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confused girl
so there is a guy i like at school. im not sure if i should tell him or not. i talk to him sometimes in two of my classes but thats pretty much it. I think about telling him every night. I just dont know if he would feel the same way. I dont want him to stop talking to me if he doesnt feel the same way. Also i dont know how i could tell him because im shy and cant just tell him. He hasnt really dated any girls either. Girls like him and all but he just isnt into them. I asked him awhile ago if he liked anybody he said no and i asked him if would date anybody from our school he shrugged his shoulders and said i dont know and asked me why i was beating around the bush. I just dont wanna tell him and get hurt. Its our senior year anyways, but i cant stop thinking about him. what do you think?
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Have you ever thought this guy might be gay? Why hasn't a senior in high school had any dates before?
If you are that hung up on him, let him know. What can it hurt? If he rebuffs you, then at least you'll know and you can stop wasting your evenings obsessing about whether he likes you or not. If you are a senior in high school, it's about time you pony up and stop playing kindergarten games with this fella. He can only reject you one time. If he does, there's plenty more fish in the sea - move on.
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Have you not heard of not regreting anything you do. I would tell him because if you asked him if he would date anyone and he shrugged his sholders and asked you why your beating around the bush uh yeah dude is interested in what you have to say. Try asking him out he seems undesisive so he'll probaly say idk and guess what you say before that...you say it's a yes or no question. Haha tha is so cute becuase I got with a guy like that my freshman year in high school and I got a yes plus I did it over paper yeah it was dorky but hey I got what I wanted. So yeah um ask him out I doubt that he will stop talking to you over this I mean its senior year you got to make the best of it. Hope I didn't sound mean and I helped you in your dilema.
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I think you should tell him openly how you feel. If you only ever 'think' about telling him EvErY single night, then this is just going to keep eating away at you. You will never get anywhere or know how he feels until you 'actually ask him'. You already talk to him in your two classes, so casually ask him "have you ever thought of us being more than friends?". When he responds, you will know the answer. A guy isn't going to be turned off by a girl showing interest in him. If anything, he will be flattered.
I honestly think that he already knows you like him. When he asked you "why are you beating around the bush?" that tells you that he already suspects you like him. All you have to do now is ask him if he would like to hang out and make it happen. If you are thinking about him all the time and haven't made any effort to see if he would like to chill with you, then you will never ever know/get the chance. Ask yourself this: would you rather sit on the sidelines and keep wondering if he would date you OR talk to him and ask him out before someone else does?
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