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I want my life to end. I blaim my ex husband for no suport and three kids i do not like.
Agree my life sucks would love too have it over today would be good, I blaim my ex husband for no suport and three kids i do not like. I could have used help in making them better people, but he walked away . and lifes the life of a millionare littraly his house is worth 2 million please advices on way of getting rid of myself I offer nothing
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Ending your life would not help your kids in any way. Why do you not like your own children? How old are they? You seem to be in a bad position with very little or no support from anyone. Do you have any support from other family members, friends, etc? This is what you need. Find a minister in your community or pastor in a nearby church and talk to them - they will be glad to help you, give you advice as to what to do to get the mental help you need. You are probably stressed beyond belief and see suicide as a "way" out of the grief and pain in which you now live. Don't let those feelings (and remember those feelings are always temporary) push you into making a choice as final and as short-sighted as suicide. That will only complicate the situation. Get help as soon as you can from anyone and don't shut down - don't stop talking to anyone who will listen. There ARE alternatives to what you are thinking and in a short period of time, things will look totally different and you will be glad you didn't heap all that guilt on your children, like them or not. And prayer helps, as well. He will ALWAYS be there to listen to your problems when NO ONE else will. Trust me.
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First; no one on this site will offer you the type of advice you are asking for, it is not what we do. It is also illegal to do so.
To address the most immediate problem, that being where you are at the moment, somewhat feed up with life. Pick up the phone and dial 911. Tell the 911 operator you are looking for ways to kill yourself. They will send the appropriate help to you.
As to your second problem, which I see is the root cause of your first problem, there is help for this too. This help comes in two forms; first you have to feel better about yourself. To do so means also solving the second problem. The people who will be helping you feel better about yourself also have the means to help you resolve the second problem.
Should your ex-husband have the funds you say he does there are ways to squeeze the money he should be paying in child support an alimony if agreed to out of him. As long as the children are under 18 he is legally obligate, by both Federal and most States laws to pay child support. These laws allow the State and Federal government to attach bank accounts, earnings, investment and anything he owns to satisfy this child support payments.
Further more since you are in a condition at the moment where family services will be stepping in to assist you, all the legal work will be done by them. They know all the ins and outs of the system and are the best prepared to run the labyrinth of red tape and other problems stemming from the way the different laws are written and applied.
Instead of looking to end things; start to look at starting something. As the saying goes: :Today can be the first day of the rest of your life"; it starts by calling 911 and asking for help.
You may not what to accept my advice as being sound advice, but it is. It is the best advice for the protection of your children. I noticed you did not say you didn't love your children only that you didn't like them.
I have a sun who has grown into a great young man. I am very proud of what he has become and what he does. There are times though when I don't like something he has done or is doing and may not like him for it. But, whatever he has done or is doing never diminishes my love for him, just slightly tarnishes the pride I have for him.
It is okay for a parent at times not to like their child or children. Especially in situations of divorce. Children of divorce can be very mean and demanding on the custodial parent; making it very hard on that parent to deal with them.
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You're being very selfish right now. If you have three children, how dare you say you don't like them just because of your ex-husband? A guy does not make a woman and if you're THAT dependent on a man, then that is something you should probably change. Some people would do anything to have a life, and you're throwing yours away for no reason.
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