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Snobby coworker


Question Posted Thursday March 3 2011, 3:28 am

I am having trouble with a snobby coworker who seems to think she is God's gift to black men, but she is white and married, and Ms. Perfect. The woman citisizes everything I do, wear, or say to all her friends, all black, behind my back. Of course, sooner or later, it gets back to me. First of all, this woman is married to a black man I know from another job, yet I know, i.e. proof, she is having an affair with another black man at this job. Second, this woman is only 5'1" and weighs 180 lbs. with a super wide behind. Third, Ms. Perfect loves to critisize myself, and others when they make a little mistake, yet acts like it is no big deal when she does. I have caught her cutting corners, against company rules, several times while doing her work, but since the black supervisors are also buddy buddy with her, I feel like I can't tell them about it without bringing trouble on myself. Their is another white woman that is having the same problems with Ms. Snobby/Perfect that i'm having, and we are both sick of it. How would any of you handle this person?

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sapphire5660 answered Thursday March 3 2011, 12:17 pm:
I think this problem will take care of itself in due time. In the meantime, refuse to be in the vicinity where Miss Perfect resides, do not take issue with her on anything, ignore her criticisms and avoid her if at all possible. If she is married, she will be found out soon enough and you will have to do nothing but stand and watch the fall-out. Finally, if you feel you cannot tolerate working with this woman or in this toxic environment, I advise looking for another job.

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