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Should my girlfriend go to strip clubs?
I don't think it is okay for my girlfriend to shake her booty in front of other men for money at the club? I think it is disrespectful and degrading. Am I wrong?
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I have been to many stip clubs and had a few girlfriends that were strippers. None of the girls I knew, ever wanted anything to do with their customers or did anything outside of the club. Most of the women do it because it's good money and some of them because they enjoy the attention the get. In todays tough economy I imagine things are tough for everybody and if your girlfriend has the ability to make money by stripping, then she should take advantage of it. Hopefully she's smart and will go to college and get a better job when the economy gets better or at least save a lot of her money for when she gets to old to strip. I understand your reservations and possible trust issues you may have with her but if you love her, you should trust her and support her. I'm sure this decision was tough for her to make and having you not support her, makes it even tougher. If you feel this strongly against her not working there, you can let her know that if she continues, you need to move on with your life without her. I hope this helps and good luck.
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I agree with you that it is disrespectful and degrading but you can't make her decisions for her. Have you tried talking to her about it? Maybe you can try suggesting other jobs that will fit her better.
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Have you talked to your girlfriend about this, does she even know you have an issue with what she does? Your feelings are perfectly valid. Express them to your partner. Can you reach a compromise?
At the end of the day she's old enough to make her own decisions. If it bothers you so much and she continues to pursue this line of work after talking to eachother about it then maybe it's time to move onto someone who has the same sort of values as you do. Perhaps she's willing to leave the strip club for the sake of your relationship. Or you could respect her decision but come up with boundaries togeather about how she does her job. Or maybe you could go down with her and experience it for yourself. You never know.
Communication and trust is at the heart of all relationships. You both need to see where you stand on this and decide from there what you want to do.
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