here.
Tiff,
Your already turning into one of their clones. You always talk about how your original but your not !! You shop where they do-you act and talk and dress and do your hair like them too !! Don't try to deny it cuzz eveyone sees it !!
This morning,you completetly ignored me for kristina. i dont even thinks she likes you-when you said that comment thats the closest she'll ever get to an ipod she gave you a really dirt look !! You walked away from me while i was talking to you as we wree goiing down the hall..jus...
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best friend?
Posted Thursday February 9 2006, 7:59 pm
ok so well like one of my best friends and i got in like a big fight a couple weeks ago .. im really sorry for what i did and i would never do anything intentionally to hurt her, or tell her secrets. i try never to talk ab her behind her back too .. but how do i know if she has forgiven me? how do i know if things are back to normal or what? idk if shes talking ab me behind my back or not or what im confused as to whats going on it seems like were normal but i dont know and i'd like osme reassuranceee. thanks & ill rate fives <3
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i need some help here
Posted Thursday February 9 2006, 7:45 pm
Ok now i've like another guy and he likes me and i don't really have feelings for him and its really werid but I've had a crush on this one other guy for about a year and its really hard becasue i don't know what to choose and plus the guy that i like now who likes me whenever he with his friends he drinks and do stupid stuff and i have a werid feeling about that and i don't what is coming from. But i thought maybe i should dump my crush for the new guy and iam not sure i should do that because iam just not ready yet and i really needdd help here iam having kind of trouble here and plus the new guy lives kinda far from me he lives about 45 mins away from me and we never barely see eother and my crush lives where i live and we barely see eo...
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Broken Promises
Posted Wednesday February 8 2006, 9:40 pm
Okay, well I made a promise not to lose my virginity before I got married. Not only did I promise myself, but I promised my friend (let say his name is Mark). So.. I found this guy I'm totally heels over head with (lets say his name is Anthony). I fell for this guy, and within the first 3 months, we became intimate. This was back in September. We're still together, and going strong, but we do have sex. I know I broke that promise to myself, but my friend had JUST found out (months later) and now like thinks I'm so stupid, and that I hurt him and blah blah blah. Cuz he's my "best friend", and yeah if you can't tell, he likes me ALOT. And I feel like I've let him down. I love Anthony, I don't regret having sex with him, and I'll kee...
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Posted Wednesday February 8 2006, 8:06 pm
My best friend just broke up with his girlfriend and it made me really happy, does that mean that I like him? Or do you think that I'm just happy because now he'll give me more attention?
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my friends are mean.
Posted Wednesday February 8 2006, 5:36 pm
i have this friend and she is kind of an ass. i mean we get into fights and all but we get over them and forgive each other. but there are so many other people that she has hurt in the past. for example, one of my really good friends used to be extremely close with her. like they were inseprable. and then they got in HUGE fight (name calling, bad language, etc.) and they have never talked since. alot of people talk to me behind her back about how much they despise her and yet in front of her they act like her friend. There has only been a few instances where me and her have been mad at each other. i know she has talked behind my back before.. but i mean we're teenagers... i've talked behind her back too. it happens. just i'm not sure if i ...
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really long but so importent!!!
Posted Tuesday February 7 2006, 10:52 pm
OK i was really mad at my friend krista because she did unspeakably mean things to me. because of it, she was asking em why i was mad, so on myspace i posted a blog about it. now my best friend marissa who is good friends with krista is getting mad at me for writing all those things about krista and telling her why she was mad. One of the things krista did was tell marissa the mother of all secrets, that my other friend, luke, thats like a brother to me was gay. marissa liked luke, and as a result got mad at me for not telling her. but i couldent tell her because i couldent have it on my concience that i made someone feel that badly, and i didnt want to break the news to her. when i found out that he was gay, i got really depressed an...
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my best friend and maybe more?
Posted Tuesday February 7 2006, 9:02 pm
well theres this 16 year old that i am best friends with and im only 13 but wel i really i mean really love him and i dont think he even you no even cares if i talk to him but hes always sweet when we do talk but i feel like im just invisable and im scarred to tell him how i feel cause then i think he might not even want to talk to me cause he knows one of my friends likes him and he dont talk to them hes nice and all but he only talks to me so im just scarred he wont want to be friends at all
help please
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liars
Posted Tuesday February 7 2006, 7:47 pm
I have a workmate that has a problem. She is an extremely nice person and has plenty of friends and I quite like her as a friend too, the only problem is that she constantly tells lies. I have found that when she starts talking now I just switch off because I can't believe anything that she says. The other people that we work with feel the same way and we feel that even though she is a nice person we have just lost all respect for her. I have tried to catch her out on her lies to let her know that she can't keep getting away with it but she just lies her way out of it. I have even confronted her about this but she just denies it.One of her most recent lies was that her father has cancer which I know is not true because I have spoken to...
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Someone kinda close...
Posted Tuesday February 7 2006, 12:34 am
just died. She was 23. Should I go to the funeral, or will it be too depressing?
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
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How to get a guy to notice me!
Posted Monday February 6 2006, 10:17 pm
Hi i'm 14 in grade 8 and of course all women!lol anoy way there's this guy and i really like him. I talk to him somtimes and stuff but i really wana make an impression on him. I'm not really ugly i don't think lol i've been told i'm pretty but i wanna be notice by him what a good way to make an awesome impression on him?
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Ughhh
Posted Monday February 6 2006, 9:44 pm
This is kinda a long one but I really need good advice.
There are these three girls I'm friends with at my school. We were all like a group of four and basically the "popular" group if my class has one. Well at least I was really good friends with them. Maybe I'm just paranoid but it always seems like two of them talk about me. I'm pretty sure the third one doesn't because she's always really nice to just about everyone. Well me and one of them got into a fight the other day and aren't talking. She's really close with the other one I think talks about me. I'm pretty she's mad just just because her best friend is. But the thing is, she acts all nice to my face and stuff.
I have other friends to hang ou...
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bestfriends boyfriend
Posted Monday February 6 2006, 3:23 pm
well im a girl and im 15 so here it goes...to make this as brief as possible, i hate my bestfriends boyfriend...ive been pretending that i like him and pretending that it doesnt kill me to see them together for the past 3 months because i know he makes her happy and i want to see her happy...im sick of people telling me to just deal with it because shes my bestfriend and what makes her happy should make me happy, but it doesnt...i cant keep pretending i like him, ive talked to her about it a little but i feel bad and selfish everytime i tell her i dont like him...so i dont know if there is anything left to do, if so i could use some advice
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