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should i tell him what i've been thinking about? should i just dump him?
Posted Sunday March 6 2011, 11:25 pm
we've been going out for about 2 1/2 years, give or take, (we've broken up and gotten back together quite a few times). we're both 18. started seeing eachother at 15. been friends since we were 14.
anyway. we've never had any huge issues, except the times we've broken up. those mistakes have been on my part, and i've learned from the past. but this time, he's the one causing problems. he barely calls me anymore. we can only hang out on weekends right now and he never makes an effort to see me. when we're together, everything is like its always been. we're fabulous when face to face, but after i leave his house i rarely talk to him, see him on occasion, but besides that i have no idea what is going on at his house or with his...
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never been kissed
Posted Sunday March 6 2011, 11:03 pm
im 17 and the most unexperienced person ever. i have never had a boyfriend or kissed anyone. i wouldnt exactly say im ugly or anything, and im not weird i just dont know how to act around boys. what do i do?
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Advice on co-dependency in a relationship and not coming off as so needy?
Posted Sunday March 6 2011, 10:14 pm
So My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months now, we basically have been spending everyday together usually driving around hanging out with friends, running errands, visiting family, etc... He recently got layed off a week ago and I've noticed he doesn't want to hangout as much... Which I can understand its taken a toll on him.. I think I've become too used to hanging out and doing everything with him though and this whole hanging out less is getting to me, and I don't want to be that girl whos up her boyfriends butt all the time sounding all needy. The thing with me though is I have major seperation anxiety and depression, whether its with him or anyone I just don;t like being alone in my thoughts...especially not having a job or ...
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ex boyfriend help.. :(
Posted Sunday March 6 2011, 9:43 pm
alittle backround info..
we went out for a year and a half, in the begginning of the relationship he was obbsessed with me and now he doesnt wanna be with me anymore were both 16 and we dont see eachother alot because im not allowed to date so its hard to hangout with him.
problem: we broke up a month ago and he says we fight too much and he doesnt have energy for it anymore and it hurts me so much because i just want things to go back to how they were and i dont want him to talk to anyone and im really deppresed becuase i feel like he doesnt care :'( what do i do?!
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Having an affair with a married man
Posted Sunday March 6 2011, 8:51 pm
I am in a committed relationship and having an affair with a married man. Anything you want to tell me?
My current bf is an alcoholic - great to me but when he's really drunk he can be a HUGE a-hole. Just the other night we got drunk and I woke up with 100 dollars missing out of my bank account, that he spent. Sooo please tell me something, anything. I'm not in love with the other guy, but when we're together, there's something....i can't explain it.
I just came on here to ask this and see the responses I get. Thanks in advance.
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I want to talk to him but i don't want to be creepy
Posted Sunday March 6 2011, 8:23 pm
there's a guy in my bio class that i think is so goodlooking and i want to talk to him but i don't want to be creepy. he's also in my major. i found him on facebook but i don't know if i should add him or would that be stalkerish? it's not like i can talk to him in class because we sit on completely different sides of the room and it would def look like i'm trying too hard if i just randomly sat there for the day. so guys, how do you honestly like girls to approach you? without me looking stupid or embarresing myself. and please don't just say "go up to him" cause it really isn't that easy..
thank youu!
also 18/f
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i trust her but now i find out she added him again on facebook
Posted Sunday March 6 2011, 7:25 pm
ight well me n my girlfriend are haveing problems right now people are telling her stuff bout me n now shes hangin out wit her ex no im not sayin im judgein cuz i trust her but now i find out she added him again on facebook n idk i need help i guess
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Doing so much for him and getting nothing back...
Posted Sunday March 6 2011, 2:11 am
Okay guys i need your help..
me and my man are not together right now after being together for a year. he forgot our anniversary, he hasn't been treating me good, and we've been doing long distance for 6 months now. I wanted a break/break up because i was tired of him taking me for granted, hoping maybe he'd realize what he's missing. The next day he told me hes just not ready for commitment, then three days later he said he didnt mean that in a way that he didnt want us to be together, but when i explained to him how he has to change and how he's made me feel he changed his mind and said he doesnt know what he wants, so i told him im done. He said he just wants me to give him time to think, but the thing is, i have done so m...
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Age laws
Posted Sunday March 6 2011, 1:10 am
So I was wondering what the laws in California are if an 18 year old was dating a 16 year old. Like without sex but only kissing. Is that legal or they just can't be together?
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This girl I like thinks I'm gay.
Posted Saturday March 5 2011, 11:56 pm
Hey, so I've liked this girl for a few weeks now and I thought she liked me too. I don't think I really act gay at all, but today she asked me if I was gay. I told her no and she said that it was ok to be gay. Like I know for a fact I'm not gay, but she apparently thought I was. Maybe she thought this because I'm a little shy around girls, but I really don't know. Btw I'm a freshman in high school. What should I do?
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almost in high school and never had a boy
Posted Saturday March 5 2011, 10:44 pm
most of my friends have already had their first kiss but i haven't they don't make fun of me or anything but it bugs me that i have never even kissed a boy and neither has my bestest friend and we talk about that alot because we are both worried that we never will. i dont know what to do because i want a boyfriend before i kiss someone but i am almost in high school and never had a boy or my first kiss
i am 14 and a girl
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i like him but i'm not sure if i want to make out with him...
Posted Saturday March 5 2011, 9:42 pm
okay, so this guy... lets call him "a" wants to make out with me... in a week... i like him but i'm not sure if i want to make out with him... if i decide to go for it, how the hell do you make out with someone??
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We haven't met in person so all we do is text?
Posted Saturday March 5 2011, 8:24 pm
Ive been texting this guy for a while now. Almost a year nd were always flirting with each other. We haven't met in person so all we do is text. Sometimes we don't even talk at all. All we do is send smileys like. ( :D . (: . :o ) stuff like that. I was wondering why is that? I feel like we don't know wat to talk about but we still want to keep texting each other. Helppp.
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I don't want to be the Jealous gf
Posted Saturday March 5 2011, 7:40 pm
Okay I know that my boyfriend loves me and he hasn't ever said anything. But I am the type that gets jealous easily. Idk why??? Idk how to stop either. Just over stupid things like him hanging out with a friend or even family. PLEASE help. I try to just bite my lip and not say anything. I don't want to be the jealous girlfriend, and I don't want to feel like that.
Help Please
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Do I have a Controlling Boyfriend?
Posted Saturday March 5 2011, 6:10 pm
Yesterday I hung out with my friends all day. At 6 I went over to their dorm and hung out until 10. There were a couple guys there too but just friends. When I get back he is mad at me because I did not spend the day with him. He says that I have to apologize and that I am wrong. The next day he says that I can't hang out with those friends anymore because they tend to sleep around. I hardly hang out with anyone besides me boyfriend in the first place. Their sleeping around does not affect me at all, they are nice and never push anything on to me. They only do that when they are at parties which i am not allowed to go to without my boyfriend. So because I still want to talk to them he broke up with me. Is this controlling?
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i feel left out of my own relationship
Posted Saturday March 5 2011, 5:06 pm
i feel left out of my own relationship sometimes. i try to think about the things i need to do to keep everything in check but he doesnt say thank you and give me a kiss like he used to. i dont get help from him and he doesnt really listen when i talk about our problems i can ask him to repeat what i just said and he cant do it i dont know if its a concious effort on his part or not but it bugs. he wants to fix things after we discuss it and i cry but the next day its like nothing happened. am i not trying hard enough? have i not gotten the kind of communication down? i dont know what the hell the problem is i just know we got one and i cant seem to fix it HELP!!!!!!!!!!
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just found out he has a baby....
Posted Saturday March 5 2011, 2:48 pm
so my boyfriend and i are going on three years together and we both just turned eighteen. we live together with a friend but we cant support ourselves yet............so we get a phone call one night saying my boyfriend of three years has a kid with the girl he lost his virginity too which was like five months before we got together. how do i handle this? i want kids but i want them to be mine and way way down the road. i love him but does that mean i have to love the baby too? what should i do?
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Two Guys That Both Like Me
Posted Saturday March 5 2011, 2:41 pm
I have known my friend "Ryan" since I was 9 and recently found out that he likes me. I should have known because he is always trying to touch me or look into my shirt. He knows I have a boyfriend though. My boyfriend, "John", is somone I have known for three years and have been with for almost a year. I like him very much. Ryan knows I am with John but persists in trying to get me to like him. I really don't know what to do because I don't want to hurt either. what should I try? I have told Ryan how I feel but he just laughed and then grabbed my butt. Please help.
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Is crappy sex worth breaking up over?
Posted Saturday March 5 2011, 2:11 pm
My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now, and I've been noticing that our sex life is getting crappier and crappier, at least for me, because its becoming more and more about him. I have tried talking to him about it, telling him what I like, etc, but it doesn't help. We don't even kiss or cuddle anymore, if he wants sex (which isn't very often, about once every two weeks) he'll just poke me with it. If he wants head he'll just nudge my head down there. I can't remember the last time he touched me in a way that would bring me pleasure.
In all other aspects of the relationship he's great. I love him, but the crappy sex life is becoming a really big issue for me, and I don't know how to get him to understand t...
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FAMILY VS. MY MAN. very stressed out
Posted Saturday March 5 2011, 12:47 pm
So the times coming up to where i have to leave my family. I am an egyptian muslim girl and i live in america with my parents. I am a senior in high school and i am in a relationship with a boy whos in college thats two years older then i am. We have been together for almost three years know. My parents do not like him at all just because they caught me going out with him and also found a picture of us kissing. I think also because my parents are a little racist against bangali people. My parents right know are trying to get me engaged to another man in egypt but i keep refusing. I am turing 18 very soon and when that happens i am planning on leaving my house and telling my parents im going to marry my bf. I dont know if they will ever forg...
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