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how does this s@#t work
Posted Saturday May 14 2011, 7:11 pm
so im in high school. i am a junior. now the thing is girls always talk to me i'm not a "playa". but it seems every time i get close to a girl i end up fucking up every time so i'm just wondering what other guys do and don't do.
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My ex wants to take our son for a week... BUT...
Posted Saturday May 14 2011, 5:13 pm
i'm a teen girl and my ex boyfriend wants to take our son for a week. he barley ever sees our son the last time was a few months ago. he is very unpredictable and when we were together he would get high around our son. i don't want that happening anymore so i said no. he is very pissed off at me and said i was being completely unfair. i don't want him to be sad and i want my son to know him but i don't trust him. what should i do?
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an on-off crush that is tearing me apart
Posted Saturday May 14 2011, 4:28 pm
well, i really like a guy, well at least i think i do, because honestly i don't know anymore, i'm so confused. i mean, he's the most amazing, nicest guy i have ever met, and i melt every time i see him smile and naturally smile back.
he's so kind to everyone that i can't tell if he likes me or not.
ok, just to indicate a silent convo between us is, i had to go to his accounting class cause my teacher wanted to see me and he was sitting right in the front and he was having a bad day, his brother fell through a window... and he was glum and he looked up and did this beamy/glowy smiling thing at me like he was the happiest guy in the world, and i smiled back and his smile widened and he mouthed "Hi" i smiled aga...
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best friend stealing crushes?
Posted Saturday May 14 2011, 1:59 pm
so i liked this guy for a while. not a big crush, but he was freakin' amazing.. then my bestfriend started liking him, and eventually they went out. So they jut broke up.. and i'm over him now, and started liking someone else who i've had feelings for, but not exactly liked since i was in first grade. and guess what.. she likes him now! and asked him who he liked.. and he said her and not me. So what do i do? :(
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help need ideas of what to do!
Posted Saturday May 14 2011, 12:18 pm
me and my bestfriend are planning on hanging out on monday, and we have no idea what to do! we're limited on money, and he wants to do something different besides chill at his house cause thats what we normally do every other time. any suggestions? x
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so confused! i dont know what to think or do :(
Posted Saturday May 14 2011, 9:51 am
im 18/f hes 19/m
okay so i really like my bestfriend, alot. and for the last 6 or so months we've been extremely close. he got out of a 5 year relationship 7 months ago, and he wants to enjoy singledom. but at the same time he told me of this mystery girl that he has significant feelings for, and how hes scared to tell her how he feels...he doesnt want to make another mistake like his ex, but he wants to be with this mystery girl so badly. The thing is, about two months ago a mutual friend of ours, told me that he confessed to her that i was in fact the mystery girl and he was going to explain everything to me in person. however, that day never came...The thing is, he went on tour with his band for a month and i wasnt able t...
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Seeing him for the first time..
Posted Saturday May 14 2011, 1:42 am
20 Female. Connor 19
Me and Connor used to "talk" for about 4 months. We actually got really close, like we could talk about everything. That's until he decided he didn't want to talk anymore and blew up on me. We didn't talk for about 2 months and then he eventually apologized twice for being such a jerk and asked if we could still be friends. Connor has a big house, and so they always have these huge parties. Well he said I could come with Joe (One of my good friends, who also knows Connor through hockey) one time and that he hopes to see me over the summer.
I haven't talked to Connor in about a month now since he asked if we could still be friends. Well just yesterday Joe texted me saying "Ar...
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I honestly don't know what to do.. Very emotional
Posted Friday May 13 2011, 11:07 pm
Hi I'm 15 f a little bit above average in weight and never had a boyfriend. I've been crying like when something random happens I go into my room and cry but its completely off subject why I do cry. I use to like this guy Tom and we had a small thing going on in the summer(never had my first kiss yet) anyways I've liked him and allways thought about him until march my one friend that knows him well she showed me a text that really helped me get over him and thenext day I met a guy Dom and he's a yeAr younger and will be joining my school next year but we talked a little bit and I thought he was cute but I barely knew him anyways but since I have no like good friendship with guys I can't get Tom off my mind and I've tried talking to other g...
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Movin on because I know I cant be with him but im so sad :(
Posted Friday May 13 2011, 9:34 pm
I was with my boyfriend for a year and a half and we've been through alot and I put up with so much. He is 3 weeks clean from pills and pot. We've done a long distance relationship for the past year and I love him so it didnt bug me so much. Now that I'm home for summer, I was hoping we would just enjoy our time either together but I'm realizing he's no good for me and none of my friends or family like him because I'm so sad and unsure all the time. He would constantly break up with me and then come back saying how much he loved me and blah blah blah.He would break up with me cause he didnt think he was good enough for me at the moment and he used to say how he really wanted to find me in the future cause he wants to marry me. But enough is...
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Would this be considered rape
Posted Friday May 13 2011, 8:32 pm
Hi,
I am a man. I am in my middle 20's and I have been in a relationship with the love of my life for almost three years now.
When I was 15 I lost my virginity to my father's girlfriend (she was 40 something at the time). I recall wanting to do it but now I feel like it was statutory rape. I look back on it as a shameful event and I never want to talk about it. This is actually the first time I've written it and told anyone.
My girlfriend/ soon to be fiance and I have never talked about me loosing my virginity. I feel like it will never come up but if it does I won't lie about it.
I just want to know if I was raped. Should I feel ashamed of what happened? Should I tell my girlfriend even t...
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The tale of a football player and a loner..
Posted Friday May 13 2011, 8:01 pm
Soo I was in gym one day. We were doing our dancing unit, and we were line dancing. There was this guy that was always in the front row that always looked back at me. And yes, I know it was me, because he did it in the hallway too. But I had no idea who it was. Then, I found out.. I knew the name right away. He's a junior, (I'm a freshman, by the way) one of the best athletes around.. you know.. one of them jocks. I immediately thought I had no chance with him. So I added him on facebook and talked to him one night. I was surprised.. he was soo nice!! haha and when I asked him if he even knew who I was he said "not really I think you're in my gym class though." I thought that was good.. wouldn't you? I mean he knew who I was.. tha...
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Texting A Guy
Posted Friday May 13 2011, 6:09 pm
Okay so I met this guy at a concert, and he asked me for my number and I gave it to him. We then went to eat and we talked for like over an hour. Hes really cool and I like him.
He texted me the next day after we ate, but then he didnt text me again. So I text him after a day or so, and he still answers and has a conversation with me when I do text him.
He works 12 hours a day during the week, so I figured thats why he doesnt initiate the conversation.
But, I initiated the conversation the last couple of times, and I'm wondering if me always starting the conversation is strange? Like clingy? I like him, and I want to talk to him, so I just text him. I'm trying not to overanalyze it and just get to know him.
I'll take guys/girls perspective on this. thank you!
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Cheater what do I do ?
Posted Thursday May 12 2011, 11:02 pm
17/f Long story short I caught my boyfriend texting his ex a girl he choose over me in the past calling her baby & all this stuff , I broke up with him though we have been seeing eachother everyday as usual , I haven't had sex with him until today and he ask's me back out . He's cheated on me like 3 times in one year and is mean and yells at me a lot and I feel like id be much better without him but I love him so much and feel like id die without him . Idk I told him yes and now we are back together, but I have a feeling this will happen again . Am I wrong for giving him another chance ? Idk if I'm right or wrong ,i promised my friends we wouldn't get back together as I had in the past and always let them down , I know they're going to be mad at me..
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Should I Apologize?
Posted Thursday May 12 2011, 10:13 pm
Me: 13 (almost fourteen)
Him: 14
Both in the eighth grade
Today, I finally took a stand for myself. My best friend (who is a guy)had jokingly called me a bitch for the past three weeks, and he treats me like nothing. So I finally told him that, and he called me dramatic and won't talk to me. He's now running off with girls that he knows don't like me, just to make me jealous. I really want to keep being his friend, but I really don't know. I
Help?
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My ex slapped me across the face in front of everyone
Posted Thursday May 12 2011, 8:58 pm
My Ex and I fight ALLLL the time, even though we've been apart for a year now. While we were dating he treated me horribly... he would yell and curse me out, and force me into sexual stuff, like physically force. and we also fought all the time. Now, it's gotten to be just stupid. He only causes drama for me and I can't stand it... I try to avoid hanging out with him or texting him or any of that stuff. But even when I do that he still manages to cause problems. His current girlfriend has been spreading all kinds of stuff about me like that I offered to hook up with him and stuff a week ago when I absoultely did not... She's angry because he keeps calling her my name... and she thinks he's like cheating on her with me. And we don't even tal...
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Is 3 months to soon to be fingered? I am 18 years old?
Posted Thursday May 12 2011, 7:35 pm
Hello, I am 18 years old and have graduated highschool.
I am a virgin still. And am dating this guy for 3 months now. My question is, is it too soon to be fingered/hand job in your opinion. I have done this before but with a guy I was in a relationship with for a year. I want to do it, I mean it's not like im going to have sex or go further but i also sort of feel a tad sad for my mom because we are so close and i feel she would be dissapointed in me. :/
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how to tease flirt, and get noticed
Posted Thursday May 12 2011, 7:31 pm
Well, all of my friends at dances or just in recess always tease the guys. Like, OOH THE WAY YOU SWING FROM BAR TO BAR JUST TURNS ME ON! and they stick their butt out. So like, tease flirting. But the guys always get turned on.. and well i dunno how to do that. i always feel awkward, like not confident enough to do it. Like they might say ew,and reject me even if i'm teasing. and even if i get over it, wont it be weird if all of the sudden i get a boost of confidence, and they notice? (i'm 12 in 7th grade, AND NO THATS NOT TOO YOUNG)
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Old Friend hates New Girlfriend
Posted Thursday May 12 2011, 6:22 pm
Okay here's the deal. I've been good friends with someone for a long while. Let's call this friend "Mr Red". We're fairly close and have been through quite a bit together. our friendship is still strong and tight, and we've got a lot in common, and many mutual friends.
A few months ago, I met someone, let's call her "Miss Blue", whom I am not involved with in a serious relationship. The circumstances of meeting her will be a little odd, so bear with me.
I first heard of her when Red was ranting about something she did. Apparently, Mr Red seriously dislikes her and wants nothing to do with Miss Blue. This is not new, and in fact.. the rest of the clique dislikes her as well. I've always been ...
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i'm dying daily thats why i wanna die completely
Posted Thursday May 12 2011, 7:19 am
what shall i do my problems has been increasing dy by day i loved a person and another person loves me and i couldn't tell him because he is very sensitive and now my brother law and my cousins are threatening me that ill tell everything and close the issue and i love my dad a lot, i went on tour for one day he has mat exam and we did nothing like that, i stayed completely in my sisters home itself we went by train sleeper coach and came by train where hundreds can see us. and i promise on my dad i have just started my carrier and i wanna become IAS if my issue comes to my dads notice everything gets spoiled my carrier and my life too what shall i did i cant tell my pain to anybody i'm dying daily thats why i wanna die completely. and there...
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Show him that I really missed him.
Posted Thursday May 12 2011, 5:18 am
Hi.
Okay my amazing boyfriend has been away on a hockey tournament that is down the other end of the country. (Oh I live in New Zealand. He is down in Dunedin in the South Island and i'm in the Waikato area in the North Island).Anyways he has been away for 7 day and is coming home in 2 days. I want to do something to show him how much I missed him and really love him. He means everything yo me =).
Sorry it's kinda long.
Please help!
thanks =)
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