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i trust her but now i find out she added him again on facebook
ight well me n my girlfriend are haveing problems right now people are telling her stuff bout me n now shes hangin out wit her ex no im not sayin im judgein cuz i trust her but now i find out she added him again on facebook n idk i need help i guess
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i dont thinkk you need help, i think thats normal.. not only would i be questioning that but id be pissed too.. you really let her hang out with her ex? oh hell nooo i would not have that. lol my boyfriend does not and will not talk to his exes as long as im with him and thats just me but thats how everyone should be. exes are a nonooo.. i dont care if theyre "still friends" haha. no. soo def. talk to her about it and get down to the bottom of it! ;)
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hii. i would talk to her about it. say something along the lines of making her choose who she wants. tell her it makes you uncomfortable that she is hanging out with him alone,ask her how it would make her feel if you were hangingout with your ex girlfriend and started adding her on facebook. try to make her see your point of view. hope i helped.
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Bro, im wit Zane. but dont leave her and move on. because wen she stops being happy with him she will come runin back to yu. make her choose, ask her how she would feel if you were hangin out with your ex's. explain to her that your kinda uneasy with the fact he is in the picture... Then tell her its a problem, and ask her to choose.. then if she chooses you, make sure she doesnt socialize with him and move on from there. if she does it behind ur back. move on, because any girl that does that is bad news bro
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First of all, you need to learn how to write the English language and second of all, you must be very young to be worrying about Facebook issues. Get out into the real world and quit worrying about senseless issues. If your girl is nottrustworthy, you will know it before too long. Her true colors will come shining through. If not, Facebook is never a good indicator.
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You trust her, But she doesn't trust you
Your girlfriend went ahead and added her "ex" boyfriend you also stated she is hanging out with him. Your girlfriend has already made up her mind on what she wants, If she trusted you and the relationship she wouldn't have any reason to go crawling back to her ex yet alone listen to what other people are telling her. Waiting around, Is a waste of time. You can confront her but that doesn't change the fact that your relationship is on the rocks the point is she was gullible enough to let people get in the way of you and her.
Your girlfriend crawled back to her ex, Now I know you said you trust her but let me ask you something...Exactly what do you think is going to happen if she continues to hang out with her ex again? It's a wake up call, Dump her and move on
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Hmm, this is a bit of a toughie. Sorry to tell you this, but if you're thinking these things then some part of you doesn't trust her. You need to figure out why.
I am going to say this, however. It is possible for exes to remain friends. Just because they are hanging out again doesn't mean they're doing anything. If they were together a long time, there will be feelings involved between them. If it was a small little relationship, then it's highly possible they got over that and became friends.
Now about her friends telling her things about you. Are they false allegations? If so you need to tell her that. If you want it to work, you need to make it work. She's likely to believe her friends, especially if they've been friends a long time. But if she truly loves you she will hear you out. Hope I helped! :)
-countrie
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