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Undecided about my relationship
I've been going out with my boyfriend for nearly two months. The magic is completely gone and I don't look forward to seeing him. He always does the nicest things for me, but I used to see them as cute and now I find them to be ordinary. He also doesn't get physical with me, and c'mon, every girl has her sexual needs. I have a little thing for two other boys and both of them like me. However, I don't want to break up with my boyfriend because I know I'll regret it later on. But right now, it's not satisfying for me to be in this relationship. I'm not giving him my all, so I shouldn't give him anything. I'm totally clueless.. help?
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You need to decide what you want. If it's to stay in this relationship you need to talk to him. Communication is an important part of every relationship. Tell him how you feel. For all you know, he might think you're really happy with the way things are going right now and that you are not the physical type or he was just trying to be respectful. you could also make the first move if he is not comfortable in doing so or just doesn't pick up on the fact that that's what you want (Guys are totally clueless when it comes to hints).
If you're not going to talk to him you really need to break up with him. It's not fair to him that you are leading him on like this if you really dont feel anyhting or him or you're just bored with this relationship. You say you'd regret this decision but if you are not willing to fix what's wrong then there is no point in being in this relationship. If he's not the right guy for you, then you will meet the guy who is someday.
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I think you should break up with him. If there's nothing there between you & him anymore, it's pointless to have a relationship with him, but since you think you might regret it later on, try talking to him. Tell him how you're feeling & he might change. If nothing happens in a few weeks, break it off with him & move on to a new guy who you think will be better.
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Your not being fair to to him or yourself.
You need to break things off. Maybe you will regret it *someday*, but you cant think about that now!
Always go with your instincts! If things dont feel they way they used to, its best to just get out.
Good Luck Hun!
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If you think this is the end and you can't go anywhere with your relationship, break up with him. Especially if you think there is someone better. However, it's only been two months. You just need a little spice, a little adventure. A lot of guys don't understand girls, so he probably doesn't realize this. Have you tried talking to him about it? Don't be insulting when you do, perhaps you can say "I think we need some more excitement." rather than "You're beginning to really bore me." Don't wait for him. He's not going to magically realize that you want him to be physical with you. In fact, he probably thinks he's being polite and respecting you. So just get physical with HIM. He'll probably catch on. You admit that you're not giving him your all, why not? It takes two to work a relationship.
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