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I love singing,music,makeup,hairstyling,horseback riding,fourwheeler riding I'm just pretty much up for anything!
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im 17 and the most unexperienced person ever. i have never had a boyfriend or kissed anyone. i wouldnt exactly say im ugly or anything, and im not weird i just dont know how to act around boys. what do i do? (link)
Ahh,don't worry too much about that! I worried forever about my first kiss and I'm 14! Honestly I can say this;Kissing is easy and is seriously just comes naturally you just know what to do,well I did! And me and alot of my friends agree it comes naturally you'll end up thinking "what was I worrying about" or "that was pretty good" as for talking to guys,I know its kinda weird just talking to a total stranger but let's say you like going to the gym to walk track,or get on the treadmills.There are TONS of guys at the gym so you could meet a guy there.Or if you like horseback riding join a horseback riding club and go meet guys on the trails.You see what I'm saying? Try meeting guys doing things you like to do! Or if you have guy friends ask them if they have friends to set you up with.Just be yourself and the right guy will come along! Or if you have friends ask them for tips on flirting! My tips on flirting would be if you see a guy out and about in town,at school,where ever and you think he's cute just glance at him and smile! If he smiles back he's flirting back,and if he's not shy he'll probably come over to you.But try and keep in mind guys are just as shy,if not more so then girls.
But not being kissed isn't that big a deal just wait and put yourself out there go out,flirt around you'll pick up someone in no time!
Best of luck!(:


1 likes 2 play xbox a lot the other 1 bike jumping i like 2 do both but they want me 2 do it all day I get bored but I don't leave 2 be polite

1of them what I do I'm a lot better than
And the other 1 with the bike jumping annoys the **** out of me they both want 2 fight each other though so we can't go bike riding on big trips with all our girlfriends I just want to go for the bike ride on this massive 15k trail but they hate each other how do I get them to be friends 1hates 1 for acting tough and other 1 hate the other 1 for being up himself how do I get them 2 become friends and how do I say politely I want to go home? (link)
Well,you can't exactly make them be friends.But maybe you can ask them both sepreratly why they don't like each other and try to work it out from there? Maybe they're just those people who absolutley just can't get along and if that's the case you can't really do anything.I would just ask them seperatley why they hate each other.
And about getting bored and wanting to leave maybe you could try "Hey,I've had fun and all but I think I'm gunna go home and chill for a bit." Or "Thanks for hanging with me,it was fun but I'm think I'm gunna head home now." And if they get mad then they're not very good friends anyway.
And if they're your friends they shouldn't put you in the middle of it all they should act like men and settle it themselves.
Hope I helped,I tried! Good luck!


Im having the BIGGEST slumber party ever!
.. but i need ideas on what i can do!
so it isnt boring for one second!
x p.s please answer my other question its called "why do i look so bad in photos?!" (link)
Ok,so I hope I help I'll try to think of as many as possible and I'm sorry if you don't like any!
*possible old but prank call cute guys it never gets old,trust me!
*Candy,and lots of it,it'll keep you up!(May I recommend pixie stix)
*get icecubes and see who can keep them on their bellybuttons the longest.
*draw on each other like mustaches and beards(with a washable marker) and take pictures
*bake cookies,brownies,etc.
*buy clay maske stuff and do facials I think its like 3-5 bucks at walmart.
*take tons of blankets and pillows and have everyone sleep on the floor.
*make a scrapbook of the pictures you take and write down the funny things you say,you never know how many jokes you forget so write them down and have a good laugh later.
*make forts,and tents with your blankets pillows,etc.
*blindfolded makeovers
*dance off(funner than you may think)
*hide and seek in the dark.
*tag in the dark(careful haha)
*finger paint
*real pillow fights
*chubby bunny(hilarious if you don't know what it is look it up)
*this may sound funny but I love it,cover your floor in blankets,pillows,pool floats and beach balls and pretend to swim around
*play volleyball with the beach ball.
*make a slip n slide with your sheets(or matress) and slide down the stairs(so much fun!)
*if you have a trampoline jump on it(even if its snowing at yourhouse)
*ding dong ditch your neighboor
That's all I can think of at the momment sorry if you didn't like them I tried! Hope you have fun!


I am 13 and the guy I like is 13 too. I am a female and he is a male. How do I know if he likes me? We are good friends. I know all his secrets and he knows all mine...we hang out a lot too. Does he like me, or like like me? (link)
Well,every guy is different but I hope I can help I'm around your age I'm 14 so I'll try!
Ok so usually they will
*touch you on you arms alot.
*play with your hair.
*hug you alot(depending on his personality)
*walk you to class possibly
*take up for you if another guy is rude to you.
*compliment you.
*tease you playfully.
*be protective
*knows when your upset.
*tries to make you laugh.
Etc. There's a few I agree with the person above he will treat you different than other girls!
Flirt with you!
And basically what I said above but if you suspect he likes you,why not ask him out? Its perfectly normal for girls to ask the guy out and I know alot of girls are afraid they'll say no.But let's put it this way,if you don't ask you probably won't have a chance(unless he asks you)
But if you at least try you'll have somewhat of a chance! And if he says no,that's fine there are so many guys out there I'm sure you hear that and I don't know if your in high school but if your not when you get there,there will be so many guys you'll get whiplash!
Anyway I hope everything goes good,best of luck! (:


so i want to know, i was in one of my classes. and one of my guy friends just randomly got closer to mean and then touched my face, i was so confused and shocked. what does this mean?? does he like me?? (link)
Well,how did he touch your face? Did he caress it? Did he sweep his hand across your cheek? How long did he keep his hands on you? Ask yourself would you consider his move flirty? Has he ever done it before?
It also depends on the guy he is,is he a flirt? Or is he really shy? If he's a flirty guy maybe he was just flirting,or if he's shy maybe he's showing interest?
I would just keep a eyes on him and if he's acting weird I would suspect he's planting moves on you! Just think about his personality and if he's touchy feely with other girls then that should help you decide.Also like I said if he keeps this behavior up then you should know! Hope I helped best of luck!




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