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i feel left out of my own relationship
i feel left out of my own relationship sometimes. i try to think about the things i need to do to keep everything in check but he doesnt say thank you and give me a kiss like he used to. i dont get help from him and he doesnt really listen when i talk about our problems i can ask him to repeat what i just said and he cant do it i dont know if its a concious effort on his part or not but it bugs. he wants to fix things after we discuss it and i cry but the next day its like nothing happened. am i not trying hard enough? have i not gotten the kind of communication down? i dont know what the hell the problem is i just know we got one and i cant seem to fix it HELP!!!!!!!!!!
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he obviously can't listen or doesn't want to. and its no help that you're the only one throwing in any effort. its time to have a serious one on one talk with him. if he's going to keep being like this, its not worth your time and tears anymore. a relationship is a two way street that you both have to halfway meet in, and right now you're walking a little bit past halfway while he's not even stepping in yet. i'm sorry to say this but i think it may be time to reconsider staying with this person. maybe its time to move on and let him grow up a little, no?
anyways, hope i helped. take care.
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