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so there is a guy i like at school. im not sure if i should tell him or not. i talk to him sometimes in two of my classes but thats pretty much it. I think about telling him every night. I just dont know if he would feel the same way. I dont want him to stop talking to me if he doesnt feel the same way. Also i dont know how i could tell him because im shy and cant just tell him. He hasnt really dated any girls either. Girls like him and all but he just isnt into them. I asked him awhile ago if he liked anybody he said no and i asked him if would date anybody from our school he shrugged his shoulders and said i dont know and asked me why i was beating around the bush. I just dont wanna tell him and get hurt. Its our senior year anyways, but i cant stop thinking about him. what do you think? (link)
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Have you ever thought this guy might be gay? Why hasn't a senior in high school had any dates before?
If you are that hung up on him, let him know. What can it hurt? If he rebuffs you, then at least you'll know and you can stop wasting your evenings obsessing about whether he likes you or not. If you are a senior in high school, it's about time you pony up and stop playing kindergarten games with this fella. He can only reject you one time. If he does, there's plenty more fish in the sea - move on.
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Iam going to my boyfriends sister's wedding on may 14th and Iam not really big on dresses do I have to get dressed up and if I do do I have to wear a dress can I wear jeans? (link)
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I think you should could enough respect for your boyfriend (and his sister) not to show up donning jeans. Put on a dress, for heaven's sake, and act like a mature young lady, if only for your boyfriend's sake. He love ya more than ever and after all, it's only one day for a few hours. By May 14th, it should be hot enough that a nice breezy dress will probably feel good!
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ight well me n my girlfriend are haveing problems right now people are telling her stuff bout me n now shes hangin out wit her ex no im not sayin im judgein cuz i trust her but now i find out she added him again on facebook n idk i need help i guess (link)
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First of all, you need to learn how to write the English language and second of all, you must be very young to be worrying about Facebook issues. Get out into the real world and quit worrying about senseless issues. If your girl is nottrustworthy, you will know it before too long. Her true colors will come shining through. If not, Facebook is never a good indicator.
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I'm with this girl who I have been trying to get with for a while. She has on occasion mentioned giving head to other guys in the past nonchalantly, which makes me jealous.
I'm usually doing the work in the bed, and she wont ever finish me off/give me head. We've had sex... but I sort of have a fetish with handjobs/blowjobs... why if she likes me as much as she said give me a blowjob, while shes given other guys blowjobs? I mean, I treat her better than anyone else, I shave down there, take care of my hygiene, and have an average penis.
It bothers me a lot to know that I have to work so hard to get so little when others worked so little to get so much. Can someone help me get over this? or fix this? or advice at all?
It makes me feel like i'm not worth so much because she wont put forth the effort to please me anywhere near the level she has other guys. (link)
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I think you shouldn't be worried about this girl giving you a bj - it's absolutely ludicrous to think that woman like doing this in the first place - it's utterly distasteful - you apparently look at too many sexual-oriented magazines; in the second place, it's immature to think that you should be getting bj'd every time you have sex - you mention "finishing you off," - possibly she doesn't want to "finish you off" that way - possibly she'd actually like you to "finish" with HER........Stop obsessing about bj's. It's not worth the anguish. They're a dime a dozen...or should I say $20.00 a dozen. Most girls only do this either for money or because they're trying to impress you. It's NOT something most girls like doing - trust me.
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I am having trouble with a snobby coworker who seems to think she is God's gift to black men, but she is white and married, and Ms. Perfect. The woman citisizes everything I do, wear, or say to all her friends, all black, behind my back. Of course, sooner or later, it gets back to me. First of all, this woman is married to a black man I know from another job, yet I know, i.e. proof, she is having an affair with another black man at this job. Second, this woman is only 5'1" and weighs 180 lbs. with a super wide behind. Third, Ms. Perfect loves to critisize myself, and others when they make a little mistake, yet acts like it is no big deal when she does. I have caught her cutting corners, against company rules, several times while doing her work, but since the black supervisors are also buddy buddy with her, I feel like I can't tell them about it without bringing trouble on myself. Their is another white woman that is having the same problems with Ms. Snobby/Perfect that i'm having, and we are both sick of it. How would any of you handle this person? (link)
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I think this problem will take care of itself in due time. In the meantime, refuse to be in the vicinity where Miss Perfect resides, do not take issue with her on anything, ignore her criticisms and avoid her if at all possible. If she is married, she will be found out soon enough and you will have to do nothing but stand and watch the fall-out. Finally, if you feel you cannot tolerate working with this woman or in this toxic environment, I advise looking for another job.
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while having oral sex just a bit of my sperms touch my girlfriends vaigaina but she washed in a second but now sheis not getting in periods its 37th day now????????can she be pregnant????????????we even did a test of pregranacy its negative means she is not pregnant so what could be the reason for not getting in periods????????? (link)
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I don't understand how your sperm could have touched your girl's vagina if she was performing oral sex on you. I doubt seriously that she is pregnant. There could be another physical problem going on that needs addressing by a physician, but I would ask her to do another pregnancy test, just to make sure, and if her period does not appear soon, possibly she should visit her doctor.
Does she have normal monthly periods now? Could there be stress factors involved? There are many things that could delay her period, but I doubt pregnancy is one of them in this case. Good luck!
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How to tell a brother I want to play alone (link)
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You don't say how old you are - how old your brother is, if is he younger, older, male orfemale. I really would need more information to answer properly.
Having said that, as a general answer, plainly state to him that you would like some time to yourself to think about things and you think better with no distractions. Playing with him is always a lot of fun, but it's also takes a lot of energy and sometimes, you'd just rather be quiet. If he gets angry, I don't think you need to be too worried about it. He'll get over it and your sibling "bond" will not suffer. If he is younger, there will come a time when he needs "alone" time, as well.
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ok so this is the deal. im 14/f and me an this kid really like eachother. were gonna hang at the movies(not for a first date because we have hungout before) and we both know we wanna kiss eachother but idk how far i should let him go or i dont even no how we should kiss. i needd helpp for all those people who have stepped foot in my shoes beforee! thanks :) (link)
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At your age, you like all kinds of guys and all kinds of guys like you. You are at the experimental age and feelings come and go on a whim. I would wait a while and let your hormones settle down with one person before I'd let anyone touch my body. In a perfect world, you would be waiting until you find someone you are in love with and they would be the one to share these feelings of love, lust with - and that's what makes all this so special and right. Our bodies are not our own - they belong to God - He created them and told us to respect his wishes regarding what we put in them, how we treat them and take care of them. That above all should be a priority. Having said that, there's absolutely nothing wrong with time spent kissing your boy, time alone talking, hanging out, experiencing fun adventures and going places with other friends along - it's just plain fun and that's a great way to decide in life the kind of person we like, what characteristics we want in a future mate, etc.. Experimenting and a little variety is always inevitable. Just keep it above board, most of all have respect for yourself, and make sure the boys you seek out have respect for themselves, as well. Who wants to have a relationship with someone would just lay down with any and everybody at the drop of a hat? You really do want somebody special and who treats you with the respect and care you deserve. Remember, you have a long life to live. Don't live it with regrets about doing foolish things in your teenage years. Being a teenager is for having fun, being carefree, but also being careful.........especially these days.
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Agree my life sucks would love too have it over today would be good, I blaim my ex husband for no suport and three kids i do not like. I could have used help in making them better people, but he walked away . and lifes the life of a millionare littraly his house is worth 2 million please advices on way of getting rid of myself I offer nothing
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Ending your life would not help your kids in any way. Why do you not like your own children? How old are they? You seem to be in a bad position with very little or no support from anyone. Do you have any support from other family members, friends, etc? This is what you need. Find a minister in your community or pastor in a nearby church and talk to them - they will be glad to help you, give you advice as to what to do to get the mental help you need. You are probably stressed beyond belief and see suicide as a "way" out of the grief and pain in which you now live. Don't let those feelings (and remember those feelings are always temporary) push you into making a choice as final and as short-sighted as suicide. That will only complicate the situation. Get help as soon as you can from anyone and don't shut down - don't stop talking to anyone who will listen. There ARE alternatives to what you are thinking and in a short period of time, things will look totally different and you will be glad you didn't heap all that guilt on your children, like them or not. And prayer helps, as well. He will ALWAYS be there to listen to your problems when NO ONE else will. Trust me.
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