Ok,so about a month ago I was dating this guy.I had liked him for a long time and he sort of played me when we were just friends making me think he liked me.Then we dated around a month ago and we lasted 2 weeks and he broke up with me saying I was "too young for him" ....when I'm only a year younger than him? So I said ok(he broke up with me right before valentines day too) I actually found out the real reason he broke up with me is because I wouldn't have sex with him.He said I was good for nothing but looks! So I tried to move on and after a month I'm emotionally exhausted of acting like I don't care about him.I tried so hard to forget him,I quit talking to him,I wouldn't even look at him,I started talking to hoards of other guys,even his worst enemy! But I still miss him,so,so much! All my friends hate him because he's been known to be a player,but they told me if it makes me happy to go for it.One of my friends is good friends with him and she tells me he talks about me alot,but its not very appropriate talk.Its stuff about how he likes me and wants to screw me and he wants me to give him blowjobs and how he wants to hit my G-spot and all this other sexual stuff.I know its bad but,I fell hard for him I wouldn't ever have sex with him or anything else and he knows that and that's why he ended the relationship in the first place.He always asks me if I hate him and why I don't talk to him anymore but,I just thought itd be the best thing to do! But he makes it so hard to forget him when he texts me,always looks at me,talks about me to my friends,comes to my locker,tries to talk to me! So the question is based on the information I gave you do you think I should take him back and try it again,I just want him to change he wants sex and I want a relationship.
I don't know,there's plenty of other guys that like me,and they're not ugly...I just don't want them and I don't know why? So any help is appriciated thanks in advance!(:
By the way I'm 14 and he's 15 if that helps with anything.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? AskShay answered Wednesday March 9 2011, 10:34 am: ok let's say this first, i am proud of you, you are indeed to young to be think or having sex right now,
if this guy really like you then he will respect your wishes in not doing the DEW yet, having sex should be with someone you love not to just get his approval, he sound like you need to freak him first in order to be his girl,boys at that age only think of sex, personal if a guy keep putting pressure on the fact then he aint good anyway.
so basely follow your heart which seems like its in the right directions , wait till you are ready , L.I.G. HIM honey ,he indeed not worth the time ,effort,or the topping to go with anything.
Shay [ AskShay's advice column | Ask AskShay A Question ]
crystal_marie_bosworth answered Wednesday March 9 2011, 2:44 am: wow. yea. good girl.too young to start havin sex...sounds like a player...always got sex on the brain....if he really likes you, he'd wait to have sex with you.(im sure you know that)but yea, go 4 it! but whatever you do, dont go to him, let him come to you, let him ask you out again, and then see how he acts this time...if he doesnt ask you out again (which he deffinatly will), then hes obviously not worth thinkin that hard about, anyway, right? and if he does(he will:)....and he still cant act right,then hes just too stupid to be with a lady like yourself :) you tried twice,dudes a loser...but mabie he will act right this time.time will tell! crystal-im 25 [ crystal_marie_bosworth's advice column | Ask crystal_marie_bosworth A Question ]
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