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I feel a bit lost. I want to do better in my next relationship.
Posted Thursday March 10 2011, 11:02 am
Ok so me and my boyfriend broke up last year, and like most break ups it was a horrible time for me. I missed him so much etc. I feel worse because I initiated the break up but by the time I realised (the day later) what i'd lost, he wasn't interested.
From then onwards i've felt so down. I've tried meeting new guys but it's just not working out for me. I meet so many guys and I get to know them but I feel like they aren't "for me" It's not that i'm holding onto my ex, because i'm not. But after the great relationship I had with him, I want to better that in my next. Is it normal to feel this way? It's getting me really down.
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Complicated feelings
Posted Thursday March 10 2011, 3:37 am
So let me start by saying I don't have a lot of experience with different girls, my shortest relationship was 2 months and my longest was 3 years and that just ended 4 months ago. I was head over heels for this girl from the beginning and I beleive she felt the same way too at the time. We recently both moved to a bigger town to attend school (not living together though) about 2 months after moving she says she wants to break up with me because she doesn't feel the same way about me as she did before, it hurt but I understood and she suggested we still be friends, well three days after she broke up with me she was "seeing" another guy she became friends with after we moved out here, it made me mad to be around them so I stopped, b...
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Whether to break up?
Posted Thursday March 10 2011, 12:07 am
I posted this question about 2 weeks ago: http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=591220 You don't need to read it to answer this, but basically I said I was sick of my boyfriend and everything about him. I'm a high school senior, he's a college freshman, we've been together for close to a year and a half. My discontent with him began last May and hit a high when he bought me an eBay ring for Christmas.
I confronted him 2 weeks ago and told him that he barely talks to me or communicates. I thought that communication might fix us. It hasn't. He stepped up majorly, awesomely so. Yet 2 weeks later, I'm still not happy.
I honestly just don't want to be in a relationship with him anymore. I made that decision last ...
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How do I get over her?
Posted Wednesday March 9 2011, 2:50 am
Well, i've been datting this chick for over 2 years. The first month we went out, she kissed some other dude, flirted around campus, flirted with my own brother, and was flirting with some other guys on myspace. At first, I was never a jealous person, i was cool, i let her hang out with her guy friends at the mall. etc. First date i've ever taken her out, she held hands wit the guy best friend, kissed his chick, stuck with him making me feel like i was the friend. And i got pissed. Downhill from their. 2 months ago she had told me that she cheated on me 5 times (making out, supposedly)And I always was the one to hold that grudge. I made her cry that day cuz for some reason she hides stuff on her phone, so i said i was goin to stab the guy a...
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Should I try again? I really miss him?
Posted Tuesday March 8 2011, 6:12 pm
Ok,so about a month ago I was dating this guy.I had liked him for a long time and he sort of played me when we were just friends making me think he liked me.Then we dated around a month ago and we lasted 2 weeks and he broke up with me saying I was "too young for him" ....when I'm only a year younger than him? So I said ok(he broke up with me right before valentines day too) I actually found out the real reason he broke up with me is because I wouldn't have sex with him.He said I was good for nothing but looks! So I tried to move on and after a month I'm emotionally exhausted of acting like I don't care about him.I tried so hard to forget him,I quit talking to him,I wouldn't even look at him,I started talking to hoards of other gu...
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boyfriend trouble
Posted Tuesday March 8 2011, 4:34 pm
my name is Rachel and Iam 21 will be 22 in another month and my boyfriend is 36 I know big age diffrence please don't lecture me. my boyfriend has major trust issues becouse of past relationships one put him in a wheel chair and paralized him for the rest of his life but let's get to my problem everytime I go out with friends or my sister he accuses me of cheationg on him and i've told him that iam not that type of person over and over again. I havn't done anything to break his trust at least not that iam aware of. How can I get him to believe and trust me?
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i like this boy
Posted Tuesday March 8 2011, 3:15 pm
so i just met this boy and i am really infatuated with him.
we hav been texting nonstop for a couple of days and today he didnt text me ONCE
im so upset.
clearly if he liked me he would of texted me or something
y am i not on his mind??
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so complicated and now hes acting weird...
Posted Tuesday March 8 2011, 6:43 am
im 18/f and hes 19/m
me and this guy have been non stop talking for the past two months. ive talked to him on and off for the last year though, but he had a girlfriend at the time so i didnt really pay that much attention. They broke up 5 months ago after being together for 5 years. for three of those months i was just there on the odd occasion to help him through his messy breakup. But eventually he started opening up to me more and more, and before i knew it we were texting each other non stop, and we were both scared yet so amazed at how much we are alike. How we've always wanted to find the 'boy/girl' versions of ourselves...everything was going perfectly, i mean i found that guy i had been dreaming about since i was 5.....
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Dating an older guy, who I think is in love with somebody else.
Posted Tuesday March 8 2011, 2:27 am
So he is 33...I'm 22. I was very aware of the age difference when I begin to get interested. We come from the same set of friends, including the girl who he was previously dating (she is dating another guy and basically is off and on with that guy). He was always like a big brother to me...so it was weird when I began to have an attraction towards him. He is mature, has an insane work schedule and travels all over the country, he is dependable, and has opened me his entire life...yet, I feel so out of it. Our relationship is definitely not serious and he always talks about my future and how he imagines it and how I will end up with a "specific" type of guy. I can feel the connection with him but I can also feel how he misses her....
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Blowjobs and the girl I'm seeing
Posted Tuesday March 8 2011, 12:36 am
I'm with this girl who I have been trying to get with for a while. She has on occasion mentioned giving head to other guys in the past nonchalantly, which makes me jealous.
I'm usually doing the work in the bed, and she wont ever finish me off/give me head. We've had sex... but I sort of have a fetish with handjobs/blowjobs... why if she likes me as much as she said give me a blowjob, while shes given other guys blowjobs? I mean, I treat her better than anyone else, I shave down there, take care of my hygiene, and have an average penis.
It bothers me a lot to know that I have to work so hard to get so little when others worked so little to get so much. Can someone help me get over this? or fix this? or advice ...
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he stopped loving me...why.. iam so hurt..
Posted Monday March 7 2011, 9:47 pm
well i was with boyfriend a year and almost 4 months a week ago he broke it off saying he stopped loving me long time ago...I got hit by a car on my way too go see him was crossing street too catch bus... he came.. at hospital.. too see him.. didn't really see him after he would say he worked a lot...he waited 4 months after accident too tell me.. he stopped caring ...but he still used too be really caring two months before even a month before.. then he said well i got him to admit that he as speaking too someone else...i cant stand the idea of him... being with someone else i really really love him with all my heart..he blamed me saying everything happened too too fast but i mean he never say stop.. lets take it slow..he begged me too mee...
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i dont know what to do about him...
Posted Monday March 7 2011, 7:00 pm
okay so the boy i like knows i like him and he had a girlfriend and they just broke up well he broke up with her because she cheated on him. And i dont know if i should like talk to him more or something because i can tell he is still hurt because when he told me i could see the hurt in his eyes but i think this is the perfect chance to get him and i am just confused on what i should do any ideas???
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my boyfriend is mad at me
Posted Monday March 7 2011, 6:39 pm
I went to a bar a couple of weeks a go and he said he forgave me for going and he still keeps trowing it in my face every time we get into a fight what do I do?
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DOES HE WANTED ME ONLY FOR SEX? OR DOES HE REALLY LIKE ME?
Posted Monday March 7 2011, 6:21 pm
i went to a party ,it was in a hotel// and i kinda GOT LOST with this guy. and we were holding hands..oh by the way we were alone .. we were walking i sat on his lap. he tried to kiss me but i refuese. He was touching me and told me that he wanted to DO ME. then he was on top of me ohh nd we were on the floor. We didnt do nuthing. he was on top of me toching me and then well a guy came saw us i stoped stand up and i told him we should go back to the party..I WAS REALLY HAVING FUN WITH HIM ...So we went back to the party and like 10 minutes later i saw him kissing another girl and dis girl give him a hickie i acted like i didnt care.. thats why i dance with this guy we danced perreo and i kinda lap dance him...I KNOW he was looking. i talk t...
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Crush giving mixed signals
Posted Monday March 7 2011, 5:41 pm
Hi. I am a 15 year old girl with a crush on a boy at school but he keeps giving me mixed signals. Some days it seems like he might return my feelings but others it seems he wants to just be friends. How do I tell which signal is the right one?
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he feels he can't say im the one until he experiences other things
Posted Monday March 7 2011, 10:10 am
Im 19 female, my boyfriend is 20.. we've dated a year. past week we've been broken up, but last night he called to tell me why. basically he cried (which never ever happens) cried really hard and explained to me how id be an amazing wife and that i was the most perfect girlfriedn and perfect relationship ever and im an amazing person. He said since he's only been with 2 people in a relationship his whole life, and slept with, that he feels he can't say im the one until he experiences other things. The same time though he kept saying how much he hates himself but he doesn't wanna lie to me and start pushing me away later because of this feeling. He kept going back to how he's torn because he does not wanna let me go at all but he doesn't wan...
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Boyfriend moving away for 3 years
Posted Monday March 7 2011, 6:10 am
I am 21 and my boyfriend who I have been with for 3 years now is moving interstate coz he got offered a job. He will be about 12 hours driving away and we already had a year apart when he was traveling overseas last year. It is so hard on us and I don't think I can do this again since he will be away for 3 years and by then we will be 24 and that is a massive part of our lives if we don't end up staying together anyway. I always thought we would end up married and having babies in a few years time. He is leaving in a month and I love him so so much like he loves me but I can't wait around for 3 years for him. It's just too hard. When do I tell him and what do I say? I don't want to break up with him but I think I'll have to I have no choice...
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curious
Posted Monday March 7 2011, 12:34 am
I know this Guy who ive Known for about 15 years now.
He was around alot during my Childhood years.!
Hes not to much older then iam.
He's a really good friend who i tell everything to.
He told me he wanted to be with me & that he was in love with me.
I dont know what to do!
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My boyfriend can be too honest
Posted Sunday March 6 2011, 11:38 pm
I have been with my boyfriend for a little over 2 years. We get along pretty well, to be honest. We see each other a lot and we hardly ever fight. Thing is, I just feel sometimes that he can be a bit too honest with me about stuff. It's never, ever been an everyday issue but it's been almost constant for the past couple of weeks for some reason.. For instance, he'll tell me something like "You have a zit", or that "your breath smells". It's annoying because I don't know why he feels the need to tell me stuff like that. Today, which is what really set me off, is that he said something about my drawings. He tells me a lot that I'm a good drawer and that I make good artwork, but today he decided to point out flaws about my ...
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I don't want to ruin our friendship, but it kills me to think of him with anyone but me...
Posted Sunday March 6 2011, 11:26 pm
I'm fifteen, a girl, and a sophomore. This guy is sixteen, a junior. Ever since my freshman year we've been REALLY close friends. We share almost everything with eachother, and we both help eachother get into relationships (like wingman stuff ya know?? haha) but were also there to help with the aftermaths. We've both gone through really bad breakups and helped eachother through by just talking and being there for a shoulder to cry on... well for me to cry on haha. Also, since we've been friends we've aaaalways flirted with eachother. Like, just joking around though. Cept I do sit in his lap or snuggle with him sometimes but we've been doing that since forever. The thing is, recently I feel more for him... We've both been single for a while....
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