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I want my man, but I am flirting with someone else
me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while like a while years. so we've been rocky i love him and i iwill be there for him if hes sick poor healty happy mad sad ect. i love him no matter what. so i thought i liked this kid from work yah hes cute and what not but i didnt like him and i sitll have no feelings for this guy still. but my boyfriend gets mad at any guys commenting my stuff on facebook which i get because i wouldnt like it if girls did that to him becuase its like oh they must talk. this guy i do talk to i guess like casual talk tonight we talked on facebook for a while i feel kinda bad yah i flirted but i dont like him at all my boyfriend is like ignoring me lately and i dont care if that other guy likes me because i dont want him i want my man. i just dont like to hide stuff i know if he read that he would break up with me as i would with him too. its like im confused but know what i wantl. i want my boyfriend! this other guy is like becoming a friend i think. i think flirting is okay as long as you know boundries like not messaging eachother i dont think ill do it again because it felt unfaithful like even if i have no interest in the other guy.i am being honost with myself i dont like him if i had to imagine being with him then my other boyfriend i would be devestated i love being with my boyfriend the thought of him being with someone else or me with someone else makes me sick. i dont want it to happen. i just want reasurance here i want things to be okay with me and my boyfriend and your thoughts.
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Casual flirting is healthy and good for the soul. It makes us feel needed, important and attractive. As long as you don't take it to the next level and let the person know you will never take it to the next level, you shouldn't have anything to worry about. You need to have an honest conversation with your man and let him know that you enjoy casual flirting but you would never cheat on him. If he finds out you've been flirting behind his back, he will be hurt. On the same respect, you have to accept the fact that he may be flirting with other women. Tell him that the occasional flirting is alright but he had better not take it to the next level or you will leave him. If he loves you, the threat of you leaving should scare him from cheating. I hope this helps and good lucki
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Well you seem to already know what you want, so that's good. You want your boyfriend, so here's my advice: do what you can to stay with him. Make sure you have an open and honest relationship BUT I will say one thing...if you tell him about flirting with this other guy and then say that it 'didn't mean anything', do NOT expect him to just be ok with that. If I were you, I wouldn't tell him. It might relieve your guilt, but it will hurt him a lot and it could make him not trust you, which will put a strain on your relationship. Learn from this mistake, and don't do it again. Goodluck, Jess.
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