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can you get an STD from kissing?


Posted Wednesday January 26 2011, 5:55 am

Can you get STD's from kissing?

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should i give up on my ex?


Posted Wednesday January 26 2011, 4:56 am

ok please read and help me out i am an emotional wreck

ok so my ex bf broke up with me in may of 2009 because of his parents were criticizing us. i guess he basically let them choose for him. we were together for 2 years. he is just as much a part of my life still as he was when we were together surprisingly. it was very hard to still remain friends i pushed my self to overcome that great struggle. i am confused wether or not how i really feel about him. for almost a year i tried so many ways to get back with him with little success. little things happend between us but i just dont see it as a big deal anymore because i dont know if it really means anything at all. i feel like im not getting anywhere with him kind of like im ...

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Should my girlfriend go to strip clubs?


Posted Wednesday January 26 2011, 12:55 am

I don't think it is okay for my girlfriend to shake her booty in front of other men for money at the club? I think it is disrespectful and degrading. Am I wrong?


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My bestfriend liked him first I shouldn't!!


Posted Tuesday January 25 2011, 7:42 pm

Ok so hey everyone well to start off I am 13 female and my friend is 12 female and the other day she started liking this 14 year old in the grade ahead of us, well she wanted me to help her, so I was like yeah this'll be fun because I don't even know him he don't know me. Ok so she wanted me to text him first so I did and he ignored me didn't text back (guessing because he didn't know me) (plus don't know what I look like) now anyway she finaly text him and they t4ext forever and they flirted and had good conversations, I read all of it off her phone! and then yesterday morning I was sitting at the 7th grade table and I was the only one there noone else had came in yet, and he was the only one at the 8th grade table across from me and well ...

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Posted Tuesday January 25 2011, 5:41 pm

Okaii well he broke up with me and got with this girl that i HATE sooo what to i do i want too tell her off sooo give me somethings to say thanks

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one night stand or more?


Posted Tuesday January 25 2011, 9:08 am

So I met this guy back in Sept, and that night we went back to his place and messed around but never had sex or oral. Even though we both told eaqchother how much we wanted eachother. He said he was a good man and he wanted me the right way. lol. Everything has been causal since, only spoke a few times and went on 1 date a month ago. I ran into him last night after not talking for awhile and we wonund up going back to his place. We wound up f**king after he was done kissing me everywhere and eating me out. However here's my question....you could tell he didnt want to fall alseep with me so I left, he walked me to car and that was it. So with this said, do yo think it was just a fuck...one night stand or could it be more? Do guys really go down on chicks in a one night stand?

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why would my ex say this to me


Posted Tuesday January 25 2011, 7:17 am

my ex boyfriend broke up with me, we remained in contact because I wanted to try and work things out and he said he'd think about it. I didn't want to remain friends with him and I made that clear. a month later, after no effort on his part, I started texting a guy I met in a bar. my ex SAW me with the guy but all we were doing was talking.

im not dating this guy, and my ex knows that, but he said to me "well y'all might get together soon, or you might start dating another guy I don't know but then maybe we'd get back together if you broke up" I said what do you mean he said "im jus saying you never know" why would you say that to someone you broke up with?

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I want my man, but I am flirting with someone else


Posted Tuesday January 25 2011, 1:50 am

me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while like a while years. so we've been rocky i love him and i iwill be there for him if hes sick poor healty happy mad sad ect. i love him no matter what. so i thought i liked this kid from work yah hes cute and what not but i didnt like him and i sitll have no feelings for this guy still. but my boyfriend gets mad at any guys commenting my stuff on facebook which i get because i wouldnt like it if girls did that to him becuase its like oh they must talk. this guy i do talk to i guess like casual talk tonight we talked on facebook for a while i feel kinda bad yah i flirted but i dont like him at all my boyfriend is like ignoring me lately and i dont care if that other guy likes me because i don...

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Meeting my boyfriend's not-so-charming friend for the first time.


Posted Tuesday January 25 2011, 12:26 am

Basically, my boyfriend has a friend who he's said nothing good about outside of their friendship. He's constantly told me this guy objectifies women, is arrogant, etcetc. I've also heard this from mutual friends.

Anyway, yesterday he asks me if I'd be willing to meet this guy because he wants to meet me and have dinner apparently. I told him I don't feel 100% comfortable with the situation and explained why, and he told me that although his friend objectifies the women he's dating, he wouldn't do it to me, and that he considers him a "good friend" all aside and asked me politely again if I'd just meet him and give him a chance.

I'm not against giving people chances, and I usually do prefer having my ...

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Good places for a girl to put her hands while snuggling- (not sexualy)


Posted Monday January 24 2011, 9:14 pm

My "friend Z" was at my house yesterday and we watched a few movies- well he put his arm around me and was kinda rubbing my arm- so sweet. Lol but i wasnt sure where to have my hands.... It sounds stupid. but yha. Lol at one point i was holding his hand while he had his arm around me but i dont know if that was comfortable for him... and at another point i had my hand on his chest, with my head on his shoulder and his head was resting on my head. It was very sweet. But i figured i would ask for Yall's opinions on where you would put your hands/head or if your a guy where its comfortable for you...

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Boyfriend doesn't like when I drink..


Posted Monday January 24 2011, 4:36 pm

Okay so I'm 16/F and a sophomore. My boyfriend is 17/M junior. We've been dating since halfway through the summer before my freshman year. Ever since we've been together we've always been crazy. We both drink and party and he smokes (pot) occasionally but usually not. However, it's different now. He is an extremely talented quarterback and pitcher and this year a bunch of colleges have their eyes on him. He has chosen not to drink or smoke or party because he can't risk getting caught and ruining his chances in a D-1 school. And I have definitely cut back too. But I still wanna party, for like, the social part. I definitely don't get smashed anymore but I do drink when I go out (I also have a sober ride and friends with me). But lately my b...

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dont really know what to do...


Posted Monday January 24 2011, 12:34 am

im 18/f and he's 19/m

ok, so i have become really really close with the lead singer of a local band. so close that were even travelling to america together. However, when i first saw him a little over a year a go, he was taken. Knowing my boundaries i backed off and i began talking to his friend, and fellow bandmate. Soon i developed a 3 month long crush on his bandmate at the start of last year. Eventually i got over the crush on the guitarist, still having a little 'inkling' so to speak about the lead singer. He and his girlfriend conveniently broke up and we began to talk and open up to each other. It wasn't only till recently that i realised that perhaps he likes me just as much as i like him... We are so much alike its a...

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He likes me but I don't know if I like him.


Posted Sunday January 23 2011, 11:30 pm

I am a 16 year old girl. A guy I met 4 or 5 days ago recently told me he likes me. We have been texting and talking alot. He's really nice, but kind of odd. He's less mature than I am , but really easy to talk to. I don't know whether or not I should tell him I like him also and give it a try or if we should just remain friends.

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Boyfriend advice- rough patch


Posted Sunday January 23 2011, 9:53 pm

So my boyfriend came over a week ago and we talked for about 3 hours...at first I was upset with him because I felt like we were growing apart and fighting a lot more about stupid things and he didn't want to talk to me and fix things. After a lot of tears, he finally broke through and told me how he felt. After that everything just flooded out from both of us and we made a huge 'break through' in our relationship. We both decided that even though we're in love, in the long run we probably weren't going to last. But I asked him if we were still going to try and he said yes of course...sooo we're still going out and things have been going better then ever since then but I was just wondering if this will be good for me. I love him and I love ...

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My boyfriends boner


Posted Sunday January 23 2011, 5:10 pm

My boyfriend and i make out a lot, and when hes on top of me i feel his boner. were really close but i dont want to ask him about it, i think hes uncomfortable about talking about it but how do i know if he likes it or not?

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He wants to come in me without birth control.


Posted Sunday January 23 2011, 4:05 pm

I've only been dating him a week and he asked me at dinner if I would get off birth control and let him cum inside of me! What's crazier is this isn't the first time I've been asked to do that! Why would a guy want to get a woman he doesn't know pregnant?! Just out of curiousity I asked him why and he didn't really have a good answer. He also noted that he wanted 2-3 kids and wanted me to breast feed! Why so specific? I don't know if he's a frequent impregnator or what but he has recent papers proving he is std free and he's really successful.

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should i change for the best? :/


Posted Sunday January 23 2011, 3:02 pm

Hey well at school im preety likable by everyone. im a girl in the 8th grade and many say im really funny. im pratically the class clown for many of my classes.Its just that when it comes to guys that i like well...they just end up being my best guy friend and i dont mind but it gets annoying that i cant really find a boyfriend because they dont take me seriously. im starting highschool in a few months and i wanted to change for the best. Maybe if im less like how i am now guys will take me seriously but i dont know if i should because being somebody who you arent ALWAYS ends up bad!but i mean i have had like 4 boyfriends but they arent excactly what im looking for because i always end up dumping them. then the ones that i really do like we...

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Got Any Advice?


Posted Sunday January 23 2011, 11:12 am

Real sorry if this is in the wrong category or whatnot.

14/F/Bi

Ok here goes sorry if its too long.
I was on a website and I got talking to this girl she can be friend A. We got chatting about things we where interested in and she asked me if she could add me on msn/ facebook, I agreed (i know seems a bit shady) I went on webcam to her and she was legit (or whatever) Anyway to the point, she introduced me to a few of her friends over facebook and one of them stuck out, lets call her friend B, after the first two messages on the chat she wanted to add me so a agreed, everything was going smoothly and I was actually making friends. I told them I would come over to where they lived next year (this was last...

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he won't leave me alone!


Posted Sunday January 23 2011, 4:39 am

i've hung out with this guy twice, and both times we hooked up (not sex, i'm a virgin and he knows that and i reallly dont want to have sex with him anytime soon...or at all now)
so basically he texts me at like 2:30 in the morning and i was up so i answered and he asked me what i was doing and stuff, but then he told me i should come over so we could cuddle. i told him i was tired but he kept persisting. he wouldnt stop texting me even after i told him that i really dont want to go out tonight. eventually i just stopped texting and pretended i fell asleep but he kept sending me texts and then even called me once. as i'm writing this it is 4:30 in the morning and i have turned off my phone so i don't have to hear it vibrate any more....

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weird nick name?


Posted Sunday January 23 2011, 1:12 am

18/f and hes 19/m

ok so i really like this guy, usually he calls me bub, bubba, gorgeous, hun etc etc like cute nicknames...then today i say
"hello lovely :)"
and i get back "Hey kid"
kid? like seriously? im only a year younger then him and i dont see how that is cute at all =/ in fact its actually making me think he doesnt like me in that way...or as much as he did, because everyone keeps telling me its not a good thing if a guy calls you kid.

advice? x

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