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never been kissed
im 17 and the most unexperienced person ever. i have never had a boyfriend or kissed anyone. i wouldnt exactly say im ugly or anything, and im not weird i just dont know how to act around boys. what do i do?
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I don't think its you not knowing how to act around boys, its just if it doesn't feel "right," then why do it? To be affectionate with another person and for example kissing and etc. yao want this moment to feel right, special and 100% comfortable in your own skin. To be honest my first interaction with a person of the opposite sex was when I was 18 and not to encourage or give you ideas, it was also my first year in college. I guess my problem was that nothing ever felt right and I wasn't comfortable. Just think of it as a time you can tell this story to your kids, it could be quite a lesson learned! So don't get discourage and be happy who you are and more importantly knowing who you are. Sorry if I wasn't a superb help on this.
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Start being more confident in yourself. Guys can not resist a confident girl. If there's a specific guy that you're crushing on go up to him and ask him if he has a date to prom yet, or something of that sort. Or you could just ask him if he'd like to go out sometime. Just whatever you do, be confident. Don't be too concerned about being inexperienced, it will all fall in place!
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Ahh,don't worry too much about that! I worried forever about my first kiss and I'm 14! Honestly I can say this;Kissing is easy and is seriously just comes naturally you just know what to do,well I did! And me and alot of my friends agree it comes naturally you'll end up thinking "what was I worrying about" or "that was pretty good" as for talking to guys,I know its kinda weird just talking to a total stranger but let's say you like going to the gym to walk track,or get on the treadmills.There are TONS of guys at the gym so you could meet a guy there.Or if you like horseback riding join a horseback riding club and go meet guys on the trails.You see what I'm saying? Try meeting guys doing things you like to do! Or if you have guy friends ask them if they have friends to set you up with.Just be yourself and the right guy will come along! Or if you have friends ask them for tips on flirting! My tips on flirting would be if you see a guy out and about in town,at school,where ever and you think he's cute just glance at him and smile! If he smiles back he's flirting back,and if he's not shy he'll probably come over to you.But try and keep in mind guys are just as shy,if not more so then girls.
But not being kissed isn't that big a deal just wait and put yourself out there go out,flirt around you'll pick up someone in no time!
Best of luck!(:
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everybody goes at their own pace and that's cool if their are guys that are into you then go for it! kissing is the most easiest thing ever and trust me at the spur of the moment you'll find that it just comes naturally and you'll feel like a pro, but if you are abit intimidated then maybe theres a friend that you can experience your kiss with and after that you'll share it with someone special and you'll know what you're doing. boys like girls that are themselves so just be yourself crack a joke or two just blend in lol they're not that complicated
best of luck!
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