i've hung out with this guy twice, and both times we hooked up (not sex, i'm a virgin and he knows that and i reallly dont want to have sex with him anytime soon...or at all now)
so basically he texts me at like 2:30 in the morning and i was up so i answered and he asked me what i was doing and stuff, but then he told me i should come over so we could cuddle. i told him i was tired but he kept persisting. he wouldnt stop texting me even after i told him that i really dont want to go out tonight. eventually i just stopped texting and pretended i fell asleep but he kept sending me texts and then even called me once. as i'm writing this it is 4:30 in the morning and i have turned off my phone so i don't have to hear it vibrate any more. i have at least 5 unanswered texts from him and a missed call. i really don't even think i like him, i just like hooking up with him (i know it sounds bad but it's the truth).. i don't know if he actually likes me or just wants to try to take my virginity? either way i don't like him and after tonight his neediness/clinginess just completely turned me off and i don't know what to do or say to him now. what should i do?
Sweet_LiL_Angel answered Sunday January 23 2011, 11:32 am: I would just tell him one more time. I dont think we should hang out or talk anymore. I would like if you would delete my number. If he continues to contact you its stalking and you can go the the police station and file a report you also need to safe the texts and phone calls to show the police. good luck [ Sweet_LiL_Angel's advice column | Ask Sweet_LiL_Angel A Question ]
jazzyvanscoy answered Sunday January 23 2011, 10:55 am: Block this guy from your phone. If you really dont wanna contact this guy, at all, block him, and you wont hear from him again. If that doesnt work, and you have a stalker on your hands, then you should maybe start looking for a restraining order. [ jazzyvanscoy's advice column | Ask jazzyvanscoy A Question ]
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