ok so well like one of my best friends and i got in like a big fight a couple weeks ago .. im really sorry for what i did and i would never do anything intentionally to hurt her, or tell her secrets. i try never to talk ab her behind her back too .. but how do i know if she has forgiven me? how do i know if things are back to normal or what? idk if shes talking ab me behind my back or not or what im confused as to whats going on it seems like were normal but i dont know and i'd like osme reassuranceee. thanks & ill rate fives <3
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? honu22 answered Friday February 10 2006, 12:51 am: This has happened to me a few times (lol).
I suggest that you should try to talk to her. Just communicate your problem with her at whatever time you feel best to talk. It may be hard to talk to eachother in the fight aftermath but it's better than not talking at all.
Sometimes it's best to let some time pass before saying that you're sorry, especially if your friend is not talking to you or not accepting your apologies. But don't totally ignore the friend because they may think that you aren't sorry, etc etc. Plus, a little time will let you and your friend think about things and it allows you to think of the best apology and realize what you did wrong. If your friend still hasn't forgiven you (after many conversations), then let things be. A friend who is not willing to forgive wouldn't be a true best friend-even after a huge fight.
I doubt that your fight was too serious, so don't be worried and always be ready to listen and keep an open mind when talking about a problem with a friend.
Hope everything works out (sorry for writing too much)! [ honu22's advice column | Ask honu22 A Question ]
greeneyedgirl9o answered Thursday February 9 2006, 8:48 pm: I know its hard to have a fight with a best friend and make sure its all good. What i do is not become a suck up to them so they'll forgive you, but instead act normal apoligize from your heart and all true friends forgive so thats the best you can do. good luck! [ greeneyedgirl9o's advice column | Ask greeneyedgirl9o A Question ]
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