I have known my friend "Ryan" since I was 9 and recently found out that he likes me. I should have known because he is always trying to touch me or look into my shirt. He knows I have a boyfriend though. My boyfriend, "John", is somone I have known for three years and have been with for almost a year. I like him very much. Ryan knows I am with John but persists in trying to get me to like him. I really don't know what to do because I don't want to hurt either. what should I try? I have told Ryan how I feel but he just laughed and then grabbed my butt. Please help.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? lightoftruth923 answered Saturday March 5 2011, 7:36 pm: Wow Ryan is a jerk. I can't stand when guys do that and think they can just touch girls like that anytime.
So anyway, you need to tell Ryan to seriously stop because you don't see him that way and you actually do care about your boyfriend. If he doesn't stop, you shouldn't be his friend.
He seems like the kind of guy who is all over your body, if you get what I mean. He would be one of those guys that would use you and hurt you. I don't know him but you know, the way people act.
Well just tell him again, and make sure you seem completely serious. If he doesn't stop, don't hang around him anymore. Good luck! [ lightoftruth923's advice column | Ask lightoftruth923 A Question ]
Razhie answered Saturday March 5 2011, 6:46 pm: Ryan is being a bully. Tell him firmly to stop. You have a boyfriend and him trying to get you to like him is rude and belittling.
If you really can't choose between the the two guys - then you probably don't belong with either of them, but Ryan isn't being kind to you if he is persistently trying to steal you away from your boyfriend. That's really rude of him and totally disrespect of your choice to be with John.
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