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How do I get over her?


Question Posted Wednesday March 9 2011, 2:50 am

Well, i've been datting this chick for over 2 years. The first month we went out, she kissed some other dude, flirted around campus, flirted with my own brother, and was flirting with some other guys on myspace. At first, I was never a jealous person, i was cool, i let her hang out with her guy friends at the mall. etc. First date i've ever taken her out, she held hands wit the guy best friend, kissed his chick, stuck with him making me feel like i was the friend. And i got pissed. Downhill from their. 2 months ago she had told me that she cheated on me 5 times (making out, supposedly)And I always was the one to hold that grudge. I made her cry that day cuz for some reason she hides stuff on her phone, so i said i was goin to stab the guy and whatever, so i got sent to a mental hospitol. Anyways, recently we broke up, she was saying how her feeling changed and she wants to be friends.But it hurts so much to hear that. what shall I do ? :(

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Additional info, added Wednesday March 9 2011, 2:55 am:
17/m, she a 16/f.

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lightoftruth923 answered Wednesday March 9 2011, 6:50 pm:
Wow that is really sad. Well she's not worth your time. Trying to be friends with her won't help get over her. You know she's not serious with you on any level especially since she cheated on you and even on the first date she was holding hands with some other guy.
There are so many better girls that will treat you way better. You deserve that, not this.
So I don't think you should be friends with her if you want to get over her.
Good luck!

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DrPlayer answered Wednesday March 9 2011, 5:47 pm:
The only time tested strategy that works is to find someone you like better. Finding a new person is the only way to get over someone. It may seem unlikely now but trust me soon someone else will come along. Just give it time because life has a way of surprising folks, just keep an open mind to the idea and be ready.

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Razhie answered Wednesday March 9 2011, 4:34 pm:
Stay away from her. Completely.

You will not get over her if you try and be friends.

She's a nutbar, and you are heading down an equally fighting and unhidged road. Don't talk to her anymore, and stay away from her.

Getting over someone takes time. It takes much less time if you stay away from them.

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