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How far should I let him go?
ok so this is the deal. im 14/f and me an this kid really like eachother. were gonna hang at the movies(not for a first date because we have hungout before) and we both know we wanna kiss eachother but idk how far i should let him go or i dont even no how we should kiss. i needd helpp for all those people who have stepped foot in my shoes beforee! thanks :)
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At your age, you like all kinds of guys and all kinds of guys like you. You are at the experimental age and feelings come and go on a whim. I would wait a while and let your hormones settle down with one person before I'd let anyone touch my body. In a perfect world, you would be waiting until you find someone you are in love with and they would be the one to share these feelings of love, lust with - and that's what makes all this so special and right. Our bodies are not our own - they belong to God - He created them and told us to respect his wishes regarding what we put in them, how we treat them and take care of them. That above all should be a priority. Having said that, there's absolutely nothing wrong with time spent kissing your boy, time alone talking, hanging out, experiencing fun adventures and going places with other friends along - it's just plain fun and that's a great way to decide in life the kind of person we like, what characteristics we want in a future mate, etc.. Experimenting and a little variety is always inevitable. Just keep it above board, most of all have respect for yourself, and make sure the boys you seek out have respect for themselves, as well. Who wants to have a relationship with someone would just lay down with any and everybody at the drop of a hat? You really do want somebody special and who treats you with the respect and care you deserve. Remember, you have a long life to live. Don't live it with regrets about doing foolish things in your teenage years. Being a teenager is for having fun, being carefree, but also being careful.........especially these days.
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Okay your only 14 so you shouldn't be letting any boy go far. It's okay to kiss but don't do anything else because guys useually take that as a ticket to take avantage of you trust me I've been there. When it happened to me it broke my heart cause I looked really bad to guys. Don't let guys take advantage of your feelings and think that your some object its not fair to you. Plus its only a date he's not your boyfriend. You don' want to look skanky I know that sounds bad but guys at that age think that way.
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