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We haven't met in person so all we do is text?


Question Posted Saturday March 5 2011, 8:24 pm

Ive been texting this guy for a while now. Almost a year nd were always flirting with each other. We haven't met in person so all we do is text. Sometimes we don't even talk at all. All we do is send smileys like. ( :D . (: . :o ) stuff like that. I was wondering why is that? I feel like we don't know wat to talk about but we still want to keep texting each other. Helppp.

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DearAbby92 answered Sunday March 6 2011, 6:08 pm:
It sounds like you two are just using each other for entertainment.

You have fun talking to each other and think of each other as a potential hook up but don't take it very seriously. Lots of people text each other for fun or just to have a person on the back burner in case they decided to have a hook up, but it's especially odd with you sicne you haven't met. And for a whole year? That to me screams that neither of you take it seriously and that nothing is going to happen.

If you think you might like him and want something to work, then you have to put in the effort. Make conversation, see if you have things in common and see if you have chemistry. Have a phone call for god's sake! Hear his voice.

Then you can decide if you want to meet him in person.

Good luck,

-Abby

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